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I really have no problem with my family or friends. However, they get on my nerves so much that a few days ago, I almost blew a blood vessel above the top of my left eye. And you know what? it’s still sore as if it’s bruised that’s how angry I got being around their bulls~~~.
It’s not that I hate them, I just hate being around them.
I have plenty of SJW types in my family and they p~~~ me off the most. Which is why I can’t wait to move out of my parents place. In a sense, they’re both social justice warrior f~~~tards for different reasons.
When I do end up moving, I plan on getting the f~~~ out of my home state and possibly end up moving across the country or even into a different country just to be as far away as possible from them.
The main reason I’m getting away from them is essentially because whenever I’m around them, I try not to argue with their bulls~~~ as much as possible so there won’t be any fights and to keep the peace. But, that’s wearing on me fast.
The women in my family are all self-entitled c~~~s. Just today even, when I was applying to a carpenter apprenticeship, my aunt who was driving me over there was trying to say bulls~~~ such as this:
: You don’t look like a plumber, you need baggy sweatpants and your crack showing out. If you become a carpenter, you’re going to be wasting your mind because the only thing carpenters do is physical labor. You’re much better suited for something in IT/science.
I wanted to tell her to go f~~~ herself with those comments. But, I restrained myself from doing so and almost blew a blood vessel while acting like a “nice little mangina” and just disagreeing with her in a “respectful” way.
I mainly played dumb and acted like I didn’t know what she was talking about to avoid a fight. But I can’t keep that act up forever. Not if I want my mental and physical health to stay intact.
Which is why my next goal in life is move as far away from family as possible. After I realized what MGTOW was, I just realized most people were gynocentric f~~~wits not worth my time.
Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.
While I hear you, that’s a terrible example. What she says makes perfect sense, except the patronizing tone. But that’s common as adults in the family are used to talk to you as a child, even after you grow a bit older.
Why not defuse the situation with a comment like “That’s what other folks in my family are saying. I wish they had more trust in me and my choices now that I grew up”? No point in having a heart attack over small talk.
And not trying to be a jerk, but if you don’t like talking to them while getting favors from them (!), get a job and buy your own car? Blue pill hell my ass… this is entitled teenager category.
A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)
Sounds like you could benefit from using a little humor in your life. People in emergency services use dark humor to cope with their challenges and you could adapt to your situation by being a little more carefree around your family.
Aunty Merkin: You don’t look like a plumber, you need baggy sweatpants and your crack showing out. If you become a carpenter, you’re going to be wasting your mind because the only thing carpenters do is physical labor. You’re much better suited for something in IT/science.
Anthony: Tradies get the ladies, Aunty Merkin.
Boom goes the dynamite.
Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman
Anonymous42You don’t look like a plumber, you need baggy sweatpants and your crack showing out. If you become a carpenter, you’re going to be wasting your mind because the only thing carpenters do is physical labor. You’re much better suited for something in IT/science.
@tony, Your aunt is ignorance personified! Jesus was a carpenter and look at the profound changes he made, her entire world around her and existence was improved by carpenters. Lets see her make a Stradivarius violin and see what kind of music she can play. She’s very TOXIC and slandering of all things as she herself is ignorant of everything. She’s an empty vessel filled with the ashes of pride and narcissism (she’s incurable).
I mainly played dumb and acted like I didn’t know what she was talking about to avoid a fight.
Tony, this is where women get the idea that men are somewhat stupid, they don’t realize how much they choke up our thoughts with their utter ignorant and arrogant stupidity! Bro, I have one distant relative that matches the psychosis you’re surrounded by, everything is constant backbiting, turmoil, slander, and extreme negativity with all hopes and trust placed in ever expanding the government’s role in EVERYTHING.
You already told yourself what must be done, but do it mentally, not so much physically, this is YOUR world to live in and think and go as you please, you need to train your mind to ignore the fingernails on the chalkboard of modern women’s words and dirty corrupt thinking. You are in a toxic environment where the people around you tear each other down and have no concept of building each other up.
Hang with us bro, we’ll teach you how to cope with bulls~~~ like that and you will gleefully chuckle instead of popping a blood vessel, it’s all about rising above “intellectually”…
You’ll see…
Another, in a long list of examples, of a woman attempting to tell a male how to be a man.
When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.
when I was applying to a carpenter apprenticeship, my aunt who was driving me over there was trying to say bulls~~~ such as this:
: You don’t look like a plumber, you need baggy sweatpants and your crack showing out.
To Aunt, “Oh, I’m sorry, here, how’s this?” Lift up rear off seat and shove trousers down toward knees, then sit back down.
To Aunt, “There, now are you happy?”"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
You’re much better suited for something in IT/science.
A man is built for physical labor and it’s more fun.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
I’ve worn myself out by being around these kinda people to long. It’s nice having your own private space away from everybody, I took that for granted before, but after mgtow, I realized how lucky I am to have my own place alone, women don’t even know we’re I live, only a few men, I intend to keep it that way.
