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Just Mike 4 years, 2 months ago.
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Anonymous0I have been a member for only a short time but have lived the philosophy for several years, Just didn’t have a name for it. MGTOW provided that. I have also noticed that in the forums there are emotions from Rage to philosophical. We need all of these emotions to be let out. It is how men process.
My question becomes What Now? I have read some posts that advocate for a “presence and voice” and bricks and mortar buildings, and membership and “walks” like the feminists have and some posts that advocate Level 4 Ghost. Some want to get the message out and some want to stay out. lol.
I’m starting this thread to get others’ opinions on what to do now. Where do you see growth of the MGTOW philosophy? How do you get the message out to those that are living it but just don’t have a focus? How can we help the younger ones to avoid the same traps we fell into?
So…..here goes: My suggestion is for all MGTOW’s to tell one other man every day about MGTOW.com. Formula: 11,495 members x 31 days per month = 356,345 men hearing about MGTOW.com every month. No t-shirts,bumper stickers, c~~~ walks etc. etc. Just one man telling another man. Nothing for the Feminazi to attack.
What do you think?
I’ve been thinking about this and all i can come up with is solutions to make only my life better, i feel helpless in regards to helping other men.Your suggestion is a start.
But more importantly you asked the right question.The message is being spread, every hour of the day a Man discourages another from sacrificing his existence at the altar of Woman, from spending even a dime on a hoe or from taking some bitch’s bulls~~~.
The word’s out and Men are striking Marriage all over the planet. This isn’t a new phenomenon, it only recently gathered steam with Internet exposure and has hit the T~~~s squarely on the nose. This website has been under heavy attacks ever since it went online. The weemins/feminists/menginas hate it and are themselves helping to spread the word with hit pieces and unintelligible rants.
The point of MGTOW isn’t to organise around some pathetic “march” or group into a “movement” with hiarchy and an office somewhere.
The way MGTOW spreads is word of mouth or by setting an exemple for other men to realise that a Man’s Self-Preservation has become a must and should be first and foremost in his mind given the present lethal societal climate Feminism has created.
Many men are going their own way away from the craziness of this topsy- turvy society, many do not know about this website but still understand mgtow concepts. Many of us here on this site were mgtow long before any definition of it and this website will continue to grow by leaps and bounds.Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!I don’t necessarily talk about MGTOW to anybody else, but I do talk about MGTOW ideas.
Last night at work I was asked if I have any of my Christmas shopping done by a male co-worker. I explained to him that after paying my middle daughter’s college and co-signing her car loan I’m about done for her. I followed up with my oldest daughter and her fiance at the time lived with me rent free for a year and a half, ending about a year and a half ago, so I don’t feel compelled to buy anything big for either of them. My youngest plays select soccer and I buy her all of her gear, pay trainer’s fees, and all travel and tournament expenses. My two-month old Granddaughter doesn’t need much yet.
He proceeded to tell me that his long time girlfriend wanted a MacBook to be able to write her blog so he got her one. I told him that if he had broken up with her he could have had a MacBook. He said that he would never have spent that kind of cash on a MacBook if she didn’t want one. He isn’t the quickest, so he just sort of smiled and nodded, but the seed was planted.
I asked him about two hours later if he hadn’t spent 1200 on a MacBook that he didn’t want, instead spending a much smaller amount on a blogger appropriate laptop, what would he have spent the money on? He named a couple of things. I asked him if he still had the receipt, and had he told her yet that he got the Mac.
For the record, the guy makes $9 bucks an hour, so you can do the math for how many weeks he worked for her present.
Another one of my co-workers just laughs every time I get into my “misogynistic” joke mode. I pass time by just throwing out one liners about much later in married life than he’s reached. He has a photo of his two-year bride that shows a much smaller silhouette. He loves the girl that she was, but true to the old joke the best food to cure an anorexic is wedding cake. She’s got to be almost twice the woman he married, and since she’s bi- and he won’t “do certain things” for her she is allowed to have play dates.
I consider him a lost cause and now I just tell the jokes because they make him uncomfortable. The fall will be hard for him some day.
You won’t save everybody, and I won’t ever direct anybody here unless they ask me directly “Where do all of your great ideas come from?” Otherwise, as far as they know it’s just me passing time on the overnight shift.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
Quite honestly, if you were to tell a mangina about MGTOW, you’ll just be making more work for yourself. I wouldn’t even bother.
I have told a friend, and it’s up to him if he wants to join the site, but I know he’s most of the way there, despite being married. He doesn’t take s~~~ from his wife, and she doesn’t put up with any mangina behaviour, which is good for him.
I’d probably suggest MGTOW to other guys I encounter, but it has to be the right thing at the right time.
all i can come up with is solutions to make only my life better,
Same here. All I can do is run my own life as best I can and let other men do the best they can with theirs. That’s all.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
Why spread? I don’t see the need. I can live my life in peace and quiet as long as no-one sees a threat in it. If I and a few other thousands of men live on our own terms the powers that be will not care. The day half of all men won’t cohabit and won’t father children (marriage here is dead anyways) we will be in the line of fire. Why would I want that? Let simps be simps I say.
