Some sort of intro thing

[ThuhfishParticipant 14]

So I grew up with my mom always telling me if I’m nice to girls I’ll find a nice girl. And I grew up getting this “marriage as the main goal of lif”e and being told I have to dedicate my life for her comfort and give up myself, which would be fine if she reciprocated. When I’m 16 I find this girl and we start dating long distance and things go well but she’s Christian so no sex which is fine but troubles start up when I start becoming atheist. I try to stay Christian but it’s f~~~ing impossible. She decided after three years of being with me to explore her other options without telling me. And told me she felt bad for doing it but refused to stop and also refused to dump me (I was still really attached at the time). So I dumped her and told myself it was to make her happy and not because I wanted to. I was 19 at the time. Point is never date a Christian girl (well any girl really but how was I to know?)

I dropped out of college after this happened because I was playing to maybe video games to focus on school work. Things got depressing over the summer when I hung out with friends from high school again and started meeting some girls that went to these parties. So I chased like 5 girls during the summer and got strung around without landing a date, they just talked about how s~~~ty guys were with me and how nice I was and how they’d never date me. (Turns out most of them thought I was super-hot in high school but I didn’t notice.)

By the winter I start talking to this other girl. After some months of talking online girl number two moves from a small town to live with her crazy sister to be closer to me (one red flag of many). After three months she starts asking if she can move in with me and my cousin so she’s not being attacked emotionally by her sister. I give in because I’m selfless and things go well for a while but now she wants sex every day. S~~~ gets exhausting after a while especially when she insists that she climaxes every time. We only ever has sex for me on my birthday. She wants sex on and after her period all the time. I don’t know if this is normal but period juice stinks and made me want to throw up. So this girl is more loyal than girl number one but very clingy. I only had a part time job to support the two of us and she was on welfare while finishing high school. Often she would skip class and then complain I wasn’t around much even though I was around a lot and just needed time to myself so I could unwind. One conversation stuck in my head from this time; she asked me what I would do if we broke up and I said “you’re the one for me, after you I give up on girls.” I meant for it to sound cheesy (she loves that s~~~) but it was also true, I was f~~~ing tired of being strung around by girls I knew just trying to get a date.

Anyways this goes on for 2 years and then she starts pressuring me to propose to her. She says things like “my gramma won’t be alive for very long and I want her to come to my wedding.” S~~~ was bonkers, but I didn’t want to break up with her and if I said no she would’ve flipped her s~~~. Anyways we go with some of her annoying friends back to her small town 15 hours of driving away. I get this lame promise ring which she is fine with seeing as we’re broke and do the whole proposal thing while we’re with the grandparents and everyone is getting excited and happy and tears etc.. So later I have to call my mom before she finds out somehow and has a big freak out that I’m not ready. And while I’m calling my mom, my mom is on Facebook and see “your son got engaged 15 minutes ago.” Well god damn it woman, you couldn’t wait until I settled my mom down? Anyways my mom thinks I’m getting married in like a year or two when the plan was way later like 5ish years once I’m done college and land a good job and stuff. And then after a week at her tiny dying town we head back and I almost rip one of her friend’s head off. Fast forward 3 months: I’m not sure I want to get married, I want more time alone for vidja games, I have a shorter temper than before and our sex life is non-existent. My mom is pressuring me to see a marriage counsellor because my mom is recognizing lots of emotional trouble from me as well as noticing my “fiancé” was very demanding of me. The counsellor is basically uninterested in me so I stop going. Fiancé talks with me shortly after and says things aren’t working out and we should probably split. So I was actually thinking about this for when I start college in a few months but I know I’d miss it once it’s gone. This is when s~~~ gets weird. I don’t have a place to go and they need me to stick around so they can afford the rent. So I stay until they move apartments. During this time she dates two guys she met off the internet and goes to their place and sleeps with them and then talks with me about it and how it went. They’re nice guys but s~~~ is awkward because my ex and i still share a bed for some reason. My brother and sister know this is terrible and offer their place instead so I take them up on it, but I still gotta pay rent at the Ex’s place so they can eat. Well turns out my brother wants rent too, so I’m paying for two places for two months… Yay… Worked nights to make ends meet and went flat broke. At least I got out. So now I’ve graduated college and moved cities and refusing to get into the dating scene. You guys probably think I haven’t experienced anything that bad, and you’re right but I’ve heard horror stories about guys being chained down their whole lives just to get divorced and have to pay half their earnings to a woman that wants nothing to do with him. So I’m avoiding that.

