Some bitch asks: "IIN I find MGTOW attractive?"

[Anonymous 3]

The female reaction to MGTOW is interesting:

http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-i-find-mgtow-attractive-197567/

It seems to range from defensiveness and insecurity through to inquisitiveness about the concept and attraction towards MGHOWs.

Not that I care, but it’s an intriguing thought that MGTOW itself could be an unconscious male instinct at work among at least some of us: i.e. in order to find women, distance yourself from them.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Not that I care, but it’s an intriguing thought that MGTOW itself could be an unconscious male instinct at work among at least some of us: i.e. in order to find women, distance yourself from them.

Not even close to reality. That would go directly against the whole idea.

And fine, she wants what she can’t have. Typical. Funny enough, a lot of them STILL said things like, “I don’t agree with it, but…” They STILL don’t get it. No-one cares what they do or don’t like or agree with.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[CaliParticipant 753]

I have the answer: According to a large number of 25+ year-old men here, YES. I can’t count the “how do I get women to stop hitting on me” threads I’ve discovered here.

The solutions range from buying a fake wedding ring to dressing poorly to talking about how much debt you have to being a really nice beta guy.

No one solution seems to work 100% of the time.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Not that I care, but it’s an intriguing thought that MGTOW itself could be an unconscious male instinct at work among at least some of us: i.e. in order to find women, distance yourself from them.

I would verify that thought (at least on SOME level), because I believe the way the current social order “works” is ass-backwards – as is the modern female thinking on how it’s supposed to “work”.

The first Ayn Rand quote I ever heard (before I even knew she was a “she”) was:
“The correct orientation of man is to the world – and reality.
The correct orientation of woman, is to man.”

That spoke loudly to me because it fits. It practically explains why women are SO frequently repulsed by men who pursue them and make them the center of the universe. Because that’s not his role. His role is not to concern himself with women. His role is to concern himself with greater and more important things – even greater than himself.

Women “should” be (are designed by nature) to want YOUR attention – and not the other way around. You can see this all over the place in nature. Biologically females are naturally intended to go and get HIM, attract HIM, distract HIM, pursue HIM, show interest in HIM. But women are completely socialized to approach EVERYTHING backwards… and so are “men”. It’s the polar-opposite of what nature intended.

I realize I am speaking as if it’s fact, but I am not pretending that. I am only saying in all of my travels and experiences, this holds true. I pursued one of the great loves of my life. It didn’t work…. until the day I stopped and no longer gave a s~~~. She showed up on my doorstep. Called. Emailed. Crossed town to find me. And this is not just a one-off. It’s practically a predictable formula.

Im not surprised at all by ANY female who would say she finds MGTOW attractive.

Many men here can attest to displaying total indifference as a MAJOR attraction mechanism for women. In fact, none of the women I ever gave so much attention to wanted it. But women I didn’t give a s~~~ about – and didn’t even know existed(!) – ended up pursuing me, and hyper-aggressively!

Once it becomes a core way of life to just not care about women anymore, they seem to show up and your next problem is getting rid of them all. The way men are socialized to pursue, crawl through s~~~ and care about women, is absolutely wrong. And that’s why I thought that Ayn Rand quote was absolutely right.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Cali wrote:

The solutions range from buying a fake wedding ring

I wear an “Im not having a wedding” ring on the 3rd finger of my left hand. (some call it the 4th).

It was my Dad’s and the only finger it fits on. I thought it would be a female REPELLANT. But it’s not. It has the reverse effect. Unless you’re in a job interview or group social situation. Then the wedding ring says “he’s docile controlled subservient shmuck and at least ONE woman can stand to be with that son-of-a-bitch”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Women are bats~~~ crazy and you’ll always find some dumbass woman to like something completely insane. Yes MGTOW is attractive, because it is sanity in an insane hostile environment. Their supposed “attraction” to it is because they are just needing a c~~~ in their ass. Nothing more.

[CaliParticipant 753]

Keymaster wrote:

I wear an “Im not having a wedding” ring on the 3rd finger of my left hand. (some call it the 4th).

