Solution to ridding ourselves of the "need" for "Women".

[sidecarParticipant 35874]

Ah, now we’re getting somewhere.

HateSweetLies wrote:

I am pretty sure I need B (it is not just softing the prostate I am afraid. I like to have contact with female body. I am lets say a little bit attached to it’s feminity – maybe because only area in which women have still feminity nowadays is their look.),

I think you’re confusing a want and a need there, though. Yes, sex can be a lot of fun, but then so can riding the rides at Disneyland. However if Disneyland cost you a couple hundred dollars a trip with no guarantee you’ll get to go on any rides, and even if you do get to ride you find the seat on the ride is sticky and gross from earlier riders, and there’s a good chance that you might well lose half your stuff and end up having to pay the Walt Disney Corporation a monthly check for the next 20 years or so, well do you really NEED to take that trip to Disneyland? Or do you realize that you only want to go to Disneyland, but have worked out the benefit doesn’t make up for the tremendous cost and risk?

[hmskl’dParticipant 6442]

Some physicists believe our universe could be a hologram and everything you see – including the screen you are reading this on – is nothing but a projection. (see theoretical physicist Juan Maldacena) … researchers in Japan have also found mathematical evidence of this possible holographic principal.

Having said that; the batch of current human females that we all are dealing with might be nothing but flawed holograms.

 

[VectorParticipant 178]

Bottom line, human’s aren’t designed to be monogamous.  The reptilian part of the brain will always take over.  Women are good for sex, and indulging you in your fetishes, and that’s it, unless you want to father a child (if that is your goal).  I say live alone, focus on your life, pursue your hobbies, make as much money as you can, have lots of friends, never get into relationships, and never live with a woman.  Use them for sex, and any other reason you desire.  Once they get too attached and start talking about a relationship, you leave them, and hop on to the next train.  This pattern will ensure the “honeymoon” period never ends.  We all know too well about the honeymoon period.  It’s great for the first 4-6 months, then it’s downhill from there.  During the first few months, all the amazing feelings you get, alone with the dopamine overload is incredible!  Just keep reliving these amazing times, and you will grow old a very satisfied man.  You will be the envy of all your married friends who are miserable when you tell them all the pussy you’ve got.  Most married men cheat because they are sick of the same woman over and over and over again.  If I decided to eat cereal for breakfast for the rest of my life, I would get pretty f~~~ing bored after a few weeks.

A wise old man once said; when asked if he could do it all over again, what would he do differently.  You know what his answer was?  He said “I wish I chased more women in my youth.”

We as men, want to f~~~ as many women as we possibly can before we die.  We want all of our sexual fantasies to come true, with as many women possible.

 

[HateSweetLiesParticipant 50]

Sidecar:

It is taking over my mind I would say 30%-50% of the time, so I assumed this is my need, rather than just a thing I want. No matter what I do I cannot get rid of those thoughts. Maybe this is this reptilian part of a brain.

Vector:

You are 100% correct. I spend 20 years of my life believing that it is my male duty to find one women and care about her happiness. Until I realised that this way nobody will take care of mine. I still have some moral issues, but now I know that women have no honor and morality in every aspect of their life, so I have right to take a break in only one aspect of mine. Tom Leykis in his auditions told me that I do not have to be in relationship to get sex (Well I did not managed to do this yet but he told so many other wise things that I have a reason to believe him) so it is not cheating (because I do not promised anybody that I am her exclusive).

So practically I want to try it with different women, but I am either really bad at realising this idea or I miss something. It may sound strange but I have a passion that I currently value more than sex. I spent most of my time on this passion. I sacrificed most of my money and time to go to good college in order to learn it better and be able to do this professionaly in the future.  Few months ago I stopped going to the clubs and pubs, but still when I see some attractive girl with some guy I realise that he will be screwed. I realise that he is for 99% being used all the time and get sex rarely. But still he got this one night with her. And I am not getting even that with any girl I like. So on one side I pursue things I really love and I spend nearly everything I have to do them, on the other I get impression that every day I miss sexual activity more.

Marriage is not an option. I do not want to get married until I finish my college, as it will destroy my plans. After college I am 100% sure I will not be married. Nowadays marriage is to benefit women and destroy men. Once you get in you had lost, no matter what you do. Even most Alpha men seems falling down after one year. Sidestep is only good option when it appears in front of you.

I really talk a lot about myself here. Well I hope that other young men will benefit from your advices here too. As those advices are really awesome. I am happy that I discovered mgtow.

You used me
To get ya anything you wanted
Oh...but I'm a changed man
It's your other friend that gets ya what you want now

,,Bad Influence"
Robert Cray

[HimeoParticipant 471]

What “Need” for women? I’m not going to have kids. I don’t “Need” women.

I’m a step ahead of this thread already.

[sidecarParticipant 35874]

HateSweetLies wrote:

It is taking over my mind I would say 30%-50% of the time, so I assumed this is my need, rather than just a thing I want.

But here’s the critical difference:  Will you die if you don’t put your penis in some woman’s vagina?  Somehow I don’t think so.  And is it worth losing half your stuff and being enslaved to her by the courts for the next twenty years to life?

I’ve never said it isn’t an intense want, but that’s all it is.  A want.  Not a need.  And it’s a hideously expensive and risky want to fulfill.

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