Talking with married man over the weekend

[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

Hey not entirely sure this goes here but…..

I was talking with several men over the weekend about MGOTW or rather the view point and reasons. Several of these guys were married and claimed to be happily so (whatever) anyway I was explaining how after my divorce I have way more money than before (yes I know I got out better than most) but my point was that without a women in my life I have more money than ever. He said “Well yeah you don’t have to take care of the kids” to which I replied “No you misunderstand the situation I have FULL CUSTODY of my children and the ex wife does not pay a f~~~ing dime and I still have more money simply because neither my ex nor any other women is in my life.” Almost needless to say the conversation ended at this point as there was no way to demonize me.

Anyway, thoughts?

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

[taliensinParticipant 30]

hm, first of all i am very happy to see you got the children since usually..well,you know, but marriages usually work for a time (and the rare one in a billion actually goes as advertised) so trying to talk someone out of a way of thinking that has been forcefed to them their entire life doesn’t work, sometimes people have to burn their hand to understand that the stove is hot.

 

[experiencedParticipant]

Congratulations on FULL custody. FWIW a reliable atty said that even if you don’t get full custody with older kids, if they keep escaping and coming to you, the ‘burden’ goes on the whif as to WTF.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

Thanks for the congrats. I know that most people are not ready for the truth but it came up and by god I was not going to let the opportunity escape to try and inject some truth.

Maybe if he gets burned in the future he will remember it and start him on “The Path”

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

[EekParticipant 1162]

You can’t lead a blue pill to water, but you might be able to give directions for him to follow when the red pill gets forced on him.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

I’ve dealt with these types. It’s all about misery loves company. Case and point years ago there was the maintenance guy at the gym I go too. Now we talked on and off. Then I started talking about my beliefs. And he thought I was absolutely crazy. His logic was I have to have at least one kid. This is what he kept trying to throw down my throat. Needless to say, I never listened to him and a week ago I got a vasectomy. He tried everything from shame, guilt trips and so forth. He would not listen to my side of the story or would even admit I had a point. This is the stuff that goes on when you are conformed to thinking inside the box. He was a cool guy but totally loss in the Matrix.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I wouldn’t be so hard on this guy at the gym.
I have a daughter and she’s my true love. If it wasn’t for children – this world would be pointless completely.
I don’t know about you guys, but I can actually feel all my ancestors inside of me, and I owe everything to them. They all ground their teeth and worked hard to make sure I show up. And not having any progeny would be the worst insult to all of them – going back millions of years
But it’s just me – I am crazy like that

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Author]

Posts