Sugar Mama (Married. Not to me.)

[UptownjesusParticipant 95]

So, I’m in this really bizarre situation, and I want some MGTOW feedback. I’ve always been s~~~ty at relationships, and I usually leave them with empty pockets and hurt feelings, and I’ve always generally sort of taken it up the ass from the women I date. However, I began having an affair recently with a married Indian woman that I work with. At first, I just didn’t give a f~~~ and wanted to get laid. I saw it as “gambling with house money” because she was married, and I wasn’t in love with her. At a certain point, her husband had an issue with his green card and had to go back to India. She told him that she wanted to stay here because she had just taken on a new job and she wanted to commit to it. He was NOT happy with the proposal, but somehow she convinced him to go back without her. At this time, I started staying at her place, driving her car, and she also started giving me money. A LOT of money (for me). She would regularly give me $300, $500 and she was always spoiling me. However, at the same time that all o this was going on, her company was growing increasingly annoying to me, and I couldn’t stand to be around her. I really started growing anxious for her husband to come back so that I could get the f~~~ away from her, and when he finally did, I acted like I was extremely hurt about her “choosing him over me” and I got the f~~~ out of there. However, even though she’s back to living with her husband, she has continued offering to buy me lunch everyday, and offering to help me pay my bills and such. I feel really uneasy about the whole thing, but at the same time, it’s hard to walk away from the financial benefits. Her husband knows full well at this point that I was driving his car, f~~~ing his wife and sleeping in his bed, but I’m pretty sure he’s too big a pussy to ever do anything about it. The only big worry that I have is that he’s going to leave at some point, and I’ll be obligated to stay with her. I’m curious about MGTOW’s take on this situation, and would also really like some advice if anyone has the time.

 

P.S. I also have a kid and make child support payments every month. Not sure how relevant this is, but it does serve as sort of a demonstration that I’m normally only accustomed to having money taken from me with regards to women. It seems nice to flip that script.

#pancaketittyshaming

[Anonymous 12]

OK so for a start you are a f~~~ing legend. I explored being a Sugar Daddy and walked away from it due to the women being self entitled bores, so it is really cool to see a man getting the Sugar treatment.

I guess you have to work out how much you want the money compared to how much you dislike her company. I understand your concerns about possibly feeling obligated to stay if her husband leaves again but I don’t think you should see this as different to any other type of relationship, you can walk away any time you like. Don’t feel like she is buying you. She is renting your time and nothing more.

Do you feel comfortable having a honest chat with her, discussing parameters, maybe trying to reduce the time you spend with her but still keep the sugar flowing? Try to make it work but make yourself a little more comfortable?

 

 

[UptownjesusParticipant 95]

I’m not a legend at all. Before this s~~~, I could barely bribe women to spend time with me. And this chick is a lot to bare. I regularly ignore her texts and phone calls now, and this is what I see when I pick up my phone:   https://drive.google.com/file/d/0BxqmX3RtZjqDeXZPcW1PQXp0bzA/view?usp=sharing

#pancaketittyshaming

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Yes .. she’s renting you. Whether you want to rent yourself out ..  is your choice.

You want your cake and eat it. Not gonna happen.

Make your choice man. Go or stay … it’s that simple.

Having said all that, there is something fun about another woman paying your child support. Sort of social justice right there.

[FrediKrugrParticipant 11]

Hmm, what about trimming/cropping the picture to leave her face out? Not to be a jerk, but it is indeed a personal information …

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Run Forest Run…she is having some hidden agenda.its better  you should leave now before its too late..

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

That is great. You should use that money for child support and keep having sex with that woman. Then break up if she gets too annoying.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

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