sooooo… xmas….

[pharmerParticipant 407]

is going to be unpleasant this year. Its inevitable my feminist sister will be running her mouth non stop about the horrors faced by muslims, women, Latinos, queer folk, disabled etc.. now that trump is elected.
Apparently suicide hotlines are overloaded. I can only think, cheer up! they are finally moving towards equality with the cis males who have been leading that score for years.

Just trying to figure out if I can get a nice TRUMP Tshirt for when I can no longer stand her verbal diarrhea.
It’s like they honestly believe there will be roaming death squads killing all but cis men and trump supporting housewives. The shear disconnect from reality is really something to behold.
I often think of Saint Milo’s question. Would you rather she had femenisim or cancer. At least cancer has a chance of a cure, and if that fails it only kills one person. Femenisim f~~~s up all the lives around it. Her poor kid is only 4. It has a penis but no gender apparently.

I’m going to be drinking heavily this xmas.

Never fuck a crazy chick.

[HitmanParticipant]

well said .
skip christmas with toxic family.
problem solved.
.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Both my parents voted for Trump and I just go over to there place for Xmas so I’m good.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I’m with Hitman on this one. Why even go to Christmas? You aren’t going to change her mind, so I would courteously bow out of the occasion.

If cornered you can just answer that you want everybody else to enjoy their holiday.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Just tell her you don’t want to discuss politics at all during the holidays. If she won’t agree to leave it alone then tell her you’ll be skipping it this year.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Just yet another paid day off for the entities that own my deeds.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Toxic people should be avoided unless you can just sit back and enjoy the floor show with a s~~~ eating grin on your face without saying a word. The occasional laughter is expected. Don’t fear them and their stupidity, laugh at them !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Faith+1Participant 866]

I’m spending christmas with my family this year. Thankfully my sister is pretty cool so I enjoy hanging out with her. Folks can be be hit n miss, especially my mother “Why have you no girlfriend, kids, you’ll die alone”

That’s usually after she has a few and the tongue loosens, at that stage I f~~~ off home to watch Die Hard with a cigar and beer. Women are f~~~ing nuts.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

pharmer wrote:

Just trying to figure out if I can get a nice TRUMP Tshirt for when I can no longer stand her verbal diarrhea.

Go online to get a custom T-Shirt. Print the following in bold type:

THIS IS WHAT THE PATRIARCHY LOOKS LIKE.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[BoarParticipant]

xenon wrote:

Just yet another paid day off for the entities that own my deeds.

Damn. I am always awed when I see perfection in a sentence.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Anonymous 1]

I have some relatives that are old and will die sooner or later, so it is not that bad to meet ’em 1 or 2 times per year. Unluckily my cousin is a bluepill, but I feel like I am getting some good money this year, and I have a project in my mind that needs funds, so that will not be that bad.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Xmas tends to be stressful for a lot of people.
Families often don’t share our opinions. Families can be toxic and prone to drama.
If you are in some type of relationship, there’s the financial issues.

I personally booked a hotel room on the beach. I bought myself a new putter and had it gift wrapped. Hopefully some good booze will be had.
Maybe find some “sand on the beach” to share libation.

No drama. No stress.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

It has been 3 years since I flew “home for the holidays”. When my plane touched down, it was after 10PM on a weekday and there was no previous mention or agreement of anyone coming to meet me or pick me up. ( I was certainly not going to ask. )

No problem. I made my way there (in a cab) as any adult would navigate the world with some self-reliance.

The moment I stepped through the door, my mother asked where my brother was. I had no idea why she would ask me that.

“He came to meet you at the airport!!!!” ….and she started giving me s~~~ for not sitting at the airport waiting for some phantom to drive me.

Right there – before I had walked through the door – I had just arrived and already done something *WRONG*. For some reason, my home town is the only place in the world where I am ALWAYS *wrong*. There is no other place in the world where I dry my hands with the wrong towel. Where I drink from the wrong glass. Eat yogurt with the wrong spoon. And cook with the wrong pan.

But in this place that I am supposed to consider “home”, I make one mistake after another, including making my own way someplace , and arriving safely.

To add insult to injury, Mom had everyone around the dining table and was serving dinner when she forgot the pot holders. I stood up and went to get them from the kitchen.

“SITT . . . . DOWN.” she ordered.

“That only works on little dogs.”

….. and I went and got the f~~~ing potholders. When I returned, she reacted as if she never heard “no” before. It was about time. I leaned in and said that was the last time she ever speaks to me that way – especially in front of everyone else.

Hitman wrote:

skip christmas with toxic family.

I was very pleased and proud to tell them “There will not be a repeat”. As expected, the guilting me into holiday obligations started in early October. “Will you be coming home for Christmas this year?”

“THIS is “home”. But no I won’t be visiting and you know why”.

“The girls (nieces) will miss you this year and always ask if uncle Keymaster will be there. What should we tell them?”

“Just tell them the truth. Or I will be happy explain it to them myself. They are definitely old enough to understand. They were sitting at the table when you barked at me too. It’s not happening ever again.”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

The best thing about any holiday is that items go on sale in this country the day after the holiday ends. I look forward to buying myself a nice roast for 70% off and stock the freezer with some meats. Also could use some new tools. Possibly replace the old washing machine, been fixing it myself but after 10 years its seen its best days.

It’s absolutely the best time to hit the stores here. You’re the only one actually buying something in the crowd of people returning crap and you can get really good deals because store owners don’t want the inventory before year closing.

