Surprise Polyamory

[ArcParticipant 350]

In my purple pill days, I had become good friends with a girl that seemed to exhibit NAWALT qualities. Spending time with her was not draining, she was fun the be around, and we had the same hobbies. She had a boyfriend at the time who was a classic San Francisco brand of liberal man. He didn’t take good care of himself, he was obnoxiously outspoken (she would even admit it frustratingly), and many other people didn’t understand why they were together (even I didn’t understand). One day, she visited me while I was still in college and after a party she admitted she had feelings for me. I found out that those two had an open dating relationship. We did date for a few months, and we all communicated to make sure everyone was informed. Her boyfriend said he approved, but I could tell he was hurt; though, I figured it was because he thought she was gonna monkeybranch to me. I tried to clarify that our open relationship would be more for us to figure out what we want, which she agreed in the beginning. Naturally, it became romantically involved. Then, one day she shared her future plans with me. She wanted to marry her other boyfriend, get a huge house, two sets of kids from both of us guys, and have me on the side as a boy-toy. I can understand that that was probably her attempt of trying to have her cake and eat it too, but it was honestly kind of shocking at the time that she would try that. Of course, we argued about her polyamory plan. I respectfully explained just how much that would p~~~ off each set of families let alone how complicated child care, inheritance, housing, or insurance would be and chose to break it off before things got too out of hand. She agreed but was obviously disappointed, even a bit resentful though mostly to her current boyfriend (I am assuming I was more of the alpha in this situation). To be honest, this is pretty convincing proof that yes, even the ones you think are NAWALT probably have that hypergamous instinct that they will switch to on a dime.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I can’t see how an “open relationship” can end well. If I’m going to have a relations~~~ with a woman, she has to be free to date me. Totally free.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Wow, incredibly selfish mindset. Just when I thought they couldn’t get any crazier…

Really though, how on earth does someone come to the mindset of having two sets of kids and a f~~~ boy on the side? How messed up does her mind have to be to think that is even a possibility?

Do you still talk to the girl?

[experiencedParticipant]

Yes.
They’re all greedy whores.
But some are “special” greedy whores.
I’d say she thought she was pretty special.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 3]

Yeah, I have seen similar women before. The worst thing about woman like this isn’t even their devious little plans and fantasies, everybody has those, but the fact that they, somehow in their twisted minds, really believe and expect others to go along with it and be used as their chess pieces. They think the entire world revolves around them and are completely unemphatic and sociopathic.

That’s the difference between men and women. Man likes a girl, he’ll marry her, take care of her, love her and have a family. Woman likes a guy, she’ll marry the house guy for the house, f~~~ the thug, then talk to you about all this and wanting to have a turd baby with you, and expect you to just go along with everything.

It was probably a s~~~ test though. She probably wanted you to f~~~ up her other boyfriend and establish your territory as the true alpha.

[HitmanParticipant]

hahahaha!!!
i called out a t~~~ like that on an on-line dating site..
she said she was “polyamourus”..( spellcheck ! ) ..
i asked her what that was and she explained it..
i said ” so basically your’e a slut ” ..
she deleted me ..
hahahaha!!!!

[ArcParticipant 350]

Samsquanch wrote:

Really though, how on earth does someone come to the mindset of having two sets of kids and a f~~~ boy on the side? How messed up does her mind have to be to think that is even a possibility?

To be honest, she was probably being selfish. She is a bit of a meek girl, kind of plain but pretty funny (kind of a book worm). For the longest time I thought she was with the other guy because she felt he was her only option. To give her credit, she is pretty dedicated; she visits the guy regularly from San Jose to Santa Barbara each week which evolved to visiting me one week and him another. She most likely just wanted to have her cake and eat it too, this guy is definitely no alpha. As for why, I can only speculate on youthful rebellion from her religious home, but that is only speculation.

Samsquanch wrote:

Do you still talk to the girl?

Yeah, we still hang. She doesn’t really pick at it other than minute pining. Hell, she even thanked me for getting to date me. I’d be more worried about whether or not she takes it out on the other guy to be honest. Women seem to have a little more loyalty to the alpha in a typical cuckold relationship.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."

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