Stop holding out secret hope for a NAWALT

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

I think it may be just another lingering part of blue pill programming. It’s as bad as a belief in the soul mate myth. I see men lately still saying they believe in this or have known unicorns. Bulls~~~….this belief can still f~~~ up even a seasoned MGHOW. Don’t get sentimental or romanticise women. AWALT, my brothers, AWALT.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 3]

Agreed. I’ve said this in another topic earlier. To me, I just do not care, at all. I want nothing from women.

But you know, men are stupid. How many topics have to be made of guys with 10, 15 years of marriage, getting divorced and their heart broken, until this myth is laid to rest? How many times do the MGTOW who are still trapped inside their marriage have to come here and say the same thing? How many times do we have to post the divorce rates and statistics? How many times do we have to go over how women think and what female nature is?

Enough is enough.

[WallyParticipant]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I think it may be just another lingering part of blue pill programming. It’s as bad as a belief in the soul mate myth. I see men lately still saying they believe in this or have known unicorns. Bulls~~~….this belief can still f~~~ up even a seasoned MGHOW. Don’t get sentimental or romanticise women. AWALT, my brothers, AWALT.

When anyone asks why we talk about women a lot it’s because of this. Great post. There are no unicorns.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Dancing MGTOW-

Good topic. Men sometimes see the world as they want it to be rather than for what it is. Men sometimes have a hard time accepting reality.

I have seen more than one friend crash because they were looking for NAWALT.

I personally am very wary of the “nice girls”, the girls who might be considered by some to be NAWALT. As a group, they are very adept at telling men what they want to hear. (lying bitches)
These ladies can go crazy on you in an instant.
While I’m getting better at ignoring women, I still get p*ssed off by antics of the “nice girls”.

NAWALT girls napalm your life. Avoid these bitches.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Nailed it!

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Nah NAWALT is real. They exist.

I tell you they are real, they exist in your mind.

Unfortunately their lifespan last as long as her need to keep you hook.
They are very vulnerable to the marriage contract, signing the marriage contract will kill her quickly.
If Unicorn survives the marriage contract she will be kill by boredom, Chad, hive, government, need for drama.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

Brothers, we NEED to hear this over and over again.

I don’t understand why, but there is something inside that keeps trying to tell me that a true friend, companion, lover and confident is still out there somewhere. That surely out of the millions of women on the planet, there are a few that have not yet been corrupted.

The brain knows now that there are not, but there remains something deep within the soul/gut that longs for this being that simply does not exist. I don’t know if it ever did in the past, but it does not now. However, I have to keep reminding myself on a daily basis, because the longing in the gut never completely goes away. Maybe it will in time, maybe the programming just has to be driven out.

One thing I do know, is that now I can recognize these manipulating, self serving bitches where before I could not. Once you know what to look for, you start to see them everywhere. It is truly incredible. It is not just a saying, it is actually true…AWALT. It kind of blows one’s mind when you grasp it for a few seconds/minutes at a time.

I watched Melania Trump on an interview talking about her husband. She seems to truly respect and support him while understanding that he is his own man and there is nothing she can do to change that…and she says that “I don’t want to change him” with such conviction you believe it.

You start wondering, “if he can have that, why can’t I?” For the same reasons he has a private jet and everything else…because he is 1 out of 7 billion people with a life and a wife like that and our chance of getting one is less than winning the powerball. It takes time to accept this, time to come to a realization of the truth of it.

In the meantime, we must be constantly reminded to let go the secret hope, stop holding onto it, stop even thinking about it….and that is so hard to do.

Thank you for this thread.

[The Missing ManSpectator 342]

BUT THE SOULMATE IS WHAT KEEPS ME JERKING OFF!

The way I look at it is that it isn’t so much that you are not giving up on having a soulmate.

But rather how you define the Soulmate.

And it’s more that you are not attached to this idea of soulmate.

They may not come in your lifetime, but perhaps the next?

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

To me, who has never been a “womanizer” type of guy, it is amazing how well it works, when you confront women with the MGTOW facts. By far the most will immediately try to convince you, this specific girl/women is “unicorn”. Don’t forget, this is part of them. The Key to female panties (the only use women have) is within the MGTOW theory.
Why do women need to watch movies like “Pretty Woman” or “Dirty Dancing”? Because without this info, they wouldn’t have any idea of romance. You might feel pity for them, for they are unable to feel love other than for themselves, but are genetically incapable to even recognize their own disability.

Traditionally men took responsibility over the “emotionally challenged”- “weaker sex”. Now they wanted to be equally responsible. Well, let them. But men need to stay wiser, this wisdom is MGTOW.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

It’s the exception that proves the rule.

To say all women are evil blood sucking witches is the same as saying all men are rapists.

I wouldn’t encourage any man to spend his life searching for a NAWALT. The odds are too slim and you’re most likely wasting your time, especially as you get older.

I got lucky by pure chance. I don’t expect to get lucky again hence MGTOW.

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 1]

The main problem is that most of the people have turned to s~~~, I am sure that there are good women as there are good men. I am not telling you NAWALT, I am saying that as men can overcome their bad traits(let’s face it, we are not perfect), women can too. It is more easy to say it than to actually doing it, people have become lazy, they want it easy, they just follow the path that have in front of them, never thinking outside of the box.

