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A quick bit about me: I am 19 years old, I’m in a Bachelor of Social Work at University, First Year, second semester. As I’ve gone through social work, I’ve already seen that the majority of Social work methods of practice are literally saturated in Feminist values and beliefs. And so, as I constantly think about my future and the man I want to become, I have had the idea that I could start a private practice, using the other, lesser known methods of practice. Now, I have a question, if you were to go to a Social Worker, how would you like them to approach your situation, what method of delivery do you think would really help you or another man (or younger boy)? To those who have taken the time to look into this thread, many thanks, and have a good one.
Get the Fuck Up, Brush yourself off, and stand against the current
Hello BIG TL. When I was in the 9th/10th grade I used to sneak into the girls residence (I attended a private school – boys and girls) and the school principal was female. A nasty one. So nasty that when she died, none of her subordinates (teachers under her regime) cared to go pay their respects. She made me feel like there was something wrong with me because I liked to fraternize with the pretty girls… and she strongly recommended a “social worker” shrink to “help me” and she called me a “problem child”.
A “problem child”.
I flatly refused and said “I may be a child with problems (who isn’t?), but don’t you ever call me a problem child”. I wasn’t a “problem child” or a child with problems. I was a very good student just not very controllable outside the classroom and I didn’t like quacks running around in my head. One of the worst things I ever did was sneak out to play video games at night at an arcade. That was THE WORST thing I ever did. Other kids smoked pot and even snuck out to a Phil Collins concert. I wanted to be treated by my class performance ONLY and not graded because of my “personality” or what someone thought of me as a person.
To this day I don’t know how I had the cojones to say that to her and I was pretty sure I was going to be expelled after that… but I wasn’t. I ended up graduating a scholarship student. It was a feminist infested s~~~hole mostly run by bitter and miserable middle aged unmarried women. As I reflect on it, I think the female teachers out numbered the males by maybe 8 to 2.
The male teachers were fair and in my corner. The females were not. They were real bitches and were totally unfair.
The male teachers would give me proper s~~~ if I was bad, and tell me I was good if I was good. The female teachers would be random. If I was slacking and she was in a good mood, I still heard “good”. If I was working my ass off and she was on the rag, I would get some f~~~ing lecture for some s~~~, and told I wasn’t good enough. It was totally unpredictable and dependent on how she felt that day. It never depended on if I worked, tried harder or paid attention. REALLY random and inconsistent.
The female “way” is to tell you you’re s~~~ and deflate you so much, they think this will bring out the BEST in you. The MALE way is to not praise you unless you did a REALLY good job. Backwards approaches. Polar opposites from what I observed. I noticed this even more when I later became a coach of students for almost 5 years.
If you’re working with young men and boys, be consistent and fair.
It’s the only way they will have any respect for you.I think the WORST thing you can do for boys ages 12-16 is give them a female teacher. I think that’s the most delicate age group and the toughest to control or keep command of a classroom. But if you knew what you are doing, you can make a lasting positive difference in their lives.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Thanks for the insight mate, it occurs to me that the idea that men and women are the same mentally is constantly being leaked into Social Work, I know from reading research that this is not the case. I remember going through several different Workers and Psychs when I was younger, and generally, I preferred the workers who were more laid back in their approach, and treated the session as a casual conversation, so I can definitely see your point in treating boys and young men with respect.
Get the Fuck Up, Brush yourself off, and stand against the current
Well (and no offense ) but I happened to generally believe social work & psychiatry is a bulls~~~ profession. When I was in school I had a very rigid almost military schooling. today they call it “A.D.D”….. but we never called it that.
It was called “SNAP OUT OF IT AND PAY F~~~ING ATTENTION”.
There was no blaming “ADD” or “Hyperactive tension personality lactose PTSD intolerant disorder” or any of that monkeys~~~ that employs these people. It was the raw deal where I went to school, and nobody ever heard the term “victim blaming” either. What I went though would be called “abuse” by today’s standards… but I would never trade it for anything.
I recently met a guy who I exchanged numbers with and we chatted for 30 minutes and decided we might partner together on a project. When I followed up 3 times I just heard “Hey man…. yeah sorry…I like , totally have A.D.D sometimes, man. LOL you know how it is…”
NO.
I DON’T.
I wanted to smack the s~~~ out of him. He doesn’t have A.D.D. He just needs to f~~~ing pull himself together.
I wouldn’t rely on a female to teach him that. A woman needs to have an “abuse” button on a website just to cope.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.No Offense taken. Generally, the current standard of Social work is what we term Macro, where Social Workers are trained to try and change the system around the person. My personal preference is methods around “Micro” methods, that focus on the individual, mostly because I think the Macro system would need heavy reforms in order to actually cater for Males, I’m thinking about focusing on building strengths, I see a society today that does demonize men, and I think that until the rest of the world steps up to the plate and starts to call bulls~~~ on feminism, young men need to be prepared to live in a world where they get the short end of the stick, and if that means working them up to become thick-skinned, focused, etc. so be it.
Get the Fuck Up, Brush yourself off, and stand against the current
That would be a big and noble cause. You’re a hero among men and I wish you every success.
MGTOW should be required education for every young man in the 8th grade.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.- AuthorPosts
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