Suddenly………everyone is hitting the wall and I am loving it!

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Lol awesome.

🙂 nice. lol

DeepInThought wrote:

She is smart enough to run a successful business but is also feminine enough for a man to be the man and dominate her sexually and for her to be the feminine role. And that doesn’t mean him paying for everything, she definitely carries here own weight financially. When we go out for dinner and drinks we take alternate turns in paying even if we haven’t caught up for 6+ months we know the score.

There must be somebody somewhere on this planet that fits the bill for her. Maybe she just hasn’t looked hard enough to find the right guy. With the resources you say she has at her finger tips, seems like she could really forge ahead with this NAMALT(?) she is looking for. Sounds like she wants 1/2 MGTOW 1/2 I am not even sure kinda guy. NAMILT = Not Any Man Is Like That?

DeepInThought wrote:

she cannot get any guys to date now as they are 100% intimidated by her success and assets.

DeepInThought wrote:

she’s a girly girl and would love a guy to lead her in the relationship.

If I have absorbed the snapshot of her from you correctly, I don’t think the guy she wants can even exist.

1. Cannot even get a date? I am more concerned on trying to figure out how I would be on a date with her, instead of seeing it as a business/interview meeting. The intimidation of success would be secondary, but yeah, knowing I would not be able to afford paying for myself, let alone both of us any where fancy. I consider that more of just not an option than me being intimidated, but still a bummer.

2. Would love a guy to lead her in a relationship? Not would love to love and respect the guy & be loved and respected by him? Be in love with him, and him with her? Fall in love with him, and him fall in love with her? But just loves the idea/notion of a man leading? I say no kids, I am the leader.

3. Wants to be dominated sexually. Based off my definition or her’s? Intimacy? Romance? Love? Love Making? Money? She pays for it? How dominated? Does everything I say? Sex Slave? What if she wants sexual fantasies I am not down for? Or is everything a business/political transaction? Of course, if I had no reservations about point 2, It would just be up to my discretion, and there would not be any questions regarding point 3

So, if this were actually a real deal here, we knew each other & were real life friends, and pretending that you were trying to hook me up to meet her, this would be my take :

Does she have a problem on me asking her out to places I can afford? If not, perhaps a date can happen.
I decide when the sex starts in this? Only way I could see how I am dominating her. I don’t even ask, I just say when, where & how. Period.
She have a problem with me never living with her & never getting married, so I can stay my own man? If not, that should cover her clingy concern.
Or, is she offering a dowry, to negotiate terms of marriage in order to have a relationship?

What I am saying is this. Let’s say you set us up and we met. We are attracted to each other, and she is down with what I have said in this post. Well, if that were the case, and we could fine tune and really figure it out, of course I would at the very least date her. Which sounds like it would cover 1 of the 3 things she is wanting.

Would she be interested?

DeepInThought wrote:

feminine enough for a man to be the man

Because this sounds attractive to me, and I am curious.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Either you haven’t heard all of her criteria because you are friends or she has disqualified every potential suitor up to this point. With millions of men actively looking there’s no way every one of them has been too afraid to approach her. She’s smart and earned her money, she’s not just going to give it away. Sounds familiar. I wouldn’t spend too much time worrying about her finding a guy, she could have made a quarter as much of her fortune and spent her surplus time finding two exes by now, or she could have never worked a day in her life and have three different baby daddies paying her. In the system, that has always been within her power to choose. Her choices have all revolved around her, and that’s probably who she’ll have at the end.

I am not slamming your friend either. From your explanation she sounds like exactly the NAWALT that would have no reason to destroy a man if things ended, but since she has more to lose it’s just smart to keep to herself at a level where what she’s worked so hard for is hers alone.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Ogre wrote:

I am not slamming your friend either. From your explanation she sounds like exactly the NAWALT that would have no reason to destroy a man if things ended, but since she has more to lose it’s just smart to keep to herself at a level where what she’s worked so hard for is hers alone.

Sounds legit *thumbs up*

[Anonymous 11]

Stargazer wrote:

there are those who develop an explicit skill in its use and who are therefore able to retain power over men and younger women well after their looks have faded out,

Great point, Doc, in showing us the other less known dimension of feminine power. The aged spider queen controls and manipulates many other webs until death. Women build interlocking webs of social control with her being at the top of the pyramid of webs. It’s like an invisible fence.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

DeepInThought wrote:

Sounds legit *thumbs up*

Figured as much

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Ogre wrote:

Her choices have all revolved around her, and that’s probably who she’ll have at the end.

Yeah, but I thought I would play with it anyway. Handwriting on the wall was HUGE

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Phantom wrote:

Ogre wrote:

Her choices have all revolved around her, and that’s probably who she’ll have at the end.

Yeah, but I thought I would play with it anyway. Handwriting on the wall was HUGE

I never looked at it that way. Thanks for the objective views and responses guys, appreciated!

Deep

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Man! It’s so true. When I was in my teens and 20s, girls wouldn’t even talk to me. It was as if I didn’t even exist to them. The few girls who did acknowledge my existence would always go into publicly shaming me.

