Story time about my marriage

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

A little more in-depth story about my marriage and divorce.

Setting was at hospital with my father. He was terminal and I had recently gone through divorce and was reconnecting with my dad.

He told me that every divorce was the man’s fault. He explained my life decisions to me.

I made the decision. I handed over control of my marriage to my wife knowing that she would fail. My father even knew the day that I did it.

It was the day I became agreeable. I looked my wife in the eye and said, “yeah, sure, whatever”. And then she did.

My father said that day he knew that I had pulled the load as far as I intended. If the cart wanted to go off a cliff, whatever. If the cart wanted to go down the ramp and into the water, whatever. When my wife screamed why won’t you let us drown, whatever.

My father explained that our society is this way now. It is acceptable.

A woman has no power. She has no control. My father spoke from the viewpoint of a family. Once you have children with a woman it is not about the man or woman, etc, etc.

My father didn’t grasp how our society had changed. In his day he lived in a small community where everyone knew each other etc.

My father didn’t grasp that now a man has no control over his family. The governing body has authority. Etc, etc

Peace brothers

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

That’s the trick. A woman will fight you with tooth and nail to take control of your relationship. The better it’s going, the less satisfied she becomes… until she manages to wrest the wheel out of your hands.

If you fail to get out at or before this point, you’re going off the road and into the woods for sure, it’s just a matter of how long before you’re overturned and on fire in a ditch.

Women can’t be happy letting a man drive. They’ve swallowed too much feminist bulls~~~ to ever allow a man to be in control and at peace, steering a relationship or a family steadily in the right direction. They’re desperate for this sort of guidance, but they just can’t let it come from the man they claim to love. It makes no sense but there it is.

As a man you’ve got two choices… drive the team or go it alone.

[Anonymous 42]

DorkShit wrote:

My father didn’t grasp that now a man has no control over his family. The governing body has authority.

Well said Darksith! ownership of the family is now the property of hive minded monolithic government.

A complete inversion and molestation of natural law that no natural man using his natural instincts and natural logic wants any part of!

Mass media has been ignoring the marriage strike and depopulation in favor of their own gynocentric agenda. We’re numbering in the multimillions and still we’re ignored.

They’ll ignore current events until their world turns to ashes.

Millions of us but yet we’re somehow invisible?

Keep heading for the cliff ladies!

Hasta la Vista!

YOU’RE TERMINATED!

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Women can’t be happy. Men can’t be happy.

My father said that raising children was a responsibility. Happiness is not relevant. This is where he believed our society went off the rails.

Protecting the family matters. Nothing else.

That is why if you marry you should always keep your wife pregnant and busy. He told me that as a man that married a woman and has children, you should keep the water level just low enough that she can breathe when on her tip toes.

The feminist would well and scream but my father pointed out that that was how it always was. Only in this modern society are women allowed to be lazy.

Peace brothers

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

My Father also gave me some advice many years ago, “it takes 2 people BOTH Working Very Hard to make a marriage WORK. If you have one that PROVIDES the majority of everything and the other one just takes and consumes, but provides little then you don’t have a “marriage” and it’s destined to fail.” He didn’t only mean finances, but also all the other domestic duties involved in raising a family as well.

He was a tradcon with a twist, and was definitely for Women Working outside of the home as well as in. The idea that you would have a “wife” that wouldn’t work outside the home, but also be a lazy slob and do very little inside the home was completely foreign. Aside from doing her”domestic” duties, she should be working/making money as well. He believed that the Man should be the major “bread winner”, but this did NOT excuse the wife from working outside the home and “bringing home” money as well.

I suppose it doesn’t really matter what our father’s believed, or how they lived. The “world” we Live in is a complete NIGHTMARE when trying to view it through the lens of relationship and marriage.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

One thing to point out about my father is that he was a unique individual.

No woman in our society today would be acceptable to him.

He married my mother. She was probably one of the only women possible to meet his criteria. All my life, I never encountered a woman that could stand to be within a few feet of him. They all insisted that my mother straighten him out.

My mother. She didn’t have a driver’s license. She had 6 kids. How in the world could she do it you ask. Because she had too.

My mother never took medication or saw a doctor. I don’t recall a single day that she was ever ill. She was always busy, period. And I mean busy doing something to serve the family.

My father would point out that mom was the happiest woman in our town. And she was. With her ducklings in tow. He said that his biggest problem was dealing with the miserable women that kept trying to interfere.

What boys in our society don’t grasp is the level of disagreeable you have to be as a husband and a father. The first mistake is selection for a mate. My father’s view was if a woman wants to be independent, don’t marry a man and have his children.

As an illustration, my father was a farm boy that moved to a city. Our backyard was not for manicured lawn use. It contained our food. Our neighbors hated all of our animals. They produced food. He butchered them etc. Half of the backyard was a vegetable garden. In the front where neighbors had plants we had tomatoes and corn stalks! He did allow mom 1 rose bush.