Yeah, it definitely is. Especially for MGTOW. Private places are like paradises for us. Women especially, are just annoying as f~~~ to be around 24/7.
I wish you the best, keep your cool, don’t blow no blood vessels
I definitely try. I do ignore women’s bulls~~~ for the most part, but it’s a little bit different when you have to deal with family. The only thing I can really do there is get as far away from them as possible.
Your aunt is ignorance personified!
It is. I don’t get the stigma against tradesmen some people have such as my aunt. I respect them whether or not they’re blue pill men just because of all the physical work they do to maintain everything from roads to houses. That’s damn hard work.
Bro, I have one distant relative that matches the psychosis you’re surrounded by, everything is constant backbiting, turmoil, slander, and extreme negativity with all hopes and trust placed in ever expanding the government’s role in EVERYTHING.
That’s exactly why I try to avoid getting in fights as much as possible. I’m not afraid of getting into fights, but I think it was @phoenix who said just try to ignore all the stupid people trying to drag you down to their level. It’s not worth getting into fights with them over anything.
Anthony: Tradies get the ladies, Aunty Merkin.
Ha, that’s a good one. I’ll definitely try that next time.
And not trying to be a jerk, but if you don’t like talking to them while getting favors from them (!), get a job and buy your own car? Blue pill hell my ass… this is entitled teenager category.
It wasn’t a favor for me. It was a favor for my mom and my aunt. before taking me down their, I fixed their slow ass computers which had a bunch of trailware and other s~~~ on it. I made their PCs 100% faster. I’m aware I can ride the bus and I would have. However, my mom is an overprotective narcissist.
She and pretty much any woman in my family love to act as if they’re “sacrificing” their time/etc. when they “help” me out so I just go along with their bulls~~~ to avoid even more drama. And s~~~ like rides aren’t worth getting into fights over.
To Aunt, “Oh, I’m sorry, here, how’s this?” Lift up rear off seat and shove trousers down toward knees, then sit back down.
To Aunt, “There, now are you happy?”I actually thought about doing that! Just to shut her up ha.
A man is built for physical labor and it’s more fun.
We definitely are. I love to do physical work for the most part depending on which type of work it is. It feels great and at the end of the day, you end up having a great sleep.
Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.
I don’t get the stigma against tradesmen some people have such as my aunt.
It’s simple, women care most about how much money a man earns.
A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)
Get the f~~~ out, man. My family was the same way. We’ve all more or less went our seperate ways because we can’t stand each other. It’s great, not having to deal with their bulls~~~, hearing their annoying voices and so on.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
While it’s true that many people who are ultimately successful will often thank their ENEMIES for being a driving force of inspiration….. you may want to avoid that being a primary motivator.
In other words, instead of telling yourself “I need to get as far away from THEM as possible” (pulling away from what you DON’T want)….. consider gravitating towards what you DO want, and see how far that takes you.
Less about getting away from X — and more about gravitating towards Y.
I knew my home town was MUCH TOO SMALL for me, and started my working life overseas. But it wasn’t to get away from what I knew. It was more about the world being TOO BIG for me to just stay put.
This may be why I have always taken so few vacations compared to other people. Because I was so focussed on trying to cultivate a life I wouldn’t feel a need to escape from.
Only in recent years did I realize that my home town (where my family is) is THE ONLY PLACE ON THE PLANET where I dry my hands with the wrong towel, drink from the wrong cup, cook with the wrong pan, or eat with the wrong spoon. At home I am always WRONG. Everywhere else in the world, It doesn’t matter what towel I use to dry my hands. My hands are dry and that’s all that counts. Just talking about which towel is the right towel is an infuriating and petty thing to waste a conversation on.
I STILL get asked “so when are you coming HOME?”
… to which I now reply “THIS is home. I may come and visit you, but this is my home. HOME is where I can dry my hands with whatever towel I feel like. And nobody will try to correct me.”.
It could turn out to be right next door, or thousands of miles away.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.In other words, instead of telling yourself “I need to get as far away from THEM as possible” (pulling away from what you DON’T want)….. consider gravitating towards what you DO want, and see how far that takes you.
Less about getting away from X — and more about gravitating towards Y.
That’s definitely a better way of putting it. I’ve always wanted to avoid my family for the most part because I’ve always lived around them. No matter where I was, at least 1 other family member was in the same state I lived in.
After I end up getting a better job and my own vehicle, I plan on just sitting down and planning on what I want to do in life. Not any long term plans, but rather short ones.
This may be why I have always taken so few vacations compared to other people. Because I was so focussed on trying to cultivate a life I wouldn’t feel a need to escape from.
That’s definitely one of the best ways to look at it. I’d rather be doing the same thing.
Only in recent years did I realize that my home town (where my family is) is THE ONLY PLACE ON THE PLANET where I dry my hands with the wrong towel,
That’s the way I feel about my home town. Any time I want to do anything that doesn’t conform to my families expectations, is wrong. Whether it’s a job, a certain vehicle I want, or how I want to spend my money. Every time I don’t meet their expectations, I’m WRONG.