I believe that we focus on the bad sides of women, on the statistics that says AWALT for a simple reason, it is our self-defence system. MGTOW have self respect, we care about ourselves, we do not like big risks, generally speaking. We are not good to fit most of the roles that women are searching for, because we are no longer manipulable, that is why there is so much hate on MGTOW, that is why the trolls come here and women too, they hate us because we are outside of their grids.

People fear what they cannot understand, people fear what they cannot classify. That is why smart people, end up alone most of the times, people fear them, and envy them.

I get it that we have to focus on reality in order to free our minds, and we focus on the worst part of reality. That is because we have been brainwashed with so much bulls~~~.

I tell you, be smart, have a list of red flags, evaluate people for what they do not only for what they say. There are good people out there, surely outnumbered, but still there and holding strong.

Use your knowledge of women’s nature and men’s nature, enjoy your life and be positive towards yourself and towards the people that deserve the best part of you, as for the others, let them destroy themselves, it is a matter of time.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

@Math

If I could give you a thousand stars I would. I totally agree with what you say. Its normal to focus only on the negative aspects of women initially, to overcome the social program we have been brought up with.

As the anger fades I try to be objective. With Red Pill knowledge comes the ability to spot the hidden motives of the bad ones. It makes us hard to be manipulated by them. I no longer try to seek out the good ones. If I am meant to meet one it will happen by fate. If the bad ones want to use me I will play them at their own game and feel no regret.

Men have been abused by Femminism, but, women are also (In the long run), victims too. Many just don’t realise it yet. The society that supports them cannot last, and when the natural order returns, as it must, they will need to provide value to Men to be supported. The wise ones know this but they are very few in number. These are the NAWALTS.

It's Time to get Wise

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I think it may be just another lingering part of blue pill programming.

The societal lies are hard wired into our being and the programing is complete. We are never truly free from it, we just get better at recognizing it, and over coming it when it rears it’s ugly head.

Great post, Great reminder to all !! AWALT- Sooner or Later they will expose THEIR true nature because they too are hard wired and THEIR programming is complete as well.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Greg Honda wrote:

@math

If I could give you a thousand stars I would. I totally agree with what you say. Its normal to focus only on the negative aspects of women initially, to overcome the social program we have been brought up with.

As the anger fades I try to be objective. With Red Pill knowledge comes the ability to spot the hidden motives of the bad ones. It makes us hard to be manipulated by them. I no longer try to seek out the good ones. If I am meant to meet one it will happen by fate. If the bad ones want to use me I will play them at their own game and feel no regret.

Men have been abused by Femminism, but, women are also (In the long run), victims too. Many just don’t realise it yet. The society that supports them cannot last, and when the natural order returns, as it must, they will need to provide value to Men to be supported. The wise ones know this but they are very few in number. These are the NAWALTS.

I understand what you and Math are saying. I used to believe this. It’s not saying men or women are s~~~, it’s a recognition of the final part of the Matrix keeping you trapped. Hope in life is a wonderful thing. However in getting over any bad relationship or in dealing with female nature it must be KILLED. You may think it’s nihilistic, pessimistic. I tell you it’s liberating. The truth, however much of a bitter pill to swallow, sets you free. I’m not saying have nothing to do with women – enjoy them in fact BUT Santa Clause doesn’t exist, the NAWALT DOES NOT EXIST. People being good or bad has nothing to do with it. You don’t believe me yet. I guarantee in time…you will and it won’t feel bad or awful. It will just be.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

NAWALT – nothing more than a hand grenade masquerading as a cupcake.

[Anonymous 11]

How hard can it be for a woman to fake being a NAWALT? The more red pill and MGTOW knowledge spread even more women will adopt NAWALT feigning as a wallet snaring tactic.

Women are not stupid when it comes to using nefarious means to get what they want. They are pure evil genius in that regard. Non-red pill men are so naive when it comes to female nature.

[Anonymous 54]

Oh yea shes your Soul Mate!

Until you get laid off, or your buisness fails.

Then she’ll be some other guys soul mate!

[TwistParticipant]

Let’s face it.. in time.. they all end up land whales and you cannot stand to hear them.

I think this result is one that many men could deal with. What can’t be dealt with is the pervasive, deliberate use of the gynocentric legal system to absolutely destroy the man (and children) she has singularly pledged to stand by.

Fat and annoying is understandable. Evil is not. But it is believable.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Good post. Nawalts just tell you what you want to hear and do things for you to convince you that their vagina is made of gold. I see it all the time.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

Neighbors of mine have been married for 40 odd years. They are literally the definition of the perfect couple. They fight like cats and dogs at least 3 times a week. She complains about what he does or doesn’t do and he just replies with ‘whatever, whatever, whatever’ always in 3s. Eventually she storms off slamming the door and running up the stairs. Then it’s quiet till the next incident.

Even the perfect couple does nothing more than ‘tolerate’ each other. Tolerance and reliability are the absolute pinnacle of a relationship… that’s it. You bore each other with stories that you have heard a thousand times, you try not to scream when you hear the same s~~~ being told to every visitor. You do everything together so you actually never have anything to talk about that the other person doesn’t know and so it all comes down to ‘tolerance’. You tolerate their s~~~, they tolerate yours and that my friends is ‘the perfect relationship’.

The perfect relationship is akin to eating wet cardboard. If you can tolerate it you can keep eating your wet cardboard forever. And that’s the optimal outcome, it’s all down hill from there.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

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