Success after Failure.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Hi everyone,

I want to get back on the road to success again. The success I had was short lived. I guess I did not know how to play the game among people. I am going to change that. My unemployment has effected my life, no doubt, especially my W’s desire for me. She’s a good woman. I don’t know if other woman would have put up with my issue. No, the issue is not drinking, drugging, or criminal activity. I do none of those. If anything, I might have a mild learning disability. But it’s nothing that has not gotten in the way of other’s success. In fact, I am educated and happen to have skills and talents. So, I am taking what I have, and I am re-branding myself.  I do have a job interview coming up.

I just have to learn how to play the game of networking among others in the work place. I have to make friendly connections and not sabotage myself. Mind, you I am well into my middle age. But I can’t turn back the clock. I just hope my new found success will be a turn on for the W. I know it will take time.

Any suggestions?

Thanks

[Anonymous 23]

Hi PZ1$, great to meet you.  Can I ask, what is the issue that your Wife is having to put up with?

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Hi Ynys, nice to meet you too. The issues my wife has to put up with is my history of unemployment I guess. But she’s been really good about it. At least to my face.

[Anonymous 23]

I can completely understand where you are coming from, but playing devils advocate here(Sorry I do that a lot) – Why are you obligated to be constantly employed? If she hasn’t got a job, can she not have one? Also, you say that

My unemployment has effected my life, no doubt, especially my W’s desire for me.

Your earnings should absolutely not be an indicator of how much she desires you or even loves you!

Honestly, feel free to tell me to bugger off, I just don’t see why a clearly intelligent and talented guy such as yourself should measure your worth based on your wife’s expectations of you.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

“Honestly, feel free to tell me to bugger off, I just don’t see why a clearly intelligent and talented guy such as yourself should measure your worth based on your wife’s expectations of you.”

Wow I appreciate that. And I try to live up to that but wanting and needing sex gets me so needy. And I know neediness is very unattractive to anyone.

My wife works full time. However, I am rebranding myself and am determined to become successful. After all, I don’t want to be dependent on her in any way.

“Your earnings should absolutely not be an indicator of how much she desires you or even loves you!”

We have been saying “i love you” more and more lately.

[Gone SurfingParticipant 216]

hey pz

It is my honest opinion that success only comes after failure. It is how we humans learn and improve. It is how we learned to walk, to ride a bike or any thing else  worth while doing.

So good luck to you in your future because if you learn from your mistakes you can achieve anything you want. It might take time and effort but you can do whatever you want.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

I don’t know if I get out of this long bout of unemployment. NOTHING IS PANNING OUT. I feel like such a loser unable to provide for the family! Others give like my wife’s family. I feel like such a total loser.
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[…Spectator 1165]

you have to figure out how to up your game. i encourage all men that are going thru this s~~~ to scan all of their documents and make copies of all messages of the Fee-mail tryiing to take you down. Still, in 2015, you may not have a chance man.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

… wrote:

you have to figure out how to up your game. i encourage all men that are going thru this s~~~ to scan all of their documents and make copies of all messages of the Fee-mail tryiing to take you down. Still, in 2015, you may not have a chance man.

 

I will start scanning. I hope you’re wrong. I can’t go on like this.

And I’m not totally sure I understand what you meant by “Free-Mail trying to take me down…” and not having a chance in 2015.
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