"Stop Violence Against Women" — or how "being a man" means you lose every time

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

Initial caveat — I am a pacifist and a spiritual person who believes that all consciousness comes from the same source — the elemental nature of the universe.   Men, women, all races, hell all ANIMALS, plants, fungi, and in fact all matter, we are all one.  Any harm one being does to another it actually does to itself.  This preface is to avoid any implication that the post to follow has anything to do with advocating anyone should hit anybody.

The statement “be a man” means, at its core “accept suffering.”  Really, that’s all there is to it.  No one ever said “Be a man — suffer less.”  It does not compute.

On the other hand, the suggestion that a WOMAN be asked to suffer is an anathema.  So of course, the absolute mind-crushing event for someone who clings to the definitions of “man” and “woman” is the idea of a man hitting a woman.  Conversely, the idea of a woman hitting a man pushes no buttons whatsoever.  A man should be man enough to take it.  If a woman hits a man, it’s because she would have been less happy not hitting him — and that would be asking her to suffer.

All of these points are critical for males to understand, to recognize how women use violence and suffering against men.  They CHALLENGE men to suffer more.  Any suggestion that you may be avoiding suffering is considered an accusation of failure to “be a man.”

Just by placing you in the role of “man” a woman is asking you to suffer.   Pick up the check.  Open the door.  Buy the ring.  Support the family.  Give up your seat on the lifeboat.

The ubiquity of this role is how it hides.  Being a “man” is so all-encompassing we have an extremely hard time stepping out of ourselves to see how we are manipulated.

And lastly, and MOST IMPORTANTLY:  Guys, women want you to hit them.

I’m not kidding.  No, I’m not talking to you, f~~~face who beats his wife bloody and threatens to kill their children if she tells anyone.  I’m talking to YOU, guy who has never touched a woman, and is afraid of the power in his clenched fists, as his girlfriend screams at him “be a man!”

Because this normal guy, as soon as he loses his s~~~, and hits a girl, has lost everything.  You think those are tears of defeat?  No, those are tears of JOY, because she has finally accomplished what she’s been trying to accomplish — you’ve broken.  You’ve lashed out.  You’ve made her the VICTIM, and a female victim, under normal circumstances, commands more power and control than any man in the world.  You’re going to jail, buddy.  She’s going to be told by her friends that she’s a “hero” that she’s “strong and amazing” for getting away from you.  NOTHING SHE HAS DONE can possibly be seen as negative, or as causing any of your problems, any longer.

Know this, guys, when you do battle with women.  “Be a man” and you lose, every time.

[DiygkasParticipant 103]

Great text.

[Anonymous 14]

Like your profile pic Smacktalk73 reminds me of something similar from my childhood days. Only in my case it wasn’t a sibling as the kids in this pic obviously are.
That little coochie was the scariest thing I saw back then and I was only 4.. 😛

 

[KahnParticipant 41]

Everything is violence against women.

at least according to women and white knights. No matter what you do as a man, you will always be in the wrong and it will be skewed as “violence”.

hell even “disrespecting”(in any context) women or not “asking nicely” (for whatever) can be construed as violence by these f~~~s.

That’s why you should just rewrite the phrase to mean what it really is: destroy men.

in truth, that’s what “Stop violence against women” means, because when nearly everything counts as “violence against women” than just its an attempt to criminalize any and all male behavior.

In the next few years us men are going to see the walls close in on us, MGTOW is the most logical choice because its going to be that or jail (or jumped in the street by white knights) because of some inane bulls~~~ that made a woman unhaaaaapy.

Society is creating its own noose, I for one will not be sad to see it hang.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Your absolutely right.

Your life is literally in her hands.

That’s why a man living with a woman, married or not, is the man sleeping with the enemy.

Remember that movie? It was the first shot over the bough at the beginning of the third wave of feminism.

Farah Faucet burns her husband while he sleeps because he “abused her” at some point. At the time the fact that he was in no way a threat was well known to be the point of the movie. Men are the enemy within even while they are sleeping. It is open season especially if you have an existing DV report in your hands.

It’s funny but like every boy my age had this poster of Farah Faucet over his bed in 1978.

After the first major feminist make over, we see the helpless victim.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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