My first impressions of the MGTOW community has been mixed. I think the original feminist movement was a good thing in the 50s but now there is no reason for it, they are not victims anymore (Africa and Middle East can be a different story). They are posing as victims for their own benefit and everyone believes it at a glance and doesn’t check both sides. I can only see this changing by men taking a stand by not giving into their whims and bending over backwards just for the pussy. But I think we should take a non-aggressive position so we don’t appear to the public simply as women haters, which is easy to get labelled as unfortunately. I am trying to calmly let people know that I refuse to let someone control my life. And I will encourage others to follow this lifestyle to end the blatant abuse of men.

TL;DR
Got cheated on while in college, dropped out shortly after. Got used for a place to stay for three years. Women be crazy, yo.
Regards,
ThuhFish.

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome, man. Thanks for your intro. Red pill # 32 (I am not counting, just rough estimate lol)

I swear the more I’m reading of genuine and open introductions, I am somehow starting to feel a pattern. Like sort of uniformity that a scientist notices before he or (for the order of inclusion and the rare gems … ) she formulates a hypothesis. Weren’t we all at one point irrationally rational men who believed in true, genuine love? When the nurturing and support in the initial stages from the she is only a facade, it’s hard to sort out our feelings once our eyes are opened.

The mother of all red pills is accepting the need to take daily red pills. Sorry for preaching brother. Just slightly drunk here.

Have a good one 🙂

 

 

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Welcome to the forums. You will probably will have red pill rage, mine lasted for a year or so.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[WolveParticipant 191]

Welcome to the MGTOW community ThuhFish and christian girls dating around jeez religion doesn’t stand for much nowadays.
You had it rough though, just because others have had disasters you shouldn’t undervalue your own experiences friend if you instead use your emotions to learn more about yourself but I digress. Again welcome to the MGTOW community it is a place of truth, experiences and everyone who wants to become himself instead of a slave to society (women mainly).

[Executor MaxwellParticipant 591]

Thuhfish wrote:

My first impressions of the MGTOW community has been mixed. I think the original feminist movement was a good thing in the 50s but now there is no reason for it, they are not victims anymore (Africa and Middle East can be a different story).

The 50’s were not the origin of the feminist moment and at this point I consider a lot of it being a good thing in the 50’s revisionist history equality was never the goal from the start their abuse has simply merely gotten more severe.

Thuhfish wrote:

I can only see this changing by men taking a stand by not giving into their whims and bending over backwards just for the pussy. But I think we should take a non-aggressive position so we don’t appear to the public simply as women haters, which is easy to get labelled as unfortunately. I am trying to calmly let people know that I refuse to let someone control my life. And I will encourage others to follow this lifestyle to end the blatant abuse of men.

HAH! they call you a misogynist if you so much as suggest that Hope Solo should not be abusively beating minors.

MGTOW is not the MRA we don’t try to change society at large or expect it to care, we change ourselves that we may thrive. MGTOW lets a man look to improve his own life in a much more immediate manner. We don’t hate women it’s more of an indifference with caution about the dangers always present in dealing with them. Of course to a group that depends on your loving them without any though or reservation while they fraudulently claim you hate them to demand more from you simply being indifferent is worse than being the second coming of the Antichrist.

Anyway welcome aboard, take a load off and enjoy yourself.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Welcome mate 🙂

I call some especially s~~~ty women – c~~~s, doesn’t mean I hate them, Im just being honest and call what I see as It’s name. 😀 I call a fish, a fish.

I do react online on topics people bring out, naturally.

I don’t go around town calling out women, instead Im keeping to myself and enjoying beautiful nature here and have long walks.

 

You got out unscratched you can say, It suck’s that you chose to pay for years for no real reason but your compassion, that was being abused.

Nice to have you here and good luck to you !

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[Anonymous 11]

Welcome man! Kick back and sit a spell. There are thousands of guys who’ve had nearly identical experiences with these screwb~~~~.

Thuhfish wrote:

So I grew up with my mom always telling me if I’m nice to girls I’ll find a nice girl.

My Mom was from an older generation. When I was younger, she tell me lines like that. After witnessing the hedonistic spoiled tramps that are modern women, she began to tell me I was better off not getting married and understood why I had my attitude.

[experiencedParticipant]

ThuhFish, Your sharing this will help other men here to avoid doing the same. Thank You.

“She decided after three years of being with me to explore her other options without telling me. And told me she felt bad for doing it but refused to stop and also refused to dump me”

“After three months she starts asking if she can move in with me and my cousin so she’s not being attacked emotionally by her sister”

“Got cheated on while in college, dropped out shortly after. Got used for a place to stay for three years. Women be…”

 

 

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