Sometimes it's so hard to deal with blue pill men.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Today a water pump compressors in one of the buildings I manage broke down and I had to call a repair man to come and either repair or replace it. I had to go to the building because he needed some help as the Superintendent was sick so I drove over to let him into the electrical room and lift that heavy mother onto a dolly for transport. They sent a 24 year old guy and while we were both working on the compressor (young people always ask for help these days even when it is their job to do) . I decided to help him just so I could get out of there quicker. We ended up talking for a good hour while we were working. The entire time we were talking about him and his fiancé who he was about to marry, I really felt sorry for him.

He has his entire future ahead of him, so optimistic about his life because he is about to get married to the girl he loves and the red pill rage in me was so hard to contain. He asked me about marriage and if he was doing the right thing. At first I was about to tell him to run as fast and as far away as he can before it was too late but something told me not to say anything to him about it until I knew more. I just asked him instead if he was sure she was the right person for him and he starting talking for a good hour gushing about this girl I almost went insane.

I have to maintain a professional relationship with all the trades people I interact with but it was so hard to not tell him how I really felt about everything he was saying. It almost felt like a father son conversation we were having because he kept asking me if he was doing the right thing like he needed to hear validation from me. He was also fishing like a woman to find out if I was married and I never answered him I just kept the conversation flowing to him but the annoying thing was he kept trying to ask me about my experience because he assumed I was married as well.

I knew if I told him the truth he probably complain or get angry so I kept my mouth shut and told him he had to decide if marriage was right for him. I just said to him marriage is not all that it is cracked up to be but if you are happy do what you want. I could see doubt start creeping into his face he didn’t expect that answer as he has been feeding off people who are blue pill his entire life it seems. I don’t know if it was the right call or not but I could tell he felt trapped by this woman just by the way he kept asking if he should do it. Would you guys have told him to run or do what I did I am conflicted about this I am not sure if I did the right thing but I my gut is telling me it was based on the flow of the conversation. I guess I have my answer but just seeing men go through this is tough sometimes and it sucks.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Never have a conversation or give advice to kids, they will never understand. They should learn of their own.

Scenario 1- he cancels marriage because of your advice, then after a month will become lonely and will run to her and beg her to pardon him for acting upon some oldman’s stupid advice.

scenario 2-you give advice ,he finds red pill bitter so goes with blue pill, gets f~~~ed some years later and remembers your golden advice years later.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You can lead a whore to culture but you can’t make her think.

I love that phrase.

Unfortunately he’s blinded by love …. you could of said a little something but I think the kid is pussy blind.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Rhino wrote:

He has his entire future ahead of him, so optimistic about his life because he is about to get married to the girl he loves and the red pill rage in me was so hard to contain. He asked me about marriage and if he was doing the right thing. At first I was about to tell him to run as fast and as far away as he can before it was too late but something told me not to say anything to him about it until I knew more.

Always answer a question like that with another question: “What sort of benefits do you think you’ll get by getting married that you can’t already get without being married? Do you know any married men under 90 who actually get those benefits? What’s in it for you? Is it really worth risking your whole future on?”

Rhino wrote:

he starting talking for a good hour gushing about this girl

“I’m sure she’s a lovely girl. No really. But marriage these days is just a bad business property contract for chumps to make the divorce lawyers rich. Why else would they let the gays do it? Marriage these days is just a supply chain step for the divorce industry. I think if your girl really loves you she won’t need you to take that sort of sickening risk for her material benefit. If she really loves you she’ll be happy just having you. She doesn’t need your name on a binding three way contract for that. She already has you. That should be enough for any good woman.”

Don’t argue against women in general, and especially not against his woman. That will only make him defensive. Instead argue against marriage itself, because marriage is indefensible.

[Anonymous 54]

I would ask him if he had doubts.Let him talk thru it by himself.But the poor bugger is in love,he cant think strait.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

blue pills is like cancer.

avoid at all costs

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Show him the statistics – they don’t lie. Ask him if he would stick his arm down a garbage disposal with a faulty circuit-because he is doing just that signing a contract with a woman and the government. Tough words – but true words. If he still wants to go forward – he’s a fool.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Maybe she’s an NAWALT,did he say if she had four legs and pink fur with a longhorn on its forehead?

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

He is my age. One thing that helped me take the red pill young was by seeing my uncle as a good example of a mgtow. He never married and stopped dating (I think) when I was still in preschool. He never told me anything bad about marriage. I could just tell he is happier than my married relatives. Also, he talks about the things he gets to do with his life which a married man can’t do. I would say, be like my uncle. Be open about about your bachelorhood. Tell him that you decided not to marry and it hasn’t stopped you from being happy. Maybe when/if he gets divorced, he’ll remember the conversation and not repeat the same mistake.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Sorry, but it is WRONG to see someone about to make a HUGE mistake and say absolutely nothing. You should have at least pointed out some statistics about women and relationships. Maybe told him to check out this website. Don’t go after his girl as he’ll just get defensive, but let him see what a S~~~ deal marriage is and the real risks he’s taking. He’ll learn eventually, but letting an ignorant cow that can’t read walk into the building labeled “Slaughter House” is just wrong. At least point him in the direction of the “Barn” that he THINKS he’s walking into.

