Son, Age 11 Says Divorce is Unfair

[Beast05Participant 46]

My son and I love to watch documentaries on various topics. It has greatly helped with his critical thinking skills. My goal for my sons is for them to be critical thinkers about every aspect of life, and that they will truly understand the nature of women.

While watching a documentary about Warren Moon and a few other high profile players in the NFL, my son asked me a very interesting question. He said “Dad, why do these players have to give so much money to their ex-wives?” I told him that it was because of current divorce laws in the world. He said “Dad, if I don’t get married and make a lot of money, do I have to give it away to anyone?” to which I responded “no”. He then asked me “Why would anyone ever get married?”.

It seems that I’ve got a young MGTOW in my son, but I’m approaching the subject gently. While he will be able to make his own decisions in life, I want him to think critically about the benefits (there are none) of marriage. He has also started to ask numerous questions about the circumstances of my divorce. I have not told him, and will not for quite a few more years. However, when/if he talks about getting married, I will have a long chat with him about the negatives, and I plan on taking a day off work to stop in to a divorce court with him at that time.

Either way, it is an interesting topic that I wanted to share.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I hope when hormones kick in his brain don’t go all lizard on him.

But that’s a small chance.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

I would suggest that you also explain to him the effect that hormones are going to have on him as he gets older and how those hormones propel many young men to marry, thinking it will be able to have unlimited access to sex. It is one big hurdle that has to be met and conquered for some young men.

[Beast05Participant 46]

Badger wrote:

I would suggest that you also explain to him the effect that hormones are going to have on him as he gets older and how those hormones propel many young men to marry, thinking it will be able to have unlimited access to sex. It is one big hurdle that has to be met and conquered for some young men.

You guys are absolutely right. I’m definitely not trying to indoctrinate my son to my beliefs, but I want him to do better than I did as far as relationships go.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

YES! your son is a future MGTOW, and more importantly, a future free man.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Nomad82Participant 612]

This is great that he sees these kinds of things at such a young age. I just wanted to skateboard and play football when I was 11.

If it were me, I wouldn’t force the issue at all.. and I agree with the approach. All we can do is provide the facts and the truth of consequence.

Achieve Individual Greatness!

[MonkParticipant 16988]

The ability to think critically is one of the greatest gifts a parent can give their child.

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Beast05 wrote:

I plan on taking a day off work to stop in to a divorce court with him at that time.

What an eye-opening lesson that will be.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thinking is rare ability nowadays. Glad that you are teaching your son to be able to think and decide for himself…Good luck Beast…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Beast05 wrote:

While watching a documentary about Warren Moon and a few other high profile players in the NFL, my son asked me a very interesting question. He said “Dad, why do these players have to give so much money to their ex-wives?”

Beast05 wrote:

He has also started to ask numerous questions about the circumstances of my divorce.

I’ve often felt like my generation(millennials) was really a transition generation. Older generations were looking at parents and grandparents who mostly stayed married. Losing half(or more) of your s~~~ in your 40s or 50s probably wasn’t something on your mind when you got married.

My generation though…we just have way too many older guys to look at who got creamed in divorce to even have any excuse at all.

Your son seemed to figure it out at a young age just from dad and from watching a show about some athletes who obviously got wrecked in divorce. I can’t imagine that over the next 20 years or so marriage rates won’t continue to free fall.

[HitmanParticipant]

smart kid.
great dad.
his future looks good!!!
stay connected no matter what.
great post,
thanks !

[Beast05Participant 46]

The indoctrination occurs at an early age for all young men. I had a discussion with a female co-worker about having grandkids. I answered her by stating that I honestly don’t care if my sons choose to have children, but I do not want them to get married in the current environment. She droned on and on about how marriage provides security and lifelong partnership. I replied with “security for whom?” and proceeded to talk statistics about how more than half of marriages fail, etc. That response fell on deaf ears to a woman who has been married four times. All I could do was laugh internally.

This co-worker also asked if I was lonely. I proceeded to say:

“This weekend, I am going hiking with my sons. I will stay up late and watch movies with them, have pizza, play video games, and do other male-centric activities. I will sit on my porch and watch them play football while I smoke a cigar and have a scotch. I am telling you (the coworker) my weekend plans because I am beholden to no one. I have no definitive plans other than to spend time with my sons and I set my own schedule. I am definitely not lonely.”

I’m looking forward to the day that my sons are older and they can start listening to Tom Leykis, Mark Rudov, Paul Elam, and many more men who speak the truth. I appreciate all of the feedback and advice, and I’ll be a lifelong member of these forums.

[ShimshParticipant 237]

Carnage wrote:

I hope when hormones kick in his brain don’t go all lizard on him.

But that’s a small chance.

Thats no chance, the school enviorment has way more effect on him than his parents. But ive seen miracles. Also he might turn out to be Gay which is a big plus for him.

Fuck E'm

[narwhalParticipant]

Good topic. My son is 13, and I’ve had similar conversations. Right now, he believes that he will be married one day, but he also doesn’t want to do any thing with girls right now, despite what his peers are doing.

I have not talked with him about the divorce, primarily because he has a good relationship with his mother. There is no point making his life difficult between the two of us. Besides that, I believe that principles will stick better if they come to conclusions on their own, and by seeing examples.

To that end, his sense of logical deduction, despite what he is told to believe, is coming along well I think. Definitely better than me at that age. We talk about various topics all the time. When playing games with him, I can tell he is thinking through issues well.

As far as me setting example, that’s harder. I think I’m a good example of how you can be happy being single, but maybe not as happy as he thinks he will be in marriage. And he has not seen how I deal with relationships.

As he gets older, I hope that he feels comfortable talking with me about his interactions with girls. As long as he talk to me, I think I can guide him well.

Ok. Then do it.

[AttonParticipant]

Give him the truth the whole truth and nothing but, that will serve him best.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[AstroParticipant 2045]

My parents divorced when I was 10, I seen it destroy my dad when he lost his kids, home and got hit with child support for my sister and I. I knew better but let the hormones turn me into a blue pilled simp. You have wisdom to share IF he keeps listening.

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