Spousal Support makes women Losers and Whores

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  • #800399
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    Handsome Vic
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    Oh, you’re a strong independent woman capable of making your own choices in life.

    But when you divorce, you come forward and say you can’t support yourself. You need your Ex to make payments so that you can make ends meet. You say you have no marketable skills, no job, no prospects. Ah, the truth comes out. You can’t support yourself without your man. So much for being strong and independent.

    Oh, but you COULD make your own way in life? But you “deserve” the money? For what? Your time? So you ARE a whore! No different than anywhere else prostitution has been legalized and laws enacted to assure a whore gets paid.

    So which is it ladies? When you took the spousal support, were you a loser or a whore?

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #800425
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Oh, you’re a strong independent woman capable of making your own choices in life.

    But when you divorce, you come forward and say you can’t support yourself. You need your Ex to make payments so that you can make ends meet. You say you have no marketable skills, no job, no prospects. Ah, the truth comes out. You can’t support yourself without your man. So much for being strong and independent.

    Oh, but you COULD make your own way in life? But you “deserve” the money? For what? Your time? So you ARE a whore! No different than anywhere else prostitution has been legalized and laws enacted to assure a whore gets paid.

    So which is it ladies? When you took the spousal support, were you a loser or a whore?

    Smart lawyers dont word it this way. They say shes is used to a certain standard of living now.
    Only thing is, so is the guy and the woman is attempting to destroy his standard of living. And her statement also puts the blame back on the guy, its his fault he raised her standard of living.

    They also say she deserves it for the time spent married, citing whatever emotional support, etc etc. Same stuff a guy can claim as well, mowing the lawn, maintaining the house, being chauffeur, 24/7 security, etc etc.

    All these arguments are bs and prove these courts are inherently biased against men, because these arguments could equally be argued by the man as well, but the courts only accept them from the woman.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #800491
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    Mr. Spock
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    My ex justified it to herself by saying, “Thats what the law says and that she only wants what the law says she’s entitled to.”

    F~~~ing useless parasites.

    Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

    #800510
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    Romulus
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    I agree most women are whores, whether thru a straight financial transaction, or via the social convention of marriage.

    My thinking is, spousal support simply reveals it.

    How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

    #800537
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    “Thats what the law says and that she only wants what the law says she’s entitled to.”

    EXACTLY WHAT MY EX SAID

    It’s either encoded in their DNA, or they read the same “how-to” book.

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    Stealth
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    “Thats what the law says and that she only wants what the law says she’s entitled to.”

    EXACTLY WHAT MY EX SAID

    It’s either encoded in their DNA, or they read the same “how-to” book.

    Same here.
    The law also allows each party to take out what they put in, but only if they agre to it. She’s the one who disagreed.
    Nobody forced her to come after me, take what she could, and leave me for dead. That was all her.
    I would/could never dream of doing that to her, or anyone else I call family.

    There are laws saying it’s legal to beat your wife on the courtsteps on Sunday. That doesn’t mean we drive up there every Sunday to make sure we do what the law says.
    She carries 100% responsibility for her actions, just as I do for mine. For having not done the same to her when I could have.

    They are losers before they get your money; going after your resources is the proof. It is the literal selling out of any claim to dignity they might have previously had.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #800769
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    Space Cowboy
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    100% truth and wisdom there Vic. When boiled down to the bare facts and stats, they are losers or whores. Sometimes both. Waste of time and money.

    "Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

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    Jack Harper
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    My ex justified it to herself by saying, “Thats what the law says and that she only wants what the law says she’s entitled to.”

    F~~~ing useless parasites.

    Two words I learned to hate during my divorce; ‘entitled’ and ‘provider’.

    #801361
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    Atton
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    Women who take alimony are slave owners that is about it.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #801493
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    NoMore
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    I’ll echo stealth’s sentiment. I don’t want her destitute. I viewed our marriage as a partnership and dissolving it meant we split things 50/50. My lawyer’s partner actually asked to meet me, because she said it was rare to meet someone trying to be fair in a divorce.

    Then the STBxW said that phrase. The law says I can get this. ‘This’ being me walking out of the house with only the clothes on my back and still owing her 100k, not including any child support.

    This is what she thought the law allowed. Therefore, she felt no pause at demanding it and threatening to demand more if I didn’t agree to it. What kind of person displays the kind of base thinking that they should financially devastate someone because the ‘law allows it?’ This is why my lawyer’s partner wanted to meet me. She knew the law was on my side and I wasn’t trying to devastate her.

    Over time, I explained to her that she can’t touch my retirement, can’t take the house, can’t get alimony, etc. She changed her tactics to demanding an upkeep of her lifestyle.

    Over more time, I showed her that we live a middle class lifestyle. Her pleading for money to keep up a ‘lifestyle’ of an occasional summer vacation to the beach, movie nights, and affordable cars would sound tone deaf in court.

    She then changed her approach in claiming what’s in the best interest of the child. I told her that her moving out of state was not in the child’s best interest.

    That’s my summary. She covers her greed by citing the law, more law, then the welfare of the children. She wants what she wants and will manipulate everything to get it. She may be successful. However, my judge is known for being fair and not tolerating manipulation and BS. I am apprehensive as the day draws near, but I have had numerous people tell me I will prevail.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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    My ex justified it to herself by saying, “Thats what the law says and that she only wants what the law says she’s entitled to.”

    F~~~ing useless parasites.

    ^^^this

    #METOO

    The answer, is no.

    #806211
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    Lonestar
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    In Texas we don’t have spousal support, we have the Walmart law (my lawyer actually calls it that). She can get a job at Walmart.

    God Bless Texas.

    So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key. Eagles

    #806309

    Why make them choose? That’s so limiting.

    In my experience they are both.

    The answer, is no.

    #806680
    Vlad
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    I think there’s some confusion between cause and effect…
    Women are mostly whores and bitter losers unable to admit the end of marriage, that’s why they pushed spousal support.

    Marriage is the tomb of love (c)Giacomo Casanova

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