Temporary dissapearing women

[JosephParticipant 125]

At the beginning of the week I talked to this chick on the internet the other day and I thought things were taking off rather well. We even agreed to meet and she suggested to do it on the weekend. Then, she disappeared.

About a month ago I was chatting with this other chick who went as far as to agree on a meeting date and time. Then disappeared. Then she reappeared again to tell me what she was waiting for my message which never came. In fact, I messaged her twice. The knew I was not going to take blame for her mistake and apologized jokingly.

So, why do women disappear?

The answer, simple and obvious, seem to escape many men, pussified and rewired to believe in wishful thinking.

…maybe she did lost my messages…
…maybe something did come up…
…maybe she was too busy…

Oh yeah, busy she was. That answer is right on the money.

The one and only reason why she disappears is because she has another guy lined up, another one clearly better than you, at least in her eyes, and only if this other guy doesn’t work out she will call the next guy on the list: YOU.

And this is all fine and dandy because, frankly, I am doing the same (minus the disappearing, that is). I do have different women on the side, and I do not mind that you have different men. Just be honest and don’t fluke, biatch.

If I agree to meet you and you don’t reply to my message, I will send you another one. If your first message is “lost”, you will catch the second one. I will not wait until the date is passed and then write to you asking you about why you didn’t reply. That insults my intelligence.

So, this is how is going to be:
– Chick 1: Today is Friday so whether she writes to me or not is now irrelevant. I will not contact her again. I do not need explanations because I already know what’s going on, and even if I do the same I am no second choice for anyone. She chose someone else, fine. That someone else didn’t work out…well, dear, next time make a better choice.

– Chick 2: Same deal. She contacted me the other day to meet “sometime”. This time I replied to her that whenever she is in town she can write to me and “we will see”. My plan for this one is simple: Stay her up. When she writes to me I will agree to meet her somewhere and never show up, and I will not talk to her again.

As a man, you are who you want to be. And I want to be, therefore I am, FIRST CHOICE, premier league, world champion, top of the list. If a woman sees me otherwise we are clearly in different frequencies and therefore no need to ever meet.

[HammerheadParticipant 362]

My approach is to always plan things that I want/intend to do. I invite the woman to attend. If she shows up, fine. If not, so what? I enjoy the activity by myself, and I know to not invite her again (unless I want to). I never plan an event just so I can spend time with a woman, since that is just pedestaling her. Being spiteful and vindictive about it accomplishes nothing…they’re flakes, so I deal with the reality. When a rattlesnake bites me, it is conforming to its natural behavior…there’s no point in my being angry at it. If I insist on associating with rattlesnakes, I have to be prepared to get bitten occasionally.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime.

They had their chance. If they try to ghost you, you do the same thing right back at them. Permanently.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This is why it’s very important to never “ask women out”… or “offer to take her out”.

YOU are going out, to a movie, or for dinner, and “she is joining you”.
She is a guest in your universe, and not the other way around.

That slight adjustment in attitude makes all the difference:

• You don’t “ask” for her number… you TELL her that you want it.
• You don’t “approach women”… you motion that she should come over to you.
• She doesn’t “suggest” when or where you will meet her… YOU do.

This is how you greatly eliminate nearly 100% of “rejection”. She can’t say “no” if you never actually “asked”. So you remove the question mark.

Joseph wrote:

I talked to this chick on the internet the other day….

Never talking or texting with women electronically is a good policy. Great for her. Bad for you. She gets your time and attention, you get nothing. Because they are so fickle, non-committal, flakey and vague, they are temporary pleasures for in-person contact only. If it doesn’t happen in person, it’s never happening at all. You can make that clear to them, too.

Joseph wrote:

She suggested to do it on the weekend. Then, she disappeared.

That’s because SHE suggested it. She’s a guest in your universe, and until you have decided you even like her at all ( and she has made an effort to mean something to you ) ….. she means nothing to you.

… just like her “rejection” or disappearance means nothing to you.

Joseph wrote:

So, this is how is going to be:

What she does with other guys doesn’t mean anything to you either. Women are enough waste of effort of a man’s time attention & vitality already. You don’t compete with other men for them, because every woman who isn’t receptive to you, is doing you a FAVOR.

If you’re not her priority, you’re only an option.
As long as you don’t allow yourself to be a woman’s “option” – you’ll do just fine.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

The thing is, women are always banging on about how men are “afraid of commitment” and all that, but honestly women are the most flakey, skiddish little brats on the planet. It’s ok, just say no I don’t want to go on a date, don’t say yes and then disappear. If a girl ever does that s~~~ like try to lead me on, I drop her. If I was really worth it, she wouldn’t have done that.

You could sit there and analyze why she did it. S~~~ test? Playing hard to get? Doesn’t matter, drop her like a rock. We’ll have the last laugh, because when mgtows start ghosting, we don’t reappear to apologize or play games. We’re gone.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

You could sit there and analyze why she did it. S~~~ test? Playing hard to get? Doesn’t matter, drop her like a rock. We’ll have the last laugh, because when mgtows start ghosting, we don’t reappear to apologize or play games. We’re gone.

I agree

It’s all about control, or the perception of control on their part. (IMHO)
Temporary can become permanent in the blink of an eye, you don’t need the additional grief caused by women like these.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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