somewhat abstaining from women

[redCanine3669Participant 90]

I’ve been trying to relieve my sexual urges by communicating with women, even on a non-sexual level. but i feel that other men are better at entertaining women than I am, so I can not get a woman’s attention.

even when i be proactive and try to make friends with women, I usually get outcasted by communities. it has happened so much that I feel that my communicating with women is a crime, in the eyes of most communities. So I’m going to try to stop communicating with women.

i write romance poetry a lot, so I have strong urges that i need to relieve. but I can satisfy those urges in a non-social manner, I feel. I used to watch porn, but I stopped. I look at photos of woman in dresses, and I listen to female singers on youtube. It’s unfortunate that I will probably not be able to touch, smell, or taste women; because prostitution is illegal where i live. but I just have to make do with what I have, and improve non-social methods of satisfying my urges.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Your problem is obvious–you have c~~~ on the brain. Everything you do and watch and listen to is centered on c~~~s. No wonder your mind is pre-occupied with C~~~S. Piece of advice: Remove c~~~s from your world, purge them from your consciousness; expunge them from your life…problem solved.

If that doesn’t work someone posted a video several months ago showing a woman having maggots removed from her cootch…if that doesn’t cure you nothing will.

[redCanine3669Participant 90]

i was thinking the other night about my natural unattractiveness. it probably has to do with my personality. i’m a man who doesn’t fight. my inability to fight is probably not masculine, and so i’m unattractive. but i wouldn’t fight other men, just for the sake of being more attractive. i like my personality. and i know there are people who would like me for my personality.

probably not a lot of women who are attracted to it though. and i can’t find the ones who like that personality, because every time i communicate with women in a community, I usually end up getting outcasted from it. I think it’s a sign perhaps. either way, it’s happened so much that I’m just giving up on communicating with women.

[redCanine3669Participant 90]

PistolPete wrote:

Your problem is obvious–you have c~~~ on the brain. Everything you do and watch and listen to is centered on c~~~s. No wonder your mind is pre-occupied with C~~~S.

yep. but i’ve been writing romance poetry for many years now. it’s not easy to just drop certain things. but a step towards that would be to stop socializing with women, so perhaps i am already going towards that direction.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

redCanine3669 wrote:

i write romance poetry a lot

Ok Bro. Take a step back.

Romance is an illusion. Females know this and if you don’t then they see you as a schmuck.

Don’t put women on pedastals. They don’t like it. Don’t beleive what they say about romance. They are s~~~ testing you to see if you can be used.

Assume a light hearted attitude around women and play the role of someone who really doesn’t care. It’s only a role, just as an actor would play a role. However, if you play it long enough it may just become You.

Most women are hyper aware of their imperfections, so if you only say nice things about them and fawn in their presence, they will think you stupid.

If you’re a young guy and want to score, being the nice caring guy won’t work. You need to be Chad. Otherwise you get friendzoned. If you can’t be Chad, then don’t even try to chase them. They will use and abuse you.

Your best bet if not able to be Chad, is to concentrate on your career. This will pay off when you hit 30’s. Then you will be fighting them off with a stick.

So, in short, If you can drop the nice romantic guy stuff you will have more chance. All relationships are based on some level of deception so get used to acting. If you can’t act, then don’t play a game you can’t win.

Earn money. Bide your time and reap the rewards (if you still want them). in your 30’s.

Good luck

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 13]

Stop giving a crap about women.

Seriously, stop just STOP.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Men are romantics masquerading as realists and women are realists masquerading as romantics. Cut the romantic poetry. It gets you know where. They appreciate it, in a limited way, only because it means they have entrapped you and have your complete attention, but its actually a male thing, not a female thing. Stop putting them on a pedestal.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

^^^^^

What this guy said 100%

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 13]

Zarathustra wrote:

women are realists masquerading as romantics.

Women are lying, manipulative, deceitful, devious, cheating, cop calling c~~~s masquerading as romantics.

