(Sob) If you could only forgive

[RASmanParticipant 1994]

Get out your tissues and read…..

http://globalforgivenessinitiative.com/articles/mgtow-and-forgiveness/?gclid=CKOQ2PexvtMCFUi2wAodpjYA4Q

The MGTOW/Men’s Rights Stance

Some men in deciding to become MGTOW (or active in Men’s Rights) can be tempted to cling to their rage as a way of supporting the MGTOW/Men’s Rights stance in their life. They associate their awakening with being angry and they worry that if they lose their anger their resolve will weaken and they will become trapped in the “matrix” of their old way of life again. However, holding on to anger and rage is not a good long-term strategy as it puts the body and mind under intense stress. Besides, any life-style fueled by bitterness and anger is not likely to be a happy one.

Taking a stance against members of the opposite sex is not going to set us free. What sets us free is the ability to forgive ourselves and to forgive others so that we can see the inner causes of things and not be blinded by anger and resentment. What sets us free is the desire to want others to be free also and to do what we can to help make that happen.

Guess MGTOW is making an impact.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

RASman wrote:

Guess MGTOW is making an impact.

…among those who completely fail to comprehend MGTOW.

I have to wonder what this person thinks qualifies as “forgiveness”. Becoming a chump for some slore?

MGTOW are about avoiding the mistakes of getting married, cohabitation, or procreating.

Forgiveness is irrelevant.

But fine, laydeez, we forgive you. But we still aren’t stupid enough to marry you, live with you, or impregnate you.

[WallyParticipant]

She doesn’t understand, intially Mgtow are angry but after the anger phases comes acceptance and finally enlightenment, we move on and better ourselves.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

when women finally get tired of bitching (as long as that takes) and realize that men are no longer interested, then comes bargaining.

They’re going to use the ol “I’m sorry, I was a fool.” BS, but don’t fall for it, it’s just another s~~~-test.

But honestly, some of these honkys could get on their knees and beg, and I still wouldn’t want to touch them.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

[Anonymous 18]

When you hear words like: forgiveness, morality, selflessness, for-the-greater-good, duty, righteousness, etc – you are either going to be robbed or stabbed.

Step away. Slowly.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

And another thing:

Besides, any life-style fueled by bitterness and anger is not likely to be a happy one.

We’re not bitter or angry at women.

We are laughing at them.

Because we are free.

On the contrary, if it’s bitter and angry you want, look no further than all the single post wall carousel cast-offs with their cats and box wine crying: “Where are all the Good Men™?”

But that is not our problem.

[AttonParticipant]

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[RennieParticipant]

Sorry.Not angry anymore…but I wouldn’t trust them with anything ever again either.

[joetechParticipant]

Let Jesus forgive. I choose to forget and move on. I remember only the lessons I’ve learned. I haven’t got time for the pain.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

When I was going through my divorce and severely depressed a (ironically) female therapist told me in regards to my ex-wife and her adultery. “You don’t have to forgive her. People say forgiveness is for you, for your peace of mind. That isn’t true. It is for them. To let someone else off the hook for how they’ve wronged someone. You don’t have to forgive, but you do have to learn to accept it and find your own peace.”

Despite this being a female therapist, to me it resonated.

F~~~ forgiveness.

[WOTGMParticipant 32]

sidecar wrote:

We are laughing at them.
Because we are free.

This! Id Have to agree wholeheartedly with that statement.

My goodness when I read that, I was cringing the entire time. Its like they just read one article randomly somewhere and came to this conclusion without critically thinking. But alas, what do you expect?

Seriously though I feel happy, enlightened, and thankful. Not in the slightest p~~~ed or angry, what bollocks.

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

I could forgive but i’m perfectly content not giving a f~~~. I don’t hate broads I’m just smart enough to not let one infect me with some pseudo-pyschological horses~~~. I do agree with the part about letting go of the anger. At some point on your journey it is essential to find peace and let go of your anger. You want forgiveness talk to Jesus…..Jesus may love you but everyone else thinks your an asshole.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[xenonParticipant 2007]

The whores that treated me like a piece of s~~~ in the past will never be forgiven. Forgotten asap but I do not forgive the unforgivable. Scratch or dent my car and forgiveness is readily at hand. F~~~ my friends for your own self aggrandizement and it isn’t ever going to happen. F~~~ing children in womens bodies.

