Soon to be ex refuses to pay for anything

[marriage=miseryParticipant 7]

I filed for the divorce for reasons I don’t have to explain to you guys. Since I have filed, while we await court dates, she refuses to pay for major shared expenses, such as rent, utility bills etc. Yes, I earn more than her, however we are both high earners and are living well below our means (thank goodness for not buying a huge house, fancy cars etc!), so she can easily support the family on her income alone, but deliberately chooses not to. As the due date arrives for a particular bill, I can’t help but be responsible and pay it, while she will continue to ignore it. I’m wondering if I should play her game and wait for an eviction notice?

Thanks.

[UntamedParticipant]

I would advise you to keep doing things the way you think they should be done. If you think the rent needs to be paid, pay it. You’ll have to pay some kind of rent or property taxes when you’re gone away from her so what’s the difference? Keep paying everything and keep receipts for your lawyer, you’re gonna need all the ammo you can gather for Divorce Court.
You have a child, concentrate on him as much as you can and tell yourself that anything you take on you will be something less your child has to bear.
I hope you do get custody but if you don’t, don’t cry for the present, hope for the future when your boy will be all growed up and spending time with you. I’ve been there, it was hell, but I’m still alive and kicking, content that my children want to visit me here in Belgium.
Don’t lose sight of your well-being. What use to your child will you be if you fall into alcoholism or commit suicide?
Be strong and treat yourself well because no one is going to do it for you.
And don’t lose sight of those Red Pills, unless you want to repeat the same process you’re into now.
Cheer up!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[marriage=miseryParticipant 7]

Thanks. Your advice is wise and practical. It bewilders me that the system doesn’t view her actions is grossly irresponsible as a parent.

Untamed wrote:

I would advise you to keep doing things the way you think they should be done. If you think the rent needs to be paid, pay it. You’ll have to pay some kind of rent or property taxes when you’re gone away from her so what’s the difference? Keep paying everything and keep receipts for your lawyer, you’re gonna need all the ammo you can gather for Divorce Court.You have a child, concentrate on him as much as you can and tell yourself that anything you take on you will be something less your child has to bear.I hope you do get custody but if you don’t, don’t cry for the present, hope for the future when your boy will be all growed up and spending time with you. I’ve been there, it was hell, but I’m still alive and kicking, content that my children want to visit me here in Belgium.Don’t lose sight of your well-being. What use to your child will you be if you fall into alcoholism or commit suicide?Be strong and treat yourself well because no one is going to do it for you.And don’t lose sight of those Red Pills, unless you want to repeat the same process you’re into now.Cheer up!

[RuprectParticipant 56]

Untamed wrote:

Keep paying everything and keep receipts for your lawyer, you’re gonna need all the ammo you can gather for Divorce Court.

THIS, m=m. Above all, do this.

[UntamedParticipant]

marriage=misery wrote:

Thanks. Your advice is wise and practical. It bewilders me that the system doesn’t view her actions is grossly irresponsible as a parent.

Get used to it and act accordingly.
I found that out the hard way. The judges, the lawyers, CPS and all the other c~~~-infested organizations all showed me what my value was to this society. I understood it so well that I went my own way before mgtow became a rally point for men. Hell, I thought I was alone in my thinking to separate myself from this crazy society.
Women have rigged the system in their favor with the help of Feminism, dickless menginas and deluded White Knights. In their eyes, your soon-to-be ex is an a poor abused angel. I hope you and your lawyer can break that facade for the divorce judge.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 42]

Plan your escape! Keep chronological records of every one of her delinquencies, the time/date and expenses, include personal ways she chooses to hinder you, failed appointments, misdirection, LIES, DOCUMENT EVERYTHING! Be prepared for her to lie, cheat, and steal! Make no mistake, with marriage laws as they are, you’re in a cage with a cougar! So be prepared! We’re here to support you in anyway we can! Welcome to MGTOW, where brothers are BROTHERS!

[DrAK74Participant 77]

keep paying, document, and keep the receipts, and bring it in when the proceedings start. This informs the court that you are financially responsible and are trying to do the right thing for your family. It will pay off in the long run…..so stay strong!

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Women belong to the state. I believe that the brass of this country, use women to exploit men and financially rape them through the state, regardless whether or not it’s beneficial to the state.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[HitmanParticipant]

document , lawyer up ..maybe just leave if your lawyer says it’s o.k. f~~~in c~~~s all play that game..

[RoddyParticipant 40]

Sell everything you own, stop paying all bills, and just disappeared cild in the middle of the night. She won’t know what hit her.

[MadmanParticipant 772]

I would record every text, email, and even audio phone conversations with her. In fact, call her up and ask her to pay her share of the bills, and record the whole conversation. Hopefully you can catch her lying, and being a bitch or acting crazy on the phone and that will help you big time.

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