It was my Dad’s and the only finger it fits on. I thought it would be a female REPELLANT. But it’s not. It has the reverse effect. Unless you’re in a job interview or group social situation. Then the wedding ring says “he’s docile controlled subservient shmuck and at least ONE woman can stand to be with that son-of-a-bitch”.

Right you are, Keymaster!
Seeing as I’m probably going to a Christian college, I will fortunately be avoiding a lot of the feminist insanity occurring on so many college campuses, but the problem is that so many Christian colleges are like courtship camps for young believers.

All of the colleges I’m interested have a saying about “a ring by Spring”, because so many people get married or engaged shortly after beginning school. If my singleness becomes an issue, I’ll likely try the fake wedding ring, as that ruse should work on about 85% of the population of those colleges.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Why would MGTOW be attractive to women? I don’t know…maybe because we’re confident enough to say f~~~ society and do our own thing, we’re happy, and they think we must have money because we aren’t currently wasting it on some other c~~~?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Cali wrote:

All of the colleges I’m interested have a saying about “a ring by Spring”, because so many people get married or engaged shortly after beginning school.

OT…. Would it surprise you to know that “January is Divorce Month”? It’s true. Most divorces are initiated in January- and by women (72% of the time). So who gives a s~~~ if a woman wants a “ring by spring”.

If she had the ring, she would “wait until after Christmas” before announcing her plans to f~~~ up the next year for you. How thoughtful of her. “Let me get a whack of gifts first, and then I’ll dump the news on him. You know.. for the benefit of the KIDS.”.

Nice.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[CaliParticipant 753]

Oh, it’s not just the women at these schools. The men are out hunting, too. The saying came about because of the stereotype of Christians going there to find a husband or wife.

I know that there probably won’t be an inordinate amount of pressure to date (or “court” as it often happens), but if that does happen, at least I’ll have a contingency plan to keep the people off my back.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Beer wrote:

maybe because we’re confident enough to say f~~~ society and do our own thing

The reality of MGTOW is understanding society doesn’t have much respect for you. And that’s an understatement. So when you have a modicum of self esteem, and refuse to subscribe to notions that are expected of you, it’s throws them a curve ball. Women are actually SHOCKED when you place real value in yourself and don’t demonstrate ANY “beta”-style behaviors with zero tolerance for any of their feminist bulls~~~.

They think “who the f~~~ does THIS guy think he is”?

They are so used to all this f~~~ing female-worshipping / p~~~ing on men s~~~, and when men just aren’t the type that KNEELS DOWN in front of her, their brains can’t even process it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Yup^^^^ I was never the one wearing the wedding ring and chicks that were started the perusing, not me, not ever.
A chick with a ring doesn’t mean s~~~ when she gets the hots for a single dude! It happened to me a few too many times when a married chick laid her hands on me in an inappropriate way, some I gave into that warm honeyhole of delightful bliss, others I didn’t!
My business partner’s brother’s wife would get close and dripping wet personal with me, so close I could feel her breath, but I kept refusing her advancements. One time she got so close when I turned around I was within millimeters of kissing her with other actions that would have resulted. My father who had stopped by and saw her behavior told me she had the hots for me, I told him; “you think I don’t know that!”. He couldn’t believe I resisted considering how smoking hot she was. I’m glad I didn’t, because for the longest time I felt guilty for the married chicks I did. Some chicks aren’t happy until they get the attention they want, they pick you, you don’t pick them, married or not, doesn’t matter, they decide who they want, and when to treat their husbands like s~~~.

After the s~~~ I seen and been in, I WILL NEVER GET F~~~ING MARRIED!

[Anonymous 22]

Keymaster wrote:

Beer wrote:

maybe because we’re confident enough to say f~~~ society and do our own thing

The reality of MGTOW is understanding society doesn’t have much respect for you. And that’s an understatement. So when you have a modicum of self esteem, and refuse to subscribe to notions that are expected of you, it’s throws them a curve ball. Women are actually SHOCKED when you place real value in yourself and don’t demonstrate ANY “beta”-style behaviors with zero tolerance for any of their feminist bulls~~~.

They think “who the f~~~ does THIS guy think he is”?

At least in the western world, this is very true. Women really think they are something special. If you have a good self esteem those c~~~s are trying to lower it with different shaming tactics. I don’t know how much sense it makes (and don’t even want to know) but they are seriously sick in their head.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

A polite but firm ‘I find you repulsive’ normally keeps them away. News spreads around the hive.

