Strategies for Repelling females at work

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

I’m in a bit of a bind. I’ve been ghosting hard these last few months and now I’m committed to a full MGTOW lifestyle.

The problem is the more I ignore women and focus on myself, the more attention I get from women. It’s a funny but annoying paradox.

I don’t want any attention, and I’m looking for a way to repel them. I wear a uniform to work so I can’t dress like a hobo nor would I want to.

I’m thinking about either getting a fake wedding band or just telling women I’m gay. I figure homo’s are a protected class so they are much harder to shame.

I’m in my own world and I don’t give a single f~~~ what people think of me. I try to be the quiet no bulls~~~ guy, but people see me with my head held high, relaxed and happy. I guess they get curious.

I’m wondering if I should just start walking around with my head down, complaining about fictional kids + debt, so that I can fit in easier.

Or maybe I should create an imaginary girlfriend for when people pester me with their questions.

What you doing for new years? Just layin low with my gf, Ill say. Steady slaving away at the plantation like a good boy.

Little do they know Rosie Palm is my real gf and I’m laughin all the way to the bank lmao.

What do you guys think my best option is? I need some camouflage for 2016…

Not my property... Not my problem

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Just ignore them and tell them to stop wasting your time. In theory, they should be offended that you don’t think the golden vagina worth chasing. If they don’t stop, file harassment charges and restraining orders.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Anonymous 29]

Simple, just tell them you are in a relationship. No other explanations, none.

[SunStormParticipant 1277]

Jackinov wrote:

Just ignore them and tell them to stop wasting your time. In theory, they should be offended that you don’t think the golden vagina worth chasing. If they don’t stop, file harassment charges and restraining orders.

Rather poor advice….The key is with women that you don’t want to actually be an asshole to them because they will plot and plan on how to destroy you…..

I’m often in the same situation as the OP….. the more confident, independent and obviously happy you are the more they want you……

It’s flattering and fun….. but it takes real dedication and strong will not to buckle and give in to the attention……. but it’s really easy because women tend not to hide what assholes they can be underneath the veneer,,,, just pay attention to the people who are attracted to you and focus on their weaknesses and realise that they are showing you their best side….. they will be hell after a couple of months…..

Just be nice, a regular guy, it’s unlikely they will make any moves and if they do start to make it clear they’re interested just drop hints and make banter with people around you that you’d never get married, you’re too busy with your hobbies or whatever and you’re not much of a ladies man or whatever…. sure they will still want you, but they will KNOW that you might reject them and they would never risk it…. so they won’t hassle you and you will still be able to maintain a civil working relationship without them hating your guts and trying to destroy you… honestly, with women you have to be careful, they are literally dangerous creatures… best handled with care.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I think you hit on it. Women want attention so by ignoring them you attract them.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

Just be extremely nice and polite to them. That will make them thing that you are harmless, and as most of people are nice to women anyways they won’t see you as anything special. If they push the issue after that then tell them that you are flattered, they are all lovely gals, etc… but you have a girlfriend.

It is very unlikely that they will try to get pass the “nice guy” barrier, unless you look like Brad Pitt or something like that.

[SunStormParticipant 1277]

Anonymous wrote:

Simple, just tell them you are in a relationship. No other explanations, none.

You risk making things hard for yourself as people will then try to find out who you’re with….. and you risk getting caught in a lie……. Besides, I actually find it hard work to lie and invent girlfriends or whatever….why the f~~~ should I have to lie just to keep some broads off my back…..

And then if you get caught in the lie and they find out somehow (by asking your friends or something) then you’re really f~~~ed……they will have it in for you.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

It’s quite simple, for me at least.

Hide in plain sight.
Answer leading questions with a joke answer or a non answer, with a smile.
Call on bulls~~~.
Don’t let yourself get pushed around or stepped on.
Follow your own principals.

Something like that has at least made it easier for me, on work, but as always, it’s probably very different from person to person.

laying low and being silent, can lead to becoming a target as well, you never know, so it all depends.

