Sued By Your Own Parents…

[AutoliteParticipant]

I’m asking if any of you have every been sued by your own parents (or any other close family member)? How did it make you feel? How did you deal with it? Was there ever any reconciliation?

Although it never actually happened, many many years ago (after a falling out) I learned from an uncle that my own father was considering setting me up in a law suit. Without going into too much detail, I was the only one at the time in the immediate family who held a steady job and I was therefore the most ideal target for a fleecing. Family members suing each other was not uncommon in my family. I am now curious as to how common it might be in other families.

Looking back on it now I think that it gave me a new a perspective on human relationshhits in general…

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Its never happened in my family but some people have been essentially outcasted or disowned.

My grandparents disowned my Aunt (even though you cant disown a 60 year old woman lol). But they will never speak to her again because she married and divorced the same guy TWICE! They forbade her to remarry him after about 15 years separated. She did anyway, which was ofcourse a giant mistake…

Some great, great Uncle was permanently barred, unwelcome. My great, grandfather was a wandering alcoholic around the time of the Great Depression. They “claim” he was abusive… in any event, he wasnt present in their lives much… I view him as a drunk OFP, Own Fukking Program.

As far as a Lawsuit. I cant speak for other members but if anyone tried to sue me, Id be settling out of court if you know what I mean. We’d both be permanently arbitrated. You dont do that to blood.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Its never happened in my family but some people have been essentially outcasted or disowned.

Yeah, I can understand that. I eventually “disowned” my whole family. Zero contact…no regrets…never looked back. I really think getting sued (or an attempted suit) by a close family member permanently changes you.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

My wife’s brother died at age 45. His brother handled his estate. The widow, my wife’s sister in law, went through a million dollars like s*** through a loose goose. She refused to work and it was gone in eight years. Though it was her own doing, she blamed everybody but the pope for the fact she went broke. Of course she sued her brother in law, and of course she lost, the original case and her lawyer f***ed up the appeal. I haven’t seen her myself in 20 years.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

More common then you think.

I have to keep this vague, but A man I respected greatly had his own brothers and sister turn on him. He not only made sure his deaf sister always had a job, he made sure to take care of anything that came up for her. Mind you the other 2 brothers were off doing their own thing. Years he worked hard to build his businesses, and real estate ventures. He spoke to me about what his sister and brothers did to him. Mind you, I’m a kid in highschool. He told me the most MGTOW thing ever. Just wash your hands and move on. It was sick.. But the brothers had talked her into trying to argue that she should get a portion of the value of the restaurant. business he built from a little hamburger stand.

Mind you, on one side, we have a multimillionaire. On the other, a 14 year old bus boy. Yea. Its bothered me for a long time. How is it like having the only person you can talk to some kid.. damn. Imagine having maybe 30 million dollars of wealth, in 1998. And still sleeping and taking naps at the restaurant you own. Being there from open to close. All so you could make sure to take care of your sister, then she gets this great idea, that her 8 hours a day and even the house she lived in was all given to her by him… Then stabbed like that in the back. I still remember his hand gesture of him washing his hands…

Next would be my uncle. You know, when you have money, everyone wants it. I can’t really go into specifics, but dear god.. I would hate to be him. He wanted to give me a hotel to start up and run, but I could never accept any money from him. Still to this day, he keeps the chromebook I bought for him. I don’t think people understand how much you start to despise people sioly expect you to pay for everything just because you earned your way there. And he did. But Family always trying to rip and ask you for money or cheat you out of it? man.. Wealth can be a curse…

You guys out there looking for a Arranged marriage? Better sleep with one eye open. If they don’t rob you latter, they will rob you of your sanity trying to import their family members.

My own mom I think ran into something like this. For years she would send things like shoes and all sorts of things to Fiji. And when she sponsored them to come here, we are talking 10k easy, my mom would tell me her own sister wanted money to watch me and my sister. BTW, I was STILL cooking, cleaning up my sister and taking care of her while my moms sister in law, did f~~~ nothing. Then even tried to threaten legal action from what I heard. Crazy..

Just like my old boss said.. Just wash your hands…

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

My parents have both passed, and I always had at least a decent if not good relationship with both of them.

That’s about where it begins and ends.

I haven’t spoken/seen my siblings from 15-35 PLUS years, and my only regret is that I didn’t do it SOONER WITH EACH ONE OF THEM.

I also have NO CONTACT with any other extended family members for decades, and there are No REGRETS there either.

I was lucky enough to have recently cut off all and any contact as limited as it was with the resident Old Hags siblings as they too showed there true colors. It took about 20 years, but they too have shown that they too are SCUMBAGS.

In each and every case, they fu(ked me over and I just simply walked away. No need for phone calls, emails, half-hearted lying “apologies” or the like.

FU(k EM ONE AND ALL !!!!!!

LIFE is just simpler, quieter, and more peaceful WITHOUT “family” fu(king you over when you least expect it. I EXPECT it at work, and unfortunately WAS TAUGHT to EXPECT it from “family” as well.

I have my kids, and it’s UP TO THEM about what type of relationship we have or don’t have just like it was with every other “family” member that I was more than happy to walk away from.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AutoliteParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

I don’t think people understand how much you start to despise people sioly expect you to pay for everything just because you earned your way there.

Yeah, I’ve seen this attitude in my own Father and it surprised me. I’ve always had a few different cars because… I really like cars. He felt that I should give my sister one of my cars just because I had more than one.

