Story of a cheater

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

The other day a memory came back. When I was going through my divorce I went to a divorce support group at the suggestion of my doctor. One woman only came a couple of times. She was blonde and gorgeous. A 10 and though she was 33 when I first saw her I actually thought she was late teens early twenties. I figured she was someone’s daughter. Anyway she shared that she had an affair. She felt guilty and confessed to her husband. Her husband was big into fitness she said because he struggled with weight when he was younger. To get a girl like her I’m sure he was a handsome guy. They had been together since high school. They were both teachers so she wasn’t with him for the money.

She did put blame on him saying he always pressured her about working out and her appearance and she met a man who thought she was perfect how she was and so she had an affair. When she confessed she said he wanted to know what all she had done with this guy sexually and she admitted “everything” and of course said that hurt him even more.

She knew she really hurt the husband and he was devastated. But he wisely immediately filed for divorce even ,she said, when his parents encouraged him to work things out. She was quite distraught. You see he had no trouble finding a new woman and had already told the wife they were planning to get married as soon as the divorce was finalized. Stupid of him, I know, to do it again. Anyway the cherry on top was that she heard through friends that the husband and new (younger, I might add) girlfriend were planning to have kids soon after getting married which hurt this woman too. She said they both loved kids and always thought they would have kids together.

She was crying and upset. I wanted to say ‘you did this to yourself. It’s not his fault. You have only yourself to blame.’ But she was hurting. And there was no mention of the guy she had the affair with. I’m sure he had disappeared from the picture as well. From my own experience women aren’t upset about a relationship ending as long as they’ve got another guy lined up. But she was devastated. At least in that moment.

In spite of myself I felt kind of bad for her. Though I had been cheated on. I was still blue pill to a degree even then. She comes to my mind from time to time. She made an impression. But with red pill awareness I’m sure that pain was due to the fact that in that moment things seemed worse for her. Regardless she was beautiful and I’m sure she found a new guy in short order even if she had a history of cheating.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Bitch got a few c~~~s that same day.

Then she forgot.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Women master tears. It’s how they manipulate. Consider what was her mood when she was cheating? What nasty things did she say about her husband during the tryst? How did she justify her behavior to her chad. What about her kids? Was she hurting? You never really know with woman. They can turn it on and off so fast.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’m going to guess you only felt bad for her because she was beautiful and that, somewhere in your mind, you had an inkling that if she’d been with YOU instead of that “muscle-bound idiot” you wouldn’t have made her cry. That’s the blue pill in effect.

The red pill response is “You f~~~ed up. Better shut off the waterworks, put your s~~~ back together, go find the best man you can and bust your ass to keep him because the wall is coming for you.”

The real red pill response is to not care and not hear the story because you weren’t there in the first place.

[Anonymous 1]

Jack Harper wrote:

She did put blame on him saying he always pressured her about working out and her appearance and she met a man who thought she was perfect how she was and so she had an affair

This is the most relevant part of your story. She’s crying because s~~~ didn’t work out for her, not because she has accepted responsibility and vowed to work to change. She will cheat again, and find another reason to justify it, and then go crying to a group or her friends or whoever playing the victim. AWALT.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

She got caught, but she had no intention to end her marriage yet. She got caught before she could monkeybranch and divorce him.

Zero sympathy.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[DocParticipant]

She cheated. It’s that simple really. No matter what the cause she could have ended things with her husband.
She didn’t want to do that so she cheats.
Can’t sympathise I’m afraid.

It’s just another relationship tragedy.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Anonymous wrote:

Jack Harper wrote:

She did put blame on him saying he always pressured her about working out and her appearance and she met a man who thought she was perfect how she was and so she had an affair

This is the most relevant part of your story. She’s crying because s~~~ didn’t work out for her, not because she has accepted responsibility and vowed to work to change. She will cheat again, and find another reason to justify it, and then go crying to a group or her friends or whoever playing the victim. AWALT.

Well said Brother.

One thing i would also add. SHE MARRIED HIM FIRST. I doubt he just suddenly started pressuring her after marriage, because as a general rule men do not change after marriage. (Unlike women)

In every single story I’ve ever heard like this where the woman cheats on her husband, she ALWAYS has an excuse that puts the blame for her infidelity solely on the man. But she CHOSE him in the first place. In other words, she could have avoided the situation altogether by choosing a man who did not have these defects which drove her to cheat…but she didnt.

Instead, she married him, met another man who she wanted to f~~~, and decided to cheat on her husband. ONLY THEN does it become an issue for her worth ending her marriage over. This is because she is back-rationalizing her actions to escape blame, rather than accepting responsibility for her own actions. Therefore, nothing she ever does is wrong; the only one in the relationship who can ever be wrong is the man.

AWALT. (All Women Are Like That)

[Anonymous 0]

And if he forgives her and takes her back, she will just do it again. No sympathy here.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Every woman, no matter how hot has experienced a man tired of her never ending BS. Those were crocodile tears that she abruptly found comfort for at the of Chad’s D.

That’s why you only saw her a few times. Her monkey branch happened quickly, and she had no need for the meetings anymore.

The hot ones can jump without immediate risk because they’ll catch something, but the wall looms.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

That f~~~ing c~~~. Kudos to the man for kicking her to the curb even though he’s blue pill as f~~~ and getting married again! Maybe has a chance after his next wife in evitable he does the same thing in 10 years.

Either way f~~~ that c~~~ she deserved everything that happened her and truly feels no remorse. Her remorse is that she got caught and divorced.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

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