Stop watching porn

[bladeParticipant]

Just a tip i will throw in when i use to wank alot try sitting on ya hand to make it numb then go for gold.just a tip for you guys who like to wank over porn or anything.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Stargazer wrote:

What’s the big whoop about porn? You watch some people f~~~ for a few minutes, yank your crank, wipe up the mess and get on with your day.

It’s not the porn that gets you… it’s the desire to have the kind of females and experiences you’re seeing in the porn in your real life that does it.

Controlling your biology is not the issue. Controlling your mind is. Once you have control over your mind, it doesn’t really matter what you do with your dick any more.

Agreed. Controlling your mind AND emotions. Then you are free. I actually have experienced girls acting like porn stars in bed but the great sex was never worth putting up with their s~~~ty messed up personalities.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

I agree and I think I mentioned this in another thread before.

In my opinion porn is not recommendable once you’ve gone full monk.

There are way better ways to spend your time and energy.

We are men and we are capable of greatness.
Don’t settle for less!

Monk

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I agree there are side effects … but porn is just an essential survival strategy (not really) for those having a hard time controlling their libido.

Also if you’re really busy, you watch less and less porn.

Any type of addiction is bad. And it is not really wise to watch porn for 3-4 hours a day. I used to do that when I was 15. Would get up at 3 in the morning and watch till 7. Messed up my head pretty well.

Now-a-days I have more activities on my hands, so don’t get the time.

Masturbation should not be confused with watching porn. Its possible to masturbate even without porn. All you need is a creative imagination.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[clint englandParticipant 341]

I think it’s like anything else, if it’s in moderation it’s fine. I must admit i use porn more than i’d like to and i always feel tired after, if i could just do it a few times a week instead of every day. I think it would be better. As i’ve gotten older i don’t feel the need to do it so much these days.

I would however say it probably messed up my drive for life a little as a younger man.

I’d never completley stop though as biology is what it is. I always make sure i choke the monitor lizard before (on the rare occasions) i go for a night out. Keeps the temptation down to go with a girl and risk losing my freedom or health!

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

As I have learned from Stealthy, no!

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

There are two kinds of women: those who hate porn, and those who make a living from porn.

Why do women hate porn? Why do women want to eliminate it? Because they see it as competition.

That alone should be enough to recommend it.

Anonymous wrote:

Porn kills your soul honestly lmao and makes your dick limp.

Nah. Porn is just another meaningless entertainment. Nothing more.

[Anonymous 54]

We should all be the Masterbaters of our own lives!
Just dont over do it.
For myself, Im just too put off to women anymore. I have such a clear vision of how they see us.
I do not want them to even touch me anymore.

[BeeParticipant 700]

Porn is not just harmless fun. It floods the brain with dopamine and rewires attraction circuits. It can cause one to not be attracted to real partners, not find the real sex act stimulating enough, etc. Look up porn induced erectile dysfunction. Masturbation isn’t the problem. Even normal porn wasn’t a problem. The unlimited nature of the internet porn is a problem. It is also not what I’d want for my wife or daughter. You may not like women or want relationships, but they’re people too.

My usage is down sharply but I’ve found it harder to quit than tobacco.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

I’ve done porn from one extreme to another. I decided to take a week off and watched porn for 12 hours a day for a week. Aside from being really tired (and having sore b~~~~), I noticed no difference. I’ve went 2 months without watching porn or masturbating at all. Other than wanting to f~~~ just about EVERY woman on the planet, I saw no difference. I’ve experimented with masturbating daily, once a week, twice a week, every other day, one week on and one week off…..NO DIFFERENCE.

So my conclusion in all of this is, masturbate as frequently as you like. It doesn’t hurt you even if you do it a LOT. Just make sure it doesn’t interfere with your job or your life and there’s no problem. Personally I range from twice a day to once every 2-3 days. Depends on when and if I get the urge to release. I’d say on average it’s every other day.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Antipathy wrote:

I see no problem with porn. There was a time when i had no internet access for weeks, and it made me feel frustrated, and made me want to bang real chicks. There is no risk involved with porn, there IS with actually having sex. If you don’t like it, leave it, but i will tell you for some guys, it’s a safe and sound way of getting your *needs* taken care of, without the risk of pregnancy or STD’s.

That’s how it is for me.

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[JuehueParticipant 1316]

Varun wrote:

Masturbation should not be confused with watching porn. Its possible to masturbate even without porn. All you need is a creative imagination.

Yup, or you can just replay your favorite scene in your head

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Bee wrote:

It is also not what I’d want for my wife or daughter. You may not like women or want relationships, but they’re people too.

What are we supposed to do about that? I don’t get where women have anything to do with this.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I’m with Blade on this issue. Been monk for 23 years now and don’t miss it a bit. I want nothing to do with women; frankly i don’t even like the sound of their voices.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I don’t know, man. If you feel that way, it’s great. But it really seems like the no wank challenge thing that was going on a while back. People talked about a lot of s~~~ happening like more energy, more social just from not masturbating. It seems like a placebo effect. You get all these positive results if you think you get them. Hell, as far as I’m concerned, jerking it is as natural as breathing. People get way to involved on the topic because of all the sexual politics going on today.

Go for it if you want to, or don’t. It’s like changing what kind of bottled water you drink. Sure, switching from aquafina to fiji might make you more outgoing, if you think it does.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

At my age the equipment doesn’t work very often anyway so no great loss, and as I do not watch TV, or go to movies, or listen to pop music I’m not inundated with the culture telling me I need sex/women. Its true: Out of sight/out of mind.

Looking back I never had all that much sex to begin with. I found sex complicated, stressful and messy. In my old age I find the idea of it unpleasant— but I understand where you young guys are coming from—the hormones are pumping.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Well porn here would be somewhere between 0 and 1 on harm to self and harm to others, so it tickes my nerve that OP in one day bashes porn and in other thread promotes cigarettes and alcohol.

I have been at many extremes, been without mastrubation for months, and off the scale per day – harm was 0 either way. While with alcohol and cigarettes you see very quickly what are real consequences.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Porn is no different than any other activity that has the potential for addiction. I know people who ran themselves to death pursuing health, and others who drank themselves to death. It’s your call if it is a problem or not. If you think it is a problem, then it probably is. I you don’t, then it’s probably not a problem. As long as you’re honest with yourself, you will know. No one else can tell you when it’s time to change you’re behavior.
If one friend says you have a problem think about it, if 3 friends say you have a problem, think about it harder.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[,Participant 1301]

why would I watch something that I don’t give a f~~~ about

legal, sure keep it legal, profitable.
tie it to masturbation? neither leads directly to the other even if they go hand in hand.

with joy/without hate

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

PistolPete wrote:

I found sex complicated, stressful and messy. In my old age I find the idea of it unpleasant

That made me laugh cause I feel the same way.
This how I think after some heart surgeries and all those drugs that killed my libido. I used to be a total horn-dog and couldn’t live without sex, and now I was happy to see it go.
My thought is “Hell no, I’m not sticking my dick in there cause then I have wash it again.”
Amazing how much hormones f~~~ with you.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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