For me, the answer is just to lead by example. I may come across as a loud opinionated guy here on the site, but I’m not loud (but I am opinionated) and keep to myself offline. I just live my life and hope that my enjoyment of it will be visible to my fellow man. One of my uncles has never married and that made an impression on me early on. He’s never bragged about his cool s~~~, or what he does, but I could and can always see it.
Quite honestly, if you were to tell a mangina about MGTOW, you’ll just be making more work for yourself. I wouldn’t even bother.
Depends on the mangina – they’re not all the same. Some ended up that way by default because they’ve never been exposed to anything else, or if they have been exposed, it was a very negative experience (being bullied by more masculine men, etc). I’ve actually got a pretty warm reception from some that I have mentioned the idea to.
The day half of all men won’t cohabit and won’t father children (marriage here is dead anyways) we will be in the line of fire.
Line of fire for what? (honest question)
If they tried to instate a bachelor tax then they would have to openly admit to systemic hypocrisy and it would destroy the womyn-as-victim narrative, especially with social media out there now. Plus the whole thing about agency and choice in reproduction, etc.
Picture thousands of online feminists ranting about gender inequality being SHUT DOWN by the simple reply of: “oh yeah, if you think you’re discriminated against, try having to pay a tax because of your gender and marital status.”
That would break their entire narrative of systemic bias (against women – we know the truth) and would turn a great deal of attention to the plight of men ( Picture 60 minutes: “James lives under an overpass. He lives there because on top of huge child support and alimony payments, he’s now required to pay the bachelor tax.” – perfect fodder for the prurient news outlets)
I honestly think the bachelor tax would be a good thing for the situation of men in general because it would expose the truth of our existence and the virtual enslavement many are forced to work under.
Of course it would never pass, if for no other reason than the ones stated above.
"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,
Anonymous11I am similar to your progression OP.
I began to more fully go my own way five a half years ago. A few relationships with women during the early to middle part of that period of time finally pierced the veil for me. Yes, they pretty much all really are like that. Yet, I had no true bearing on what I had become.
Almost a year ago I found this site. I learned what I was. I learned that I am not alone. I am still learning.
I wanted to spread MGTOW to others too when I first learned of it though I only hit the elementary basics like white knighting and female manipulation . I have learned that most men are so pussy addicted that they cannot even comprehend. I have decided to let them learn as I did.
No quarter will be given to the ignorant. I will act to save a man if I sense he is ready.
No quarter will be given to the ignorant. I will act to save a man if I sense he is ready.
Very good point, CPig I was just about to say that, but you were quicker & took the words right out of my mouth, cheers..!
I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC
My question becomes What Now?
.. and my answer is simply “Now” … there is nothing now other than your path … living one’s life … following your unique journey,
It’s a case by case basis. .Some men are very deep blue pill, like under water blue. .they don’t grab the rope you throw in to save them ..for a real friend I might jump in and drag him out. .the rest swim or die..
Line of fire for what? (honest question)
If they tried to instate a bachelor tax then they would have to openly admit to systemic hypocrisy and it would destroy the womyn-as-victim narrative, especially with social media out there now. Plus the whole thing about agency and choice in reproduction, etc.
Picture thousands of online feminists ranting about gender inequality being SHUT DOWN by the simple reply of: “oh yeah, if you think you’re discriminated against, try having to pay a tax because of your gender and marital status.”
That would break their entire narrative of systemic bias (against women – we know the truth) and would turn a great deal of attention to the plight of men ( Picture 60 minutes: “James lives under an overpass. He lives there because on top of huge child support and alimony payments, he’s now required to pay the bachelor tax.” – perfect fodder for the prurient news outlets)
I honestly think the bachelor tax would be a good thing for the situation of men in general because it would expose the truth of our existence and the virtual enslavement many are forced to work under.
Of course it would never pass, if for no other reason than the ones stated above.
You treat this as if it is an issue you can combat with reason and logic, it is not. If it was, then the system as we know it would never have come to be in the first place. It is, as far as I see it, a form of slavery; you will work/pay because someone else considers themselves entitled to your labour and/or income, where is the logic and reason in that to begin with?
I have no doubt that our governments and our women are capable of pretty much anything if they feel threatened, and they will use the most absurd rethorics to justify their measures to keep their fingers in the honey jar. As such I don’t have any intentions of finding out, much better to just be seen as “that poor loser that can’t get a girlfriend”. That is the absolutely safest bet you can find!
As for “James living under an overpass”, you can find plenty of guys going to jail for not paying more than 100% of their income in allimony and child support, where is the CBS on that?Whatever you want. I don’t we should ever go out into the streets and walk, that won’t change anything. By not getting married, that will say something. By not buying women s~~~ will say something. By making women work instead of leach will say something. Actions speak louder than words. I’ve tried it, you can go on forums and post and try to argue online with well worded and thought out arguments, and cite your sources, and they’ll say
“You’re a misogynist.”