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

I’d of told him marriage is for gays and women.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Alright so update time on this story. The young guy came back today to install the compressor early in the morning and I decided I would meet with him and have the “talk” with him since some of you think I should have said something. He was with another co-worker this time so I had to wait for the right time to talk to him about his marriage plans. When we were alone I asked him if he was still interested in advice about his situation since we talked about it for an hour. He looked at me kind of funny he didn’t expect me to bring it up.

I started to give him statistics we all know. One great line by Bill Burr “if I told you to jump out of airplane with the chute only having 50% chance to open would you?” “No of course you wouldn’t!”. So at this point he started to get kind of angry and asked me if I was married because I never came out and told him. I told him I never married because I have seen all my friends and family end up divorce raped through lies and manipulation of women. He proceeded to tell me how his parents are still married after 24 years and are happy together, and how just because I experienced those things doesn’t mean it would happen to him because he found his “unicorn”. I just told him I was trying to help him out and marriage is a bad investment but he didn’t want to hear any of it. I decided not to tell him about MGTOW there was no point.

My gut instinct was spot on I should not have said anything to him. He said he appreciated that I was looking out for him but that he found the love of his life and he is happy to marry her. I just left him with one last detail, I said to him if you were happy you wouldn’t have kept asking for validation for one hour the last time and to remember there is always a way out of the trap of marriage. He got p~~~ed and was about to say something but his co-worker came back at that point and he instead started to work. I left the room to let them finish up installing the thing. If I hear any further news down the road I will let you know but I think this guy has set his ship on a direct course to hit a 100 ft. rogue wave. I tried that is all I could have done but at the end of the day if someone is blue pill no amount of info you give them will work until it happens to them and they want to take the red pill. A lot of men in our society are taught to be happy in blue pill hell it takes a lot of courage to take the red pill knowing once you do you will never be in a marriage or relationship again. Some people just can’t cope with that existence and will refuse to take the red pill until it is to late.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

sidecar wrote:

Rhinorage wrote:

He has his entire future ahead of him, so optimistic about his life because he is about to get married to the girl he loves and the red pill rage in me was so hard to contain. He asked me about marriage and if he was doing the right thing. At first I was about to tell him to run as fast and as far away as he can before it was too late but something told me not to say anything to him about it until I knew more.

Always answer a question like that with another question: “What sort of benefits do you think you’ll get by getting married that you can’t already get without being married? Do you know any married men under 90 who actually get those benefits? What’s in it for you? Is it really worth risking your whole future on?”

Rhinorage wrote:

he starting talking for a good hour gushing about this girl

“I’m sure she’s a lovely girl. No really. But marriage these days is just a bad business property contract for chumps to make the divorce lawyers rich. Why else would they let the gays do it? Marriage these days is just a supply chain step for the divorce industry. I think if your girl really loves you she won’t need you to take that sort of sickening risk for her material benefit. If she really loves you she’ll be happy just having you. She doesn’t need your name on a binding three way contract for that. She already has you. That should be enough for any good woman.”

Don’t argue against women in general, and especially not against his woman. That will only make him defensive. Instead argue against marriage itself, because marriage is indefensible.

Thanks for this advice Sidecar I forgot to add I never once mentioned his fiancé or brought her up in the conversation, he still acted all offended and mistook everything I said as an attack on her even though I didn’t say one thing about her. Sometimes logic will escape men when they are mangina white knights looking out for their princess.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Well you tried. That’s all you can do. Some men simply insist on learning their lesson the hard way. At least now, when it all falls apart, he can’t say he wasn’t warned.

And who knows? He may be all angry on the outside, but he may start actually thinking on the inside. It’s clear from his earlier doubts that there’s some hope there inside for him. You’ve planted the seed. Now it’s up to him to see if it grows.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Rhino wrote:

My gut instinct was spot on I should not have said anything to him. He said he appreciated that I was looking out for him but that he found the love of his life and he is happy to marry her.

I still think it is good that you told him. As long as you keep your cool, end it once they start getting offended, and assure them you’re just concerned and offering another perspective; then there shouldn’t be anything to regret.

[PuebloboyParticipant 18]

Hi guys,

I’ve been burned many times by people I know when I brought up the topic of the red pill side. I haven’t had so many people doggy pile on top of my viewpoint on this. They completely ignore the facts and always have some story of someone who has been married X amount of years and disregard how many divorces are around. Seriously, it feels like seeing the future and having no one believe you. It’s so frustrating. In the end, people need to learn from their own mistakes and who knows, maybe it’ll work out for him. All I know is when they get burned, I’ll be there with open arms for them.

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