However, I did have one come and argue that I upset her friend …. when she invaded my space.

I told this friend that I found her loud and repulsive.

I don’t know why they come back or stay interested.

Maybe it’s like gay guys trying to ‘turn’ a straight man.

What is keep the slaves off the plantation? … This fascinates them …. gina tingles.

[narwhalParticipant]

KM mentioned how women seek out men in nature. That doesn’t always appear that way in many cases, but I think it is still true . There is the classic peac~~~ example, where the male displays his colors to the female. I think it should be pointed out that the male peac~~~ is displaying his health and vitality to the female. He is not bowing down before her and displaying his weakness.

And I don’t see ignoring women as what attracts them, per se, it’s that it can be seen as a display of strength. For a woman who is used to getting attention, the man who refuses to can be attractive, but if he shows weakness in other areas, the sum is not enough. A man who gives her attention, has money, looks, and social skills will be attractive. She may not respect him, but she will want him. A man who ignore her, is poor, and no social skills may not appear strong enough, or she may assume he is so weak that he won’t even try to give her attention.

I But there is catch to this. When I first my ex, she was attracted to me partially because I was in a leadership role at my church. However, since I lead a singles group, getting married took me out of that role, and really, out of that church altogether. She wanted that to happen, as it gave me time to devote to us, but at the same time, she lost some attraction to me. Women will also try and sabotage the strength of their man so that he appears less attractive to other women. Is not uncommon for a wife to actively discourage her husband from going to the gym, for example.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 22]

narwhal wrote:

Women will also try and sabotage the strength of their man so that he appears less attractive to other women.

Yes, absolutely true.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

narwhal wrote:

She wanted that to happen, as it gave me time to devote to us, but at the same time, she lost some attraction t

Bingo and back to my first post. On the surface, women say they think it should “work” like that… but if you allow it, she loses attraction for you.

Anonymous wrote:

At least in the western world, this is very true. Women really think they are something special. If you have a good self esteem those c~~~s are trying to lower it with different shaming tactics.

It’s the FIRST THING a (western) female will go for. Your “ego” and self esteem. As far as she’s concerned, you’re not permitted to think highly of yourself or have an “ego” at all.

But “GET YOUR F~~~ING HANDS OFF MY EGO – IT DOESN’T BELONG TO YOU” is frequently my inner dialogue when women attack the ego s~~~. In reality, she doesn’t get to have a problem with it. Because I ALREADY KNOW her ego is 1000X worse and more out of c~~~rol than mine.

I don’t mind a woman who thinks she’s “something special”. But if she needs to tear a man down to “feel special” she can find another doormat thankyouverymuch.

Ego in men is AWESOME and accomplishes miracles of the modern world.
Ego in women is repugnant.

ILiveAgain wrote:

A polite but firm ‘I find you repulsive’ normally keeps them away.

Will have to remember that one. 🙂

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Different c~~~, same bulls~~~.

Trend I said way back, Women will define mgtow as the new bad boy, and you know how women lust for bad boys, right?

yep gentlemen, a bunch of STD disease c~~~s, are going to be offering their vaginas to us.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

perhaps she really finds it attractive because it has become the unattainable fruit. I knew mormon missionaries who were constantly approached by women because these women wanted to corrupt them and make them betray their beliefs. They were a trophy, a challenge. This woman sees a mgtow man as a trophy.

mgtow offers no commitment because he doesn’t want a relationship or marriage. No commitment means she can f~~~ one and stay on the c~~~ carousel.

Also, men who don’t care about women have a thunderc~~~ appeal. She’s already thinking about trying to change a mgtow. Women love a project, a man she can work on changing over years of his life.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[AttonParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The female reaction to MGTOW is interesting:

http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-i-find-mgtow-attractive-197567/

It seems to range from defensiveness and insecurity through to inquisitiveness about the concept and attraction towards MGHOWs.

Not that I care, but it’s an intriguing thought that MGTOW itself could be an unconscious male instinct at work among at least some of us: i.e. in order to find women, distance yourself from them.

The woman who wrote this bulls~~~

Nuff said

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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