There’s no reasoning with them. You’ve escaped the meat grinder, now all you can do is LIVE 😀
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
My question becomes What Now?
What Now? You are your own NOW. That’s what’s now.
You own your own now. You and you alone control your now. The question is what are you going to do with your now.
I own my own now. I and I alone control my now. I know what I’m doing with my now.
Each of us here owns their now too. They and they alone will decide what to do for themselves.
I have read some posts that advocate for a “presence and voice” and bricks and mortar buildings, and membership and “walks” like the feminists have…
I strongly disagree with those opinions. I believe such actions are the antithesis of the MGTOW movement. MGTOW’s bedrock strength is it’s nebulous, protean, and anonymous nature. Because no one speaks for MGTOW, the movement’s undeniable results can speak for themselves.
We don’t need membership fees, clubs, official spokesmen, op-ed pieces, issues, leaders imposing dogma and punishing heresy, schisms, and all the rest. All that is coming, mark my words. The increasing number of stories, documentaries, and the like mean that MSM and others are frantically scrambling to understand MGTOW. They’re looking for leaders and spokesmen because they cannot comprehend of a movement without leaders and spokesmen. Eventually, they’re going to anoint and appoint people to be those leaders and spokesmen if only so they can then dismiss the movement.
We don’t need to provide them with targets. We need to emulate the mist. All we need are men living their lives and, by living those lives, acting as examples.
So…..here goes: My suggestion is for all MGTOW’s to tell one other man every day about MGTOW.com.
No. You can’t proselytize. A man can’t be led to MGTOW, he has to arrive on his own. Once he’s on the threshold, we can welcome him to our brotherhood, but a man first has to want to be here.
Men are addicted to the expectations of women and society. As with any addiction, you must want to break it. No one can make that decision for you.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Alright. You know I am not gonna lie. I have spread MGTOW in the City that I live in when I take an Uber cab to work sometimes. It started as a thing where I would strike up a conversation with a guy and I would spread MGTOW through citing some of the bulls~~~ that Males have to go through in this country and not only does it insight rage with Married men. I hate to say it but I like wreaking havoc in my City.
Yes I said my City. I really want this to be a hub for MGTOW. I have spread MGTOW to several of the Uber drivers in the area by just citing something like Manspreading. I am not afraid to insight rage amongst males who are being beaten down by the system. Not sure if I am playing with fire but I have done it and it can be done.
You won’t save everybody, and I won’t ever direct anybody here unless they ask me directly “Where do all of your great ideas come from?” Otherwise, as far as they know it’s just me passing time on the overnight shift.
You are right Ogre when you say that not everybody can be saved. One day while riding in a cab. I encountered a guy that was just about to be Divorced from his wife. The woman apparently won’t stop Gambling and spending money. So i decided to ask him after he hung up the phone when she called during my cab ride. He seemed very miserable and just absolutely distraught.
Granted its not one of those expensive Cabs.
Me: “Is that your wife”
Cab Driver: “Yes” he waved his hand across his neck and said “She’s done I am done with her”
Me: “Why are you done with her”
Cab Driver: “She’s spending way too much money, and she addicted to gambling, and just won’t stop.”
Me: “Have you talked to her about it”
Cab Driver: “Lost cause, and there is no stopping it.”I did mention MGTOW to him in the context that won’t ever see him again but to be honest I don’t mind doing it once in a while. I do it in a way that it will get them curious about how to stop the madness in society. But the guy didn’t seem so receptive to it. I see so many guys struggling and I just can’t f~~~ing sit and watch s~~~ go down like that. I just come out with it sometimes. Maybe I should stop or just shut up so they learn the hard way but its so hard when you know that you could have changed someone’s life. I know I might grow out of this at some point but man its hard to not say something.
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
Anonymous6Named my wifi router FTW WW3 Bitchez mgtow dot com, it grabs attention lol…
Anonymous0Thanx Guys,
All comments are appreciated. 1 man tells 1 other man each day ergo 1 x 365 =365. Out of that 365 MAYBE 1 will take the message to heart. That’s good enough for me and that is what I intend to do. Again, I appreciate all your insights but this is my way forward. Read. Post. Learn. What one man shares another learns.All these guys who won’t turf women who obviously drag them down because they ‘love’ them. Best thing I ever did was to break love down into exactly what it is: hormones going rampant and making you do stupid things. It’s all in your body, got nothing to do with a connection between two people. In a relationship love is just a cliched guilt trip used to manipulate men out of more resources. Yet they just sit there and do nothing about it. Weak, indecisive behaviour.
If I were to end up with a woman I’d be looking for an equal, not some useless c~~~ who I always had to float emotionally and financially.
But, that’ll never happen and I’m fine with that truth; there is no equal. I’ve seen zero evidence.Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.
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