I would expect a lot of this type of feelz good crap out there in the future. Someone f~~~s you over for a piece of ass does not deserve the time of day let alone your forgiveness. Nope. Liars and cheaters get forgotten. I don’t mean to make that sound easy because it isn’t and it has f~~~ed up my whole life. 1st gf to 2nd wife all the same and they may all go f~~~ off. When a man wakes up and sees a pattern like that at my age there are very few solutions. Either something is wrong with me as I thought most of my life or something is f~~~ed in the head with all of them. There appears to be nothing wrong with me but the usual crap we all deal with. Females. Forgiveness is for god; I have some choice words for that entity as well should the time ever come.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

I’m not sure what forgiveness has to do with MGTOW. I’m not here because i had a nasty breakup, infact i’ve pretty much been single my entire life, never been in a serious relationship.

I’m here because i recognize the society we live in values the lives and well-being of females, while disregarding the lives and well-being of males. I’m here because the the court system, corporate job market, and education system, all heavily favor females over males. I’m here because guys that have the same realizations, are here for me to interact with. I’m here because MGTOW lifestyle is my inner peace, it’s my self growth.

Outsiders who don’t understand MGTOW, get the idea we’re here just because we had a nasty breakup. Nothing could be further from the truth, MGTOW is about coming to terms with reality, and coming to terms with ourselves. The “red pill rage” phase, is where we’re focused on the external world only. After that we start to focus on what takes place in our own mind, our own lives. That’s where the MGTOW journey truly begins.

I suspect some outsiders know this, and they can’t stand it. They don’t want us focused on our own lives and well-being. They want to keep us focused on serving the external world (the female collective) and/or (the gynocentric society).

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

Antipathy wrote:

I’m not sure what forgiveness has to do with MGTOW. I’m not here because i had a nasty breakup, infact i’ve pretty much been single my entire life, never been in a serious relationship.

I’m here because i recognize the society we live in values the lives and well-being of females, while disregarding the lives and well-being of males. I’m here because the the court system, corporate job market, and education system, all heavily favor females over males. I’m here because guys that have the same realizations, are here for me to interact with. I’m here because MGTOW lifestyle is my inner peace, it’s my self growth.

Outsiders who don’t understand MGTOW, get the idea we’re here just because we had a nasty breakup. Nothing could be further from the truth, MGTOW is about coming to terms with reality, and coming to terms with ourselves. The “red pill rage” phase, is where we’re focused on the external world only. After that we start to focus on what takes place in our own mind, our own lives. That’s where the MGTOW journey truly begins.

I suspect some outsiders know this, and they can’t stand it. They don’t want us focused on our own lives and well-being. They want to keep us focused on serving the external world (the female collective) and/or (the gynocentric society).

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

[Anonymous 1]

Antipathy wrote:

I’m not sure what forgiveness has to do with MGTOW. I’m not here because i had a nasty breakup, infact i’ve pretty much been single my entire life, never been in a serious relationship.

I’m here because i recognize the society we live in values the lives and well-being of females, while disregarding the lives and well-being of males. I’m here because the the court system, corporate job market, and education system, all heavily favor females over males. I’m here because guys that have the same realizations, are here for me to interact with. I’m here because MGTOW lifestyle is my inner peace, it’s my self growth.

Outsiders who don’t understand MGTOW, get the idea we’re here just because we had a nasty breakup. Nothing could be further from the truth, MGTOW is about coming to terms with reality, and coming to terms with ourselves. The “red pill rage” phase, is where we’re focused on the external world only. After that we start to focus on what takes place in our own mind, our own lives. That’s where the MGTOW journey truly begins.

I suspect some outsiders know this, and they can’t stand it. They don’t want us focused on our own lives and well-being. They want to keep us focused on serving the external world (the female collective) and/or (the gynocentric society).

That just about covers the whole thing. Thanks for posting that Opt Out.

[Anonymous 5]

True once red pill rage subsides just enlightenment begins . This is the start of our new life as stealthy would say unc~~~ .

[Anonymous 11]

What rage???? I simply don’t give a f~~~. Another shaming attempt failed.

Sure, I’ve had nasty break ups. The grass has long since grown over those paths. The totality of female behavior on all fronts is why I became a MGHOW. My insignificant personal past issues pale when compared to the big picture.

[Anonymous 42]

I like the way they just la-tee-daa past all the agony and suffering men go through to arrive at MGTOW X roads.

What? We simply forgive and forget then shove another limb in the carousel man grinding machinery?

These f~~~ing idiots can jump into the gears of forgiveness and grind all their limbs down to stumps in their instinctive effort to save the same machinery that ground them to pieces in the first place. A moron’s endeavor!

Only one word comes to mind when a man throws himself on the funeral pyre of unwarranted and unwanted forgiveness, that word is FOOL!

[BoarParticipant]

When whimyn are willing to ‘forgive’ men for wanting personal sovereignty, I might be willing to listen. But, I will never get involved with them again.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

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