Whatever suits you the best, and makes you most comfortable and relaxed.

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

My aunt works at a place I deliver to daily. She decided to play matchmaker recently, so she told all the females that I’m an eligible bachelor. Now every time I walk in there I have 5-10 girls starring at me trying to chat me up.

See I told my family over the holidays that I’m celibate now and focused on work. Apparently Auntie took that as I can’t get laid and decided to “help” me. Or she is just f~~~ing with me, my family is like that…

I can’t avoid going there so I guess I have to resort to being an asshole. The one girl was pestering me with what you doing for new years bulls~~~. Trying to get me to take her out and entertain her no doubt. No thanks. Basically I told her I’d rather work.

I’m trying to keep quiet about the project I’m working on but I’m sure my Aunt spilled the beans on that one too. F~~~. I don’t want to show off and trigger the hypergamy by revealing what I’m working on.

I should lie and say I’m working on some japanese anime s~~~ or something. Or that I’m trying to beat Dungeons and Dragons or some s~~~. That will repel them all I’m sure haha.

Not my property... Not my problem

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

NotMyProblem wrote:

I’m wondering if I should just start walking around with my head down, complaining about fictional kids + debt, so that I can fit in easier.

I would avoid this. How we behave has the ability to affect our moods. If we behave like a content person, we tend to feel contentment.

NotMyProblem wrote:

I’m thinking about either getting a fake wedding band or just telling women I’m gay. I figure homo’s are a protected class so they are much harder to shame.

If you have a friend or acquaintance that is gay, I would explain your problem and have him give you an honest opinion. This may be difficult. Speaking to stereotypes, homosexuals tend to take a greater interest in personal appearance. The use of ‘products’, eyebrow plucking, having your hair just so, manner of dress, etc. Then there is the possibility that some hag will want to introduce her to her “Gay friend”.

I don’t know If you have any faith, or are particularly religion but anther idea may be a good fit. Bring a bible to work. Have bookmarks sticking out of it. Read it on breaks and make notes in a note book that you have with the bible. Also, have a rosary or better yet, wear a cross around you neck, or have some other religious talisman, like a St. Christopher’s medal on your key chain. If a woman asks about all of this, tell her you are studying to be a lay minister.

Women that aren’t TRADCONs will avoid you like the plague. Women that are will get moist just thinking about you. Telling TRADCON women you are “promised” to someone else may buy you some room.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[WallyParticipant]

I am one of two men at the place I work with 30 women and I have to agree with the strategy that Truthspoon discussed, just be a regular guy, nice, and yourself and this has worked for me the 13 years I have worked there. I have gotten more shaming language from Manginas than I have from women in fact.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[RennieParticipant]

Use their own strategy against them. Say “I have a gf, her name’s x and she lives in another city. You have to make sure they have no way of finding out though. That means no social media accounts, no talking about it needlessly, no notoriety and so on.

Obviously you should only use this if you have to. Better not to lie about stuff.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

just keep it business, anything non-business, don’t indulge.

Female Co-Worker, “I got these new cute shoes”
You, “Ok.”

Female Co-Worker, “want to get some coffee?”
You, “No.”

Anything not business / work related, remove the fluff from the talk, and keep it to the point.

Don’t bother with making up any excuses, just tell them flat out, “i’m not interested”
Your body language also needs to play the roll, don’t look at them if you don’t have to.

You don’t have to be an asshole, and if they think that not indulging them in their idle conversations is being an asshole… well then they have HUGE MASSIVE ENTITLEMENT problems.

“The one girl was pestering me with what you doing for new years bulls~~~.”
Girl, “What are you doing for the new years?”
You, “Nothing”

it should never go past the first response, but just incase, let’s say that it continues…

Girl, “Want to go to my place and f~~~?”
You, “No”
Girl, “Am i not pretty enough for you? Are you a misogynist?”
You, “I’m busy”
Girl, “With what?”
You, “Relaxing”

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[SunStormParticipant 1277]

нσтησσв wrote:

just keep it business, anything non-business, don’t indulge.

