Still So far away from forgetting her

[pcxl323Participant 6]

I’m trying to move on from a girl who gives mixed signals, leads me on, when she has a boyfriend. I broke up with my girlfriend because I was so emotionally attached this friend who wants my attention as a ‘best friend’ without commitment. I’ve tried multiple times to move on, but she always come back to wonder if I’m seeing someone secretly without mentioning it to her. After a month of her being silent and dating a guy, she got upset when I dated someone while she went silent. I feel so used and emotionally abused because every new text has me emotionally up and then down.

Last text I received was when I drunk posted on Facebook that I bought a plane ticket for an awesome female friend who seems open to being settling down to visit from another city and she started asking who the girl is and warning me about going for a girl to quickly.

I want to block her, at least as long as she continues this pattern of wanting the benefits without any commitment.

[Anonymous 42]

She’s trying to tell you something…….

 

[heads-upParticipant 320]

Hello pcxl323,

Im guessing your a young man,not sure if your looking for advice or just venting,I feel for you if your emotionally hooked to this woman.I am guessing that you already know this situation is very unhealthy for you.

“I’m trying to move on from a girl who gives mixed signals, leads me on, when she has a boyfriend.”

Read that line carefully,your first line,I think you can be more than this.Sorry if I am getting things wrong here.You do not say if you are familar with mgtow values.If you are not familar then please spend time investigating this forum,all I can say to you is please dont sell yourself short,be the best man you can and please dont define yourself by your present predicament.You have the exit key from blue pill hell in your own pocket.Instead of drunk posting madeup(I assume madeup) girlfriends to get her attention,maybe do new things in your life,new hobbies,new ventures,try new things and post that up on your FB.Just a thought.We have all been there at some point so we understand.

wishing you the best

 

 

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[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

I broke up with a woman…let’s just call her “Drunk Debbie”, the raging alcoholic.  She hid it for a while, until I had to drive her home.  That was 3 years ago, and up until this year, she would call/text me constantly, checking to see if I was single.  I kept turning her down, because A) She’s a drunk, B) she lies about drinking, and C) she puts on this “good girl” persona when you want some slot C, and shuts you down.

My advice, if you want to take it, is to reply to her texts next time with two words- “t~~~ now”.  Just that.  You’ll accomplish a couple things.  First, you’ll know how serious she is if you get a tit pic sent to you.  Second, if she refuses, you can come back with, “Really? I thought you were into me, and into that sort of thing”. And third, if she takes great offence, you have an out.  Be a pig.  Wear it with pride.  At least you’ll get the message through.

[Anonymous 11]

You are nothing but an orbiter upon which she feeds. Break free. It’s tough but will get easier with time.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

quit her cold turkey.  ghost her ass.  you deserve better than a bitch who plays games with your head.  if she really wanted you, she’d be all over you.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Can you please ask KM to forward your address to my private email.

I’ll then come visit you and repeatedly slap you across the face until you

SNAP OUT OF THIS S~~~

What in all that’s holy is wrong with you?

Fk her off.

Get out there a blast your nut with other women.

I’M SO ANGRY WITH YOU ?

[pcxl323Participant 6]

Haha thanks guys. It’s a desperate need to move on. I’ve been talking with the new girl quite a bit. Unlike my friend, I realise that I have no need to brag about who I’m dating.

[BDParticipant 1146]

pcxl323 wrote:

I’m trying to move on from a girl who gives mixed signals, leads me on, when she has a boyfriend. I

She’s an attention whoring slut.

Are you thinking that she is going to leave her boyfriend for you? Why hasn’t she done it yet?

Is this about your ego? Do you think that you are better than her boyfriend, because she doesn’t, otherwise she would be with you and not him.

Even if she leaves this guy and does a branch leap to you, do you think that you are special and that she won’t do the same thing to you?

The past is always a good indicator of the future, this chick has no loyalty to her boyfriend, she is a whore.

Block, delete, ghost, move on. Ignore her, do not even reply or give her ANY explanation, she is a whore.

If you respect yourself you will not surround yourself with garbage like her.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Blocking her sounds good to me.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Sessna12Participant 119]

if you had made a clean break from the start….you’d be over her by now

man up

you can do it!

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[pcxl323Participant 6]

I blocked her tonight. If I’m correct, she won’t even notice because our friendship was a facade just to build up her ego and pressure me into doing stuff with her that I usually only do with people that I date (going to expensive restaurants, sporting events, etc). Disregarding price of going out, there are a lot of memories, but there’s no point to holding them near and dear if she doesn’t see it the same way as I did. Here’s to moving on, thanks!

[heads-upParticipant 320]

good for you 🙂

[BDParticipant 1146]

pcxl323 wrote:

I blocked her tonight. If I’m correct, she won’t even notice because our friendship was a facade just to build up her ego

Keep it up PCXL,

Respecting yourself is the path to a great life.

And who cares if she notices, she is a parasite that was using you to boost her ego, selfish c~~~.

You’ve got better things to do than waste time with the filth of society.

Cheers to you brother, hold strong.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

pcxl323 wrote:

Last text I received was when I drunk posted on Facebook that I bought a plane ticket for an awesome female friend who seems open to being settling down to visit from another city 

No.

She’s awesome? She’s -not like that-? Is she paying you back for that plane ticket?

Stop it or we’ll collectively bury you in a box.

And stop it with this other chick. Stop replying to her texts. Your life is none of her business. Stop it.

[pcxl323Participant 6]

Jon the Ex-Squid wrote:

Is she paying you back for that plane ticket? Stop it or we’ll collectively bury you in a box.

She already paid me back after I insisted she didn’t have to, and she’s been buying the beer this week too w/o question.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

pcxl323 wrote:

Jon the Ex-Squid wrote:

Is she paying you back for that plane ticket? Stop it or we’ll collectively bury you in a box.

She already paid me back after I insisted she didn’t have to, and she’s been buying the beer this week too w/o question.

That’s great news man. Look, I don’t wanna be a total downer and slam anyone. We’re all (presumably) adults here and capable of making our own decisions, as well as taking responsibility for said decisions later down the line.

If hanging out with her feels nice now, who am I to really tell one man how to go his own way? I will, however, say from experience, that that s~~~ doesn’t usually last long. Historically speaking, the expectations grow or there will be a financial issue later down the line and the shift becomes ‘I’ll pay you back’. Maybe she sees it as an investment. Maybe she’s one of those rarely seen ‘good ones’. Save your receipts and see if things remain balanced over time.

Just step with care and best of luck.

[pcxl323Participant 6]

Thanks, I’ll be honest, that I took this risk because I was still upset, and this new girl is fairly independent (unlike the prior), has loads of friends and takes time to see them when I’m busy <span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>(unlike the prior)</span><span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>, but still knows how to make me feel special </span><span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>(unlike the prior)</span><span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>. I’ll take it calmly from now on. If it works out with this girl, great…If it doesn’t and I start seeing red flags, I’m definitely dropping and taking it easy next time.</span>

[BDParticipant 1146]

Jon the Ex-Squid wrote:

financial issue later down the line and the shift becomes ‘I’ll pay you back’

Never give or lend anything to a woman that you can’t afford to lose, they rarely pay their personal debts.

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[pcxl323Participant 6]

Fortunately, finances are not much of an issue for me…I’m probably just so willing to give to friends/girlfriend because all I do is work and travel and I only spend a fraction of my ‘fun budget’ on a once a year holiday and bottle(s) of vodka/beer every weekend.

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