Now I’m 32 years old, going on 33. Girls from 12 years old all the way up to their early 60s are flirting with me now. They especially flirt with me once they find out that I live on my own, have my own transportation, and have NO children. They nearly fall to their knees and bed me to give them a chance. It feels GREAT! I work as a sales clerk at the post office, so I get to deal with female customers flirting with me all of the time. I don’t even have to put effort into it.

To all of the young guys out there, listen to the other gentlemen in this thread. Forget about girls right now. Understand that your value is directly proportional to your age. All you’ll have to do is focus on your finances, educate yourself, and keep your body in shape. Even if you lack confidence right now, don’t worry. Your confidence will increase with age as well. Just hang in there, avoid marriage, and especially avoid having children at least until you’re older.

[Anonymous 2]

I too am loving it.

I see 25 as the upper age limit, now and forever.

The kicker is that getting sex from these women is so EASY as a 33 year old. I’m going as far as I possibly can with pragmatic polygamy.

Q: “Isn’t it about time you found (did effort for) a girlfriend?”
A: I have a harem.

Remember those girls that told you I HAVE A BOYFRIEND when you asked the time or directions? Should I turn I have a harem in a de-facto response?

[Tex41Participant 45]

Absolutely agree with this 100%. Listen, I turned 30 last week. Did the military for a bit, now I’m back in college working on a degree. I am easily the oldest guy in every class I take. I’m surrounded by girls (not women) 18-20, a select few are 21+. I’m a fairly attractive guy, full beard, and pretty outgoing. My goals right now are getting back into really good shape and smashing my courses. Within the first week, I had no less than 3 girls flirt with me hard. Never in my life have I received this kind of attention. But it’s funny, since going MOW I no longer care. I relish in the thrill of turning down women. I find myself flirting with them, just to play this game. I am not interested, willing to chase, and by far not going to commit to anything. I am simply enjoying being the older, more mature guy who’s seen the world, and has quite a bit of insight to life. It’s funny to watch the 18 & 19 year old dudes look on in amazement.

[Anonymous 5]

Right on man. Destroy them. 😉

[Tex41Participant 45]

Stargazer wrote:

Who do you think those 19-29 year olds were talking to when you were trying to get their attention? Men like you are now.

……….nobody shed a tear for my geeky 15 year old self………….

Nobody. Cried. Ever. So forgive me if I find it difficult to produce a tear……

PRREEEEEAACCCHHH!!!!!!

[Anonymous 42]

Gentlemen, lets not gloat on these poor impoverished souls that spent many years hopping from wallet to wallet, while also hopping from bad guy to bad guy in between. I say lets not gloat, LETS CELEBRATE! POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, look at em being flung from the c~~~ carousel straight into the Wall™! You go girl, ride that bull! POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, Yeehaw! POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, Kippie Ki a! POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT! You ride em cowgirl, and ride em hard! POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT, POP SPLAT……

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Growing up we all have heard the line “good guys finish last.” From the male perspective I thought of that as if you work hard and become successful the women would flock to you in the end. Now that I have worked hard, become successful, and have my s~~~ together, I’m definitely getting more attention from women than I was 5 years ago…that’s how its supposed to work, right?

Well let’s think about that saying from the female perspective. If good guys have to bust ass and jump through all kinds of hoops to land a woman, what is that telling women? Go ahead and make a mess of your life and ride the carousel all you want, because in the end a good guy will just love to marry up and be your beta provider since you are such a prize.

F~~~ that, no thanks. I’m never finishing this race. Its so much more entertaining stopping 1 step from the finish line so you have a close up view of the post wallers on the other side desperate for you to finish.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@beer.. Preach, Brosus.

“Nice guys finish last!!”

“But I will finish on your face.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

When I was 18 to 29, I was basically going for and lusting after women in the same age group, 18-29. Back then these women would not give me the time of day. It hurt. It really hurt.
Now that I am 41, these same women have all hit the wall! I no longer have any interest or any need for them. They hold no power over me anymore.
The bonus is that now that I am STILL interested in the 18-29 age group of women……………….suddenly I am no longer just another “young dude.” Suddenly I am more attractive to these girls.
So if we men keep in shape, keep our looks, and have confidence, we are suddenly way more attractive than when we were under 30.
Am I being delusional or do you agree with me on this?

100% True.
Most women are so used to getting free s~~~ because they have a pair of t~~~ that they can’t even grasp the idea of not using your gender to get everything you want.
As always, remove their attractiveness, then see what’s left.

I’m sure you’ll get a good laugh out of it. 🙂

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

I am 31 and 20 year olds seem to be interested in me.
I cant say I am not interested in them sexually, but I make no effort to be nice to them or even polite.
Funny enough, they seem to be more interested in me sexually in this case.

But since sex is a trap, I stay clear (I turned down 5 girls this year, all very attractive and I would have fallen to them before MGTOW).
None of them have shown any interest in me since then btw (they keep asking me about what I do and so on, but I think once they see that they cant control you with sex, it kinda crushes the idea or something).

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