You can practically smell the desperation in the retail stores especially if and when holiday spending isn’t up to what they expected/hoped for.

Couldn’t care less about what holiday it is otherwise but after holiday deals are always nice.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

[HammerdownParticipant 528]

I’m actually pretty happy about this year. It’s the first Christmas I’m not spending at “home”.

I’m on deployment in Europe for another 4 months and while we get our leave block around Christmas, I looked at my options. Basically within reason the military will cover my flight to anywhere in the world. With that knowledge, do I feel like blowing that on a flight to Vancouver? Nah. This December 25th, I’m going to wake up in San Antonio Texas, the city that I love. I won’t have to worry about shopping, gifts, or sitting around the table which will eventually turn to a political argument. I’m going to walk down to the River Walk, order myself a giant steak and a bucket sized margarita, and enjoy the 18 degree weather and sunshine.

Gotta love this going my own way thing, eh?

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

I gotta do the same.

Except trade feminist sister for gay liberal brother.

I’m just happy my sisters have kids I can distract myself with and play games with.

I use to be great at biting my tongue and not throwing gas on the fire…Nowadays I really don’t give a s~~~.

[TruthspoonParticipant 1284]

I love Christmas.

No wife no kids no bulls~~~.

Just me my sister and mum and dad, just like it’s always been. Sure we have our ups and downs but fambly is fambly.

Sure my sister is an academic and a feminist and a red… they all are…but she’s still funny and makes me laugh sometimes….

Her problem is she never escaped the UK university brainwashing unlike me who lives abroad and sees through all the bulls~~~.

I intend to have an excellent Christmas.

But f~~~ it even if you have a wife and kids enjoy your Christmas.

Make it special, why not….

Or if you’re alone buy a nice expensive bottle of scotch a nice dinner and enjoy it.

Christmas is special, it’s the rare moment in life where the Western world gets to kick back and f~~~ing enjoy ourselves.

[HammerheadParticipant 362]

Whenever someone in my family tries to bark orders at me now, I just tilt my head at look at them quizzically like a dog, then I burst out laughing. I tell them that I stopped taking orders when I retired from the Marine Corps. It frustrates the hell out of my mother, but it works.

As for what I’m going to do for Xmas, I’ve been looking at a long leather coat that I like…I think Santa might buy it for me. Other than that, I’m staying the heck away from everyone, if possible. I don’t even like shopping due to the crowds – – I’ll be shopping online and buying gift cards for the few folks that I care about.

[pharmerParticipant 407]

Just be real quiet and when she asks tell her you are planning a death camp.

ha

Awakened wrote:

Toxic people should be avoided unless you can just sit back and enjoy the floor show with a s~~~ eating grin on your face without saying a word. The occasional laughter is expected. Don’t fear them and their stupidity, laugh at them !!

Both great ideas and a lot more too.
Being a kiwi summer xmas if s~~~ gets too irritating I’ll prob just grab a cold one, give her the finger and maybe go for a burn on the quad.

Never fuck a crazy chick.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Hitman wrote:

well said .
skip christmas with toxic family.
problem solved.
.

I will not be spending Christmas with them either. I do not need them since I am self reliant. If they suck, don’t spend the money on a plane ticket over there. Instead buy stock in American Airlines (if you want).

Keymaster wrote:

It has been 3 years since I flew “home for the holidays”. When my plane touched down, it was after 10PM on a weekday and there was no previous mention or agreement of anyone coming to meet me or pick me up. ( I was certainly not going to ask. )

No problem. I made my way there (in a cab) as any adult would navigate the world with some self-reliance.

The moment I stepped through the door, my mother asked where my brother was. I had no idea why she would ask me that.

“He came to meet you at the airport!!!!” ….and she started giving me s~~~ for not sitting at the airport waiting for some phantom to drive me.

Right there – before I had walked through the door – I had just arrived and already done something *WRONG*. For some reason, my home town is the only place in the world where I am ALWAYS *wrong*. There is no other place in the world where I dry my hands with the wrong towel. Where I drink from the wrong glass. Eat yogurt with the wrong spoon. And cook with the wrong pan.

But in this place that I am supposed to consider “home”, I make one mistake after another, including making my own way someplace , and arriving safely.

To add insult to injury, Mom had everyone around the dining table and was serving dinner when she forgot the pot holders. I stood up and went to get them from the kitchen.

“SITT . . . . DOWN.” she ordered.

“That only works on little dogs.”

….. and I went and got the f~~~ing potholders. When I returned, she reacted as if she never heard “no” before. It was about time. I leaned in and said that was the last time she ever speaks to me that way – especially in front of everyone else.

Hitman wrote:

skip christmas with toxic family.

I was very pleased and proud to tell them “There will not be a repeat”. As expected, the guilting me into holiday obligations started in early October. “Will you be coming home for Christmas this year?”

“THIS is “home”. But no I won’t be visiting and you know why”.

“The girls (nieces) will miss you this year and always ask if uncle Keymaster will be there. What should we tell them?”

“Just tell them the truth. Or I will be happy explain it to them myself. They are definitely old enough to understand. They were sitting at the table when you barked at me too. It’s not happening ever again.”.

Keymaster, you give me strength every time I am in a dilemma. Whenever I question if I need to buck the system all I do is search your name and it has given me an infinite amount of wisdom. This is the beauty of the MGTOW philosophy. Anytime family members try to guilt me into doing something, my answer is “I don’t care”. Want me to visit a relative I like? The answer is no. But he/she is your cousin/brother/aunt/sister/whatever, “I don’t care”.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

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