Now I never owed my sister anything and she was a complete insufferable kunt who always treated me like shhit my whole life. But just because I had a car that I could give away if I wanted to, he felt that I owed her one…

[AutoliteParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

Just like my old boss said.. Just wash your hands…

Good advice. Just not easy to do…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

LIFE is just simpler, quieter, and more peaceful WITHOUT “family” fu(king you over when you least expect it.

‘Family’ can and will phuck you over quicker than strangers… 🙁

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Yeah, I have been sued by my sister in law. My mom passed away and before she passed, she accumulated a lot of medical bills. I ended up covering her medical care for a while. My sister in law thought I was hiding money from her. I wasn’t. Her nursing care cost more than 20k/month. I didn’t even see this bitch for more than twenty years and suddenly she shows up demanding money. I hope I never hear from this greedy person again.

It’s usually about money.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22503]

Autolite wrote:

iMickey503 wrote:

I don’t think people understand how much you start to despise people sioly expect you to pay for everything just because you earned your way there.

Yeah, I’ve seen this attitude in my own Father and it surprised me. I’ve always had a few different cars because… I really like cars. He felt that I should give my sister one of my cars just because I had more than one.
Now I never owed my sister anything and she was a complete insufferable kunt who always treated me like shhit my whole life. But just because I had a car that I could give away if I wanted to, he felt that I owed her one…

Did you mention to him that dads give cars to their daughters, brothers dont give cars to their sisters unless they are junk handmedowns.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3753]

I think I’ve met three guys that I could trust with my own life, none of them were family.

Sorry you have to go through this now, Autolite.

I have a feeling I’ll have to deal with shiit like this in the future too. They’re all selfish turds. Which is why I’m one too. MGHOW ’til the end.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Did you mention to him that dads give cars to their daughters, brothers dont give cars to their sisters unless they are junk handmedowns.

I would have gladly given her one of my cars, if she had ever actually treated me decently, like a human being. But she had always been an insufferable bitch. Why should I be made to feel obligated to someone who treated me so badly and to whom I owed nothing???

[AutoliteParticipant]

SpiderHerder wrote:

Sorry you have to go through this now, Autolite.

It’s all in the past. But I’ve only been recently reflecting on it.

It has taken me many years of adult life (and much retrospect) to fully realize just how dysfunctional my family actually was. It is a curious thing that it has taken me so long to come to this realization. You sorta get brainwashed. My father would always boast about being such a fantastic dad and how unappreciative we were as kids. That conditioning stuck well into adult life.

My mother was never a real mother either. She treated us kids like complete shhit. She hated us and she never really wanted children. She really liked to play cruel mind games and she tormented us when we were little. But as a kid, you just think that that kind of treatment is normal…

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Most times there is a greedy, spendthrift female at the back of it.

Wills are an even bigger area of contention. In my family, every time there was a dispute about an estate, there was a woman behind it.

On one occasion, money was left in trust to grandchildren. The mother then tried to break the trust and grab the money for herself – to rob her own children. Fortunately, the lawyer in charge stopped her.

As a child, I remember noticing wimmin slipping away from the funeral in order to get back to the dead persons house before anyone else, so they could loot it.

Speaking to a lawyer specialising in Wills & Probate, he commented that he often witnessed stomach-turning scenes as wimmin fought like animals to grab as much as they could.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Wills are an even bigger area of contention.

I purposely had myself written out of my father’s will (before our falling out). My siblings were/are complete degenerate a55holes and I knew that I wouldn’t want to have to deal with them after my father’s death. Dad never left anything worth fighting for anyway. Certainly not anything that would have been worth the aggravation…

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Autolite wrote:

But I’ve only been recently reflecting on it. It has taken me many years of adult life (and much retrospect) to fully realize just how dysfunctional my family actually was. It is a curious thing that it has taken me so long to come to this realization. You sorta get brainwashed.

This is so true.

It’s taken decades for me to understand the damage that was done to me by a crazy woeman, and to try and get it out of my head.

My father would always boast about being such a fantastic dad and how unappreciative we were as kids.

My father was alright, it’s just that he couldn’t cope with my mother and her appalling behaviour.

He was merchant navy, so his response was simply to increase the time at sea (the same way other men increasingly work late in order to avoid their wives).

My mother was never a real mother either. She treated us kids like complete shhit. She hated us and she never really wanted children. She really liked to play cruel mind games and she tormented us when we were little. But as a kid, you just think that that kind of treatment is normal…

Wow – does that strike a chord. The only difference is that I knew from my observation of other families that it wasn’t normal.

My mother hated me because I was an obstacle to her obsessive social climbing. In later life, she told me to my face that I was never wanted. She was big an cruel mind games, too.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Wills are an even bigger area of contention. In my family, every time there was a dispute about an estate, there was a woman behind it.

Check out the movie ‘August:Osage County’. It is an interesting look at a family dealing with the patriarch’s sudden death…

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Autolite wrote:

I purposely had myself written out of my father’s will …(

Good move. I knew someone who did this.

The beauty of it was that the family didn’t know. When the person concerned died, and the wimmin started screaming at him and demanding money (he was the logical beneficiary), he simply told them that he had no interest in the matter and that they could go fukk themselves.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Monk wrote:

When the person concerned died, and the wimmin started screaming at him and demanding money (he was the logical beneficiary), he simply told them that he had no interest in the matter and that they could go fukk themselves.

Death and divorce always seems to bring out their true nature… 🙁

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