My friend supports me always, time to pay the debt and unleash MGTOW/Marriage forum knowledge I gathered on the KNOW HOW.
Like many people here, who Welcomed me warmly in to this website :
Main reason I stuck in to this site was to concentrate my own Life, help myself, and gather the knowledge. Now, Im well enough atlast, in 6+ years. I thank you all from my heart.
Today my goal changes drastically and it’s not about myself anymore.
… It’s the third time I hear how destroyed my friend is. Over the phone this time. Just an hour ago. This “condition” worsens day by day, I can feel it when we have time together, as friends, doing our usual “nothing”.
Third time is enough.
1. Good thing: marriage/divorce laws in Latvia are still generally, gender neutral. Im researching it right now on official site. No BS, all 2014+fresh data. It’s still not Canada or USA.
Overall my summation: It’s a question of Evidence gathered, Who Initiates the divorce and a Lawyer.
To initiate the divorce for a marriage that is less then 3 years long, from 1 side (no need for second person) If It’s a case of Economical, Psychological (in our “case” both), Physical and/or Sexual violence. (which I still have to ask about and read more in to).
That’s the evidence I will ask for my friend to start on calmly, gathering. It will take time for him, but will be a goal/help to get out.
This gives a good chance to go out for my friend clean as f~~~. Its only a question of what my friend sees for his child’s future.
I will speak to him personally tomorrow and post more in here.
2. Generally : what you get in to marriage with, is what you get when you get out.
Each parent pays to the child 25%-30% of minimum wage. That’s it. If the wife gets the child, and want’s more money >> by that time we will hopefully have evidence, she can’t be trusted with cash from husband, and needs to work herself and become responsible with spending her money. It will take time and is our main card (economical violence). Our second card is evidence for psychological violence.
3. Plan of action:
– Remain Calm, it’s a game that will take some time. Coldblooded and Logical.
– Learn the laws, the material etc. prepare emotionally aswell.
– Keep appearance, support the masquerade. a Queen will not expect the payback.
– Gather checks (of wife’s economical violence towards husband – he earns 100% family money, 1200EU, she spends 400EU in just few days on just, S~~~, for herself. That was the wake up call for me and him today. Divorce. Must. Be. Done.)
– Gather video/audio/sms (psychological violence towards husband )
– Gather any other evidence.
– Initiate the Divorce First. He is a psychological and economical victim to her Ego. check for a good lawyer.
– With all the evidence over 1-2 years, it must work.
4. She will antagonize the child (girl) and make the Father (who pays it all) the EVIL. It’s a question of when. That’s why I see no reason for the marriage to stay. It will get destroyed eventually by her.
5. If My friend will not divorce her, she will leech him for 20+ years until she is fed up or divorce sooner.
His physical, psychological condition will drastically change for the worst. With no support from his Family, Mother, Father and other friends, he will be done 8+ years from now. I fear the worst as I write this.
6. She is an oblivious Spender. She likes the CASH. She doesn’t know or care on how he feels. She ignores how he feels. That will be her downfall.
8. The Child is a tool for her to don’t do s~~~ and spend money instead. (economical violence against the husband). It p~~~ed me since Day 1.
9. We can’t even count on his family help sadly, for this. His father is spineless imho, and Mother is a witch towards my friend, this days more then before as she got older, she becomes more of a bitch. He makes gifts to his family and supports them and gets s~~~ back.
Im still thinking over all the details on what I must deliver.
He called me today, he sounded annihilated by marriage, we talked stuff over. I will deliver the ideas tomorrow to him, in person.
I will report In back, If there is anything else you guys can help me out with, please share. I will be happy even for general encouragement.
Thank you all and this Forum. I hope I can help my friend at least by motivating him to GET OUT.
Your’s EXO.
Anonymous 4 years, 6 months ago.
