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[SteveParticipant 46]

Men… I’m starting over at the age of 43! Most of my life I feel my head has being in the clouds of the truth.
Where do I start… How do I start? I feel broken and life has no fulfilment.
Of course I’ve begun to realize women from as early as Elementary School has shaped me as the man I’ve being! It’s the pill I cannot swallow anymore…. I’d rather die!
Please words of encouragement!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

Your alive right? Everything will be fine. Life going your own way is way easier than trying to fill the bottomless pit of a woman’s needs.

I recommend writing a bio.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

You found your way here. Read these forums. Educate yourself. You’re among friends. Probably taken the first best step in starting your life over. MGTOW will change your life.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Slayher wrote:

You found your way here. Read these forums. Educate yourself. You’re among friends. Probably taken the first best step in starting your life over. MGTOW will change your life.

Yeah, this ^^^ and get a dog! (“Get a dog” is pretty much my stock answer to most every problem. Not very imaginative however it is a very effective solution…) 😀

[Anonymous 43]

Steve, breathe…

look around here
There are hundreds of men who are in your same position. We all have stories, you may see familiar elements.

I’m 47, been divorced since 2009 and still rebuilding.
It’s ok. Relax.

Your life has a lot of fulfillment, this time you are working for yourself, and not seeking external validation from a woman…trust me life is better this way. You will feel some confusion and betrayal. You have been soaking in a marinade of blue pill spooge and swirling in the s~~~ vortex all your life and now you realize it was all a lie. That is the red pill rage starting.

Steve, do me a big favor, this will be huge. I want to make sure you are not drinking alcohol, doing drugs or smashing s~~~. Oh, and do not write, text, visit, or call your ex. All of that will get in your way and be used as evidence against you.

just trust me, Steve You want clarity of mind right now.

I want you to visit something on you tube… here is a link
Popp

See what this feller has to say.

Welcome Steve, glad to have you here.
Please post questions, you will get answers.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2122]

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”– Chinese Proverb.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[Anonymous 54]

I started going my own way at 50.
Im now 60.

F~~~ing Awsome!!!

What do you enjoy in life?
Its actualy important. Women will beat that out of you along the way.

Give yourselfe that gift back!

[SteveParticipant 46]

Old Sage, what I enjoy…. well I need to discover that again. Thanks for the question. Your right, anything I once enjoyed was poached from me when I wasn’t looking or maybe I was?

Gentlemen thanks for the welcome! I’m starting to read over past forums and the stories and info here is huge. One comfort is I’m not alone in this which I never thought I was in the first place. But men being men we aren’t always easy to talk to especially went were in pain so this place feels like there is an understanding and the men here are open to sharing they’re thoughts/feelings… having gone through a part of the healing process.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Welcome Steve.
Im more of the same divorced and betrayed for no reason after 14 years. 2 years since then 1.6 years going my own way. Never been better. Use the red pill rage to pull you out of misery and then let it go slowly.
It will take time but it will pass, and after few months you will realize that your whole life you where working for other persons, thinking about the future of other people, living to make happy other people, but you forgot about someone.
A GUY CALLED STEVE.
Now is Steve time.
Welcome to the pack.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 54]

Steve wrote:

anything I once enjoyed was poached from me when I wasn’t looking or maybe I was?

Its nibbled away slowly over time.What many of us struggle with at first is finding a new purpose.

Well here it is..

YOUR happyness.Your health and well being.

Now things look better huh!

[Anonymous 6]

Hey Steve, I’m glad that you are here. You’ve made a good start. Another good step for you is to post an introduction in the “Introductions” section. Also read a lot of the other introductions too, you’ll be surprised at how much you have in common with the others.

[Anonymous 12]

When you are at the bottom… wondering what happened… and just exactly… How is it possible… you fell so low? Why even bother with a future? What for? Whom for? HOW to get there?

Look at your own avatar – two pieces of wood coming together in a seemingly impossible fashion.
But it is possible. With the right tools and tricks.

You have come
Here
You have stopped
Your fall.
One day you will
Stand tall.

For now, tell as much of your story as you need.
Rest and read.

Welcome.

[EstebanParticipant 79]

Hang in there, your not alone. I am 50, slpit from an 8 year cohabitation relationship 10 months ago. Sold a 5 bedroom home with an inground pool and now minimalized to a one bedroom condo. I have been keeping myself busy completely remodeling it myself. Why? Because that is what I like to do. Sure, I have times of doubt and red pill rage, but I constantly refer here for reassurance.

You are not alone, you are not alone!

A feminist asked me how I view lesbian relationships... Apparently "in HD" was not the right answer.

[Anonymous 43]

Best part of rebuilding is what you build will be better than what some c~~~ wrecked.

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