My one brother was so ashamed when people gave us a ride home and asked which house was ours. He’d have to tell them the one with corn stalks.

My father was the original NFG.

Peace brothers

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Awakened wrote:

My Father also gave me some advice many years ago, “it takes 2 people BOTH Working Very Hard to make a marriage WORK. If you have one that PROVIDES the majority of everything and the other one just takes and consumes, but provides little then you don’t have a “marriage” and it’s destined to fail.” He didn’t only mean finances, but also all the other domestic duties involved in raising a family as well.

He was a tradcon with a twist, and was definitely for Women Working outside of the home as well as in. The idea that you would have a “wife” that wouldn’t work outside the home, but also be a lazy slob and do very little inside the home was completely foreign. Aside from doing her”domestic” duties, she should be working/making money as well. He believed that the Man should be the major “bread winner”, but this did NOT excuse the wife from working outside the home and “bringing home” money as well.

I suppose it doesn’t really matter what our father’s believed, or how they lived. The “world” we Live in is a complete NIGHTMARE when trying to view it through the lens of relationship and marriage.

Yep.

Twist to mine as well. My father was in coastguard, married then mailman. When us kids were in school timeframe he went to brake and his tibia leg bone came up through his knee. (Old coastguard injury) he was disabled.

My mom had to learn to drive and got a job. My mother was too scared to drive on interstate portion for the 30 minute commute. She drove downtown on surface street through 50 stoplights.

My father’s point was start out as you intend to go. If you choose to do everything then you will. Any woman that choose to be with him had to make a choice. When he went out to get in the car he started it put it in reverse and left. Never in life did he look back or issue a half hearted command. If you were not in the car then you got to experience him driving away. And believe me it happened. 8 people in a car sucked. If he could lose a few it helped. As he was fond of saying. (Mom kept her mouth shut) dad gave life lessons.

In our house when dad said it was time to leave and you heard the jingle of keys and the front door opening you got your ass in gear.

Peace brothers

[globemasterParticipant 443]

I like your father’s view on how one should keep a wife.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

globemaster wrote:

I like your father’s view on how one should keep a wife.

It’s a hardass view. But that is how he felt a man should be. A disagreeable hardass man is a boys best role model.

He felt that most parents were children that hated their children. Most take on the responsibility way before they are ready and grow to resent the children. (A child takes your life away = reality)

He was as Awakened’s father. A traditional type but with a hard edge of manly survival. He understood how fragile life was and without survival skills you die.
He would say that you should prepare for survival. You don’t know when the day your life will depend on it will come but it will come.

He said that as soon as a baby grew into a child and became aware of life or death you needed to s~~~ test them. A child that has never feared death will think that they control life.

Example. None of my father’s children are picky eaters. In my father’s house there were no snacks. There was breakfast, lunch and dinner. If you did not eat what was presented then give it to your brother, he will eat it. If you wanted to s~~~ test him and not eat then go ahead. My father never started out playing a game if poker with a bluff! As he said, some of the Donner party survived and so will you.

A woman’s role is to take care of the children. Nurture them.
A man’s role is to prepare them for living. Train them on how to be an independent being.
A woman will always try to interfere with her man to protect the child from the danger of living.
One look from my father and mom shut the hell up and went back to the younger child that needed a mother’s care.

Woman, shut your hole and know your role. (He had a low roar when he spoke these words)

Some will point out that white knights would call police today. Yep, they tried. The policemen were some of his poker buddy’s. Back then the authority figures understood a father giving his children life lessons.

Peace brothers

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Another thing is resentment. Today, our society, authority, courts, whoever, allows resentment to be acceptable reason for destruction of x.

As mgtow it is one of the forces we must guard against. Those that resent us and controlling our resentment. Part of the rage stage.

For instance, it is difficult for me to deal with Keymaster. He is such a huge asshole. Imagine being a man as perfect as him. I can barely stand the fact that he exists. He hasn’t made the mistakes that I have. He hasn’t experienced being divorce raped. It isn’t fair that I have been violated and he hasn’t. Etc, etc.

This is how it is when we deal with a feminist. They resent us for being a man. They have been violated more and it ain’t fair.

They don’t see my joy. I don’t hate women. The fact that Keymaster exists gives me hope. Hope that a man can survive. Hope that a man can make it in our society.

My brothers all met up as grown men. My brother Steve told me how much he resented me when we were kids because I could read. (Growing up I had stacks of books beside my bed). I told him i didnt know he struggled with reading. He said that was one of the reason he resented me. I never noticed. I replied but you could walk on your hands and do acrobatic flips in our living room. He said yes, I was the family clown. I could entertain dad physically but you entertained him mentally. Imagine that all the time you and dad spent discussing a book and i didnt understand anything you were talking about. I looked at him and said weird, i resented you. I could only imagine the ability to fly through the air like you. It is never fair is it brother? Nope Steve replied but it sure was cool to win those gold medals.

All of us resent in our lives. It is what women are using to destroy us.

Peace brothers

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