Female Co-Worker, “I got these new cute shoes”
You, “Ok.”

Female Co-Worker, “want to get some coffee?”
You, “No.”

Anything not business / work related, remove the fluff from the talk, and keep it to the point.

Don’t bother with making up any excuses, just tell them flat out, “i’m not interested”
Your body language also needs to play the roll, don’t look at them if you don’t have to.

You don’t have to be an asshole, and if they think that not indulging them in their idle conversations is being an asshole… well then they have HUGE MASSIVE ENTITLEMENT problems.

“The one girl was pestering me with what you doing for new years bulls~~~.”
Girl, “What are you doing for the new years?”
You, “Nothing”

it should never go past the first response, but just incase, let’s say that it continues…

Girl, “Want to go to my place and f~~~?”
You, “No”
Girl, “Am i not pretty enough for you? Are you a misogynist?”
You, “I’m busy”
Girl, “With what?”
You, “Relaxing”

I like your style but they will sincerely hate you for it…..

The last thing you need at work is women or a woman who hates or even mildly resents you…..they can literally make your life hell and ruin your relationships at work in so many ways….besides, it’s actually good for people to like you……who wants to be resented or whatever and always have to watching their backs…

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned…… you’d better believe….. the bitterness and diabolical fury a woman can tap into is something alien to us men….

For us men we at least need a decent reason to get mad and destroy someone…..not women, just hurting their feelings is enough.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

How not to be attractive to women at work.
Hmmm
Pick your nose.
Scratch your ass.
Burp.
Wear heavy cologne.
Act shy.
Act nervous.
Give off a vibe of being shy lonely and pathetic.
Make a scene where your mother appears to call you and order you around but where you patheticly try to stand up for yourself but surrender and say “I’m sorry mommy I’ll do whatever you say”
Women cannot stand a “mommas boy”
.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[BDParticipant 1146]

нσтησσв wrote:

Anything not business / work related, remove the fluff from the talk, and keep it to the point.

Don’t bother with making up any excuses, just tell them flat out, “i’m not interested”
Your body language also needs to play the roll, don’t look at them if you don’t have to.

I agree with this, your body language says way more than your words. Don’t even look at them.

Leykis says limit your work conversations to; “Hello”, “How are you”(optional), “Good bye”

With our new age of privacy invading self promoting social media, people think they have a right to know what is going on in your life, they don’t and they do not even deserve an explanation. Leave no dirt in your trail as you leave them all behind for your better life. If you become famous or very successful, these are the same people that will use your own stories against you to try and bring you down, don’t play that game.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Come to work with a black eye and say your gf kicked you in the face because she smelled another woman’s scent on you..

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Right after my divorce I was doing concrete block work and a buff bi /lesbian coworker started flirting with me.One day she said to me ” I want you to come home with me tonight. “I said Noo I’ve been abused enough.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

NotMyProblem wrote:

I’m thinking about either getting a fake wedding band or just telling women I’m gay. I figure homo’s are a protected class so they are much harder to shame.

Sound logic at first, but they’ll still give you attention. It won’t be shaming though. They’ll act like you’re “one of the girls” and try to gossip with you and all that s~~~. THEY”LL TALK TO YOU MORE.

I’d say, make it clear that you’re taken, even if you’re not. They’ll leave you alone. Give ’em simple answers and be as boring as you possibly can.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m going to go with Truthspoon’s advice on this one.

Be nice and fake like you really care when Chad after Chad hurts them. You don’t want them mad at you, and you don’t want them attracted to you. Being a nice guy is the ultimate woman repellent. You want them all saying you’re such a nice guy that you’ll make some other woman a great husband. If you are really, really good, you can possibly have them tell you you’re like a brother to them.

Use the nice guy dilemma to your advantage. If you fake having a girlfriend, you risk having a homewrecker type target you.

I would not use the lying about being gay thing either in this situation either. It’s best used for women you’ll never see again.

Sovereign is such a nice guy he’s like a brother to me.

[Author]

Posts