I fixed it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

redCanine3669 wrote:

PistolPete wrote:

Your problem is obvious–you have c~~~ on the brain. Everything you do and watch and listen to is centered on c~~~s. No wonder your mind is pre-occupied with C~~~S.

yep. but i’ve been writing romance poetry for many years now. it’s not easy to just drop certain things. but a step towards that would be to stop socializing with women, so perhaps i am already going towards that direction.

You know, I wrote romantic poetry, too — in the past. Back in those days, maybe 1/5 of what I wrote, and I wrote about 1,000 poems between say 1988 and 2000.

I also got a lot of pussy. Probably 3,500 times between 1991 and now.

From Jan 2017 to April 2017 I even had two girlfriends, and sometimes I’d f~~~ one in the morning and a different one later that day.

Want to know my conclusion? There isn’t much to women other than a tuna-smelling meat hole, with a pair of beef flaps in the front.

I can fap with my 8-lb Nina Chan that I purchased for like $75 on Amazon, and not worry about STD or pregnancy. (Well, full-disclosure, I got a vasectomy in Feb so that part is done, anyway)

You need to get over the meat abyss. If I knew in 1991, what I know now, I would have stayed a virgin.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 54]

The wanting is better than the haveing.
We create a false illusion in our minds.
Dont punish yourself with craveing things that dont exist.

[Anonymous 54]

PistolPete wrote:

Your problem is obvious–you have c~~~ on the brain. Everything you do and watch and listen to is centered on c~~~s. No wonder your mind is pre-occupied with C~~~S. Piece of advice: Remove c~~~s from your world, purge them from your consciousness; expunge them from your life…problem solved.

If that doesn’t work someone posted a video several months ago showing a woman having maggots removed from her cootch…if that doesn’t cure you nothing will.

Pete!!!!!

[OldBillParticipant]

Woo-hoo! The Pistolero is back!

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Thanks guys–I’m getting back from the stroke–slowely but surely–typing is still tough!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

If this is the way you want to go, you have to get this out of your daily thoughts. You must immerse yourself in other things. Projects, teaching yourself useful skills, learning stuff. Your focus has to be turned inwards onto you rather than outwards onto women.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

The wanting is better than the having.

It is basically the difference between fantasy and reality.

You escape reality with fantasy. If fantasy becomes reality, you soon want to escape that.

Consider why women get bored with what they previously wanted so badly and often times, begged for.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[redCanine3669Participant 90]

i have to be honest: i was told to refrain from making a thread until the MGTOW staff gave me the go-ahead. I’m sure i can still post in other threads, but i’ quite sure i was told to not make threads and i think i know why. lol. i guess i will discontinue this hread until the MGTOW staff give me the go-ahead to create threads.

thanks for the advice, guys. I agree that a lot of my problems are because of the romance poetry. and cutting the romance poetry off would help me greatly.

[OldBillParticipant]

redCanine3669 wrote:

thanks for the advice, guys. I agree that a lot of my problems are because of the romance poetry. and cutting the romance poetry off would help me greatly.

Dropping the fairy tales can only help.

There’s another thing you can do immediately that will pay dividends down the road: Change your member name.

Sir Boring? That’s something an enemy would call you. That’s something someone would say to insult you or to demean you. Why chose to call yourself that?

That kind of behavior needs to stop. Right now.

You need to stop s~~~ting on yourself. The world and your life are full of people waiting to s~~~ on you. Why should you join the line? Show yourself a little respect. Spend some time and think of a name that doesn’t s~~~ on you.

Do you think you don’t deserve a name which doesn’t s~~~ on you? If you, you’re very wrong.

Cut yourself some slack, laugh more things off, and get a new name.

Can’t wait to see it.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Subcomandante SantiagoParticipant 149]

redCanine3669 wrote:

even when i be proactive and try to make friends with women, I usually get outcasted by communities. it has happened so much that I feel that my communicating with women is a crime, in the eyes of most communities.

What are these communities that are “outcasting” you?

Gentlemen - we are at war.

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