Stopped Ex from moving. For now.

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  • #816973
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    DBCooper
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    Ex wants to move 105 miles away, effectively screwing up my 43% custody. (Should be 50% but asshat judge wouldn’t do that). Anyway, filed a relocation objection and waiting my day in court. At least I have a new judge. Wish me luck.

    #816989
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    Atton
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    You will need it.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #817023
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    Anonymous
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    hmm still within the state I assume?

    let her go, have a meeting point half way for hand off. When I moved, this was our arrangement, until I moved two states away. at that point I gave up my time, but still pay cs.

    #817047
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    Carnage
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    Have a dna test, kids are probably not yours anyway.

    Let me know the results.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #817163
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    Hopes dashed – thought you’d stuck her with a rusty nail.

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    #817197
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    Have a dna test, kids are probably not yours anyway.

    Let me know the results.

    I wonder what are the nation wide numbers about it. How many betas are rising other guys son without knowing it.

    #817210
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    CUNTHATER
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    I wonder what are the nation wide numbers about it. How many betas are rising other guys son without knowing it.

    I saw a video by Terrance Popp who said about 1/3…..F’ng 33.33%…How can these whores even look at themselves in the mirror???? Oh that is right….they are soulless, amoral creatures of the devil….burn in hell c~~~s!

    American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

    #817212
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    CUNTHATER
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    Have a dna test, kids are probably not yours anyway.

    Definitely great advice! You owe this to yourself.

    American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

    #817257
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    I saw a video by Terrance Popp who said about 1/3…..F’ng 33.33%…How can these whores even look at themselves in the mirror???? Oh that is right….they are soulless, amoral creatures of the devil….burn in hell c~~~s!

    I’m really skeptic, I imagine a number like that, about 30%-40%, because a lot of people that I know got married because the bitch got pregnant. They didn’t do any test or anything to be sure that they were the father, and here if she doesn’t have a ring on her finger, is for sure that she is f~~~ing 2 or more guys aka “parallel relationships”.

    C~~~s aren’t like that brother, they can look in the mirror and they say “you are a smart bitch ! Should be proud of yourself !”, they have PLEASURE in f~~~ing someone else’s life, they feel powerful when they do this kind of s~~~ and get away with it.

    #817262
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    Monk
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    Have a dna test, kids are probably not yours anyway.

    This should be standard operating procedure for any man, even if the pregnancy is supposedly ‘planned’.

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    What are the ages of the kids?
    I went to court and wanted some type of split custody.
    She got 100 pct custody (and the support to match) and I could see my kids “as much as they wanted.”

    My 17 year old son lives on the other side of the same county as me…the last time I saw him was at lunch just before Christmas.

    Many folks have advised me to not demand to win the battle and risk losing the war. [Don’t demand a teenager spend time with you now, and risk his resentment forever…be available, but let them be idiot teenagers, and (perhaps, hopefully) they will come around when they’re like 23.]

    Brother, it SUCKS. Holidays, birthdays, etc., are water works fests spent alone, and certain lines in songs and certain scenes in movies (that aren’t intended to be particularly moving) can open the floodgates from out of nowhere. Here’s some unsolicited advice:

    All you can do is all you can do. If you have done that, rest easy. In my case, even though I knew the outcome before, I at least showed the kids I wanted them by going to court and seeking custody. I text them every morning before school, and again every night when I go to sleep. They NEVER return/acknowledge the text, but I know that from my end, I tried. At least once a week, I text a request for dinner, or to do “anything they want” on the weekend. I never get a response (not even, “sorry dad, too much homework”). But I try to take some solace in the fact that I TRIED.

    Maybe, and I realize this is ludicrously optimistic, when they are 23 or so, they might remember that I wasn’t such a big Richard Cranium after all.

    Being screwed by the court system and losing all your assets is mind-numbingly frustrating, but being forsaken by your kids is paralyzing.

    Again:
    All you can do is all you can do.
    Don’t demand to win the battle only to lose the war.

    #817615
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    DBCooper
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    I have one daughter who is almost 10. She looks like me, has my dad’s chin, and my nose. There is no doubt in my mind she is my child. I raised her since the day she was born. I have always taken care of her, her mother is a piece of s~~~. I was always the one getting her up, making her breakfast, making sure she had on clean clothes, getting her to school, picking her up from school, helping her with her homework, etc, etc. We have had this split custody for almost two years now and it has been working pretty good. My daughter is on a routine and the last thing she needs is a new school, new friends, and new daddy. I get to see my daughter 2 or 3 days through the week and every other weekend. So I still am in her life as dad. My daughter loves me and always says she wishes she could stay with me when she has to leave. When the bitch has my daughter she has to go to before and after care for HOURS. It’s bulls~~~ really. I should be the one to have her during school days since I am self employed and work from home. Judges are morons. If the C~~~ is allowed to leave and move over 100 miles away this is not going to be a possibility anymore. The ex proposes that I release my custody and only see her every other weekend during the school year and switch to every other week in the summer. It even says in the motion that this is still reasonable time with both parents. F~~~ing bulls~~~. If I allow this bitch to move 100 miles away she is gonna try to shack up with Chad. Of course her reason for moving is because rent is cheaper. F~~~ that. I know that Chad lives in said new town. Worst case if they allow her to move, so will I. I don’t want to do that and she doesn’t know I will do that, but I will do what I have to do to make sure my daughter has at least one sane parent. My ex was raised by a single mother and I cannot allow this vicious cycle to continue. My ex father in law warned me many years ago that she was crazy, her mother is crazy, and her grand mother was crazy. I should have listened and run. My daughter’s only hope of being a nawalt is me. I will NOT give up. Hopefully I get a judge that actually does something in the child’s best interest. I cringe every time I hear that phrase, because I have yet to see it.

    #817648
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    NoMore
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    My thoughts are with you DBCooper.

    My STBxW wants to move out of state with our kid. Her reasoning being that she will have a better life and therefore our kid will as well. She completely ignores the fact that doing so takes the kid away from the father, me, and limits contact to every other weekend.

    The sad thing is that I was so brainwashed I actually agreed with her at first. Not so anymore. My court date can’t come soon enough to settle this.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

    #817748
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    NoMore, don’t give up! I fought for a year to get the 43% custody that I have. It took me months to convince the GAL that the C~~~ was a lying piece of s~~~ and that I was not a dead beat dad. I even agreed to the ex moving 25 miles away after the divorce. This still allowed me to take my daughter to school and pick her up like I have always done. I took on the burden of the drive. Also it was a better school district, so I did what was best for my child, not the C~~~ or me. 105 miles is too far to continue that though, and the C~~~ knows it. Also her moving will put my child in a lesser school district. All I can do is present my documents to all of the lies and hope for once the family court system does what is best for the child.

    #817789
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    Your daughter is old enough to realize what a great father you are & what a C~~~ of a mother she has…..in 8 years she will be free from any custody of that C~~~. No matter what the court rules, you can’t go off, lose your mind, & do something that will keep you from your daughter forever….even though that C~~~ probably deserves one between the eyes.

    American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

    #818844
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    NoMore
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    DBCooper, thanks!

    My lawyer and I spent a bit of time trying to hash out custody. He kept telling me that if I let her move out of state once, I’ll never be able to get back any physical custody. We finally came up with a good shared custody plan that will work with my work schedule. I could tell he was relieved to finally get through my thick head and lingering brainwashing that, giving her what she wants was going to not just inconvenience me but also likely lead to her alienating my child from me.

    I just need the judge to approve the custody. Court date coming up soon.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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