After reading your post, I’m going to shift my goals to where I want to be instead of avoiding the people I don’t want to be around. Thankfully, a few of my goals involve living in another state/country even if I didn’t want to avoid my family which is great.
Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.
Anonymous3Yes, go away from them, move out. They are some worst kind of toxic that poisons you silently. (look in the book Susan Forward : Toxic parents, once you have some time,and then you will understand what I mean.)
Replying to Keymaster’s comment, about “Less about getting away from X — and more about gravitating towards Y.” You might need some peace of mind to figure out what to gravitate toward. You might need to run physically away first to get many hours of peace to think on this. This runaway can be to your chilling place, like the local library / favorite pub / favorite mountain biking trail / whatever.
If you don’t live with them any more, then you have your own household and you can lock your door on a flat you have or rent, then they don’t have more power over you.
I don’t know the typical distances at your city, but isn’t there public transport or isn’t that distance okay for a bicycle ride? If I were you I’d not sit in car next to a toxic person, given half the chance.
This runaway can be to your chilling place, like the local library / favorite pub / favorite mountain biking trail / whatever.
What I plan on doing in the next week, is going to either a fast food place/library and staying there for the majority of my free time. Only coming home when I need to eat/sleep.
I definitely need time away from them.
I don’t know the typical distances at your city, but isn’t there public transport or isn’t that distance okay for a bicycle ride? If I were you I’d not sit in car next to a toxic person, given half the chance.
I’m in Vegas, so the distances aren’t that far at all. What sucks is that I don’t have a vehicle and in the summer time especially, it’s a bitch to walk anywhere in the day time just because of how hot it is. But, I’d rather deal with the heat than with gynocentric bulls~~~ any day.
Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.
Anonymous3because of how hot it is
I can relate to it. My hometown is also very hot and sunny. It’s sometimes 40 deg Celsius and zero wind (and then I really miss the minus 20 degree Celsius in winter and the snow.)
Actually in summer most of the time I go bike ride in the very early morning or after sunset. (I have strong reliable LED lamps and hub dynamo, no failing batteries.)
And if I have to go out at daytime, I wear some “technical clothes” made for runners, it is an artificial plastic fiber material that dries off sweat damn quickly. (be prepared, they are expensive, like 50-100$ for a T-shirt, but very useful above 30-35 deg Celsius. If it’s hotter, like 40 deg C, soak a regular cotton T-shirt, and a baseball hat in cold water. These together with wind of speed will keep you cool for half an hour. And wear some cream against UV radiation if possible. But choose shadow if possible.
Once you arrive, cool down inside and change T-shirt to new one.But I cannot believe that there is no public transport there (like bus or underground or tram, local train?)
But I cannot believe that there is no public transport there (like bus or underground or tram, local train?)
Oh there is, I just prefer to ride my bike more because it’s actually faster than riding the bus for the most part. Only time I actually need to ride the bus is if my destination is about an hour away from me.
Thanks for the tips with the heat though. I’ll definitely end up doing what you said to help cope with the heat though.
Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.
I moved away from and eliminated my toxic family from my life.
For you, do it while you are young, and no matter how hard times get, never go back. Toxic parents can’t let go of the control they used to have when you were a child/teen and will continue that well into your adulthood. If you rebel, they could get you locked up, or destroy your possessions, and even try to kill you – I speak from experience!
They can and will ruin your life. Get on your own, and stay on your own, no matter what! Forgiveness is not an option.
Famine-ly. All a bunch of worthless c~~~s. I cut off everyone. They were pure poison and filth. Brother and sister sided with my c~~~ mother when we fell out and haven’t heard from them in over 4 years. Will never bother with the f~~~ing wankers again, unless they get down on their knees and apologise for being f~~~ing traitors.
If you’ve got s~~~ family, it will never change. They will never change. But you can eradicate them from your life by moving away and disowning them completely. Its feels so good to do so as well.
Famine-ly. All a bunch of worthless c~~~s. I cut off everyone. They were pure poison and filth. Brother and sister sided with my c~~~ mother when we fell out and haven’t heard from them in over 4 years. Will never bother with the f~~~ing wankers again, unless they get down on their knees and apologise for being f~~~ing traitors.
If you’ve got s~~~ family, it will never change. They will never change. But you can eradicate them from your life by moving away and disowning them completely. Its feels so good to do so as well.
I’ve pruned a few bad vines. I have zero regrets about it. Zero!
Famine-ly. All a bunch of worthless c~~~s. I cut off everyone. They were pure poison and filth. Brother and sister sided with my c~~~ mother when we fell out and haven’t heard from them in over 4 years. Will never bother with the f~~~ing wankers again, unless they get down on their knees and apologise for being f~~~ing traitors.
If you’ve got s~~~ family, it will never change. They will never change. But you can eradicate them from your life by moving away and disowning them completely. Its feels so good to do so as well.
I’ve pruned a few bad vines. I have zero regrets about it. Zero!
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