So I finally realize why I am probably so different from lots of people

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

I probably have Asperger’s. Not going to make it official though by have the psychologist diagnose me, because I am smart enough to know that people will just start using that concrete evidence against me. Not going to use this as a crutch in life, because I actually developed some social skills in life by going through the school of hard knocks and actually managed to have some relationships with people after a bad start in the beginning of my life. Thing is that I do not know why they say that Asperger’s have no conscience because I am probably the most empathetic person you guys will ever see at least at one point in my life until I started to realize later on that I need a thick skin or else people who play by you feeling sorry for them every time just to try to screw you up in some way later on like some con artists in life is general. All I got going for me now is that I am improving my french(already have basic french) to live in Quebec better, my english is pretty average, I am trying to master in at least making a few bucks in online poker playing 1 dollar sitandgo tournaments as some sort of hobby also, and I am now thinking of learning java(I did a java course in school in the past before which will give me a good head start) to make apps for the android mobile devices as I try to find a part time job as a cook’s helper or a prep cook in the morning. I also officially lost about 45 pounds in 2 years, and now I am confident that I will lose weight even faster now since I have this amazing plan to be more consistent with the way I eat and at the same time save lots of money on food. The sort of system in how I am eating right now will probably be in another post, but it is almost like 3 weeks now and I already lost like 5 pounds and I even enjoy the foods that I am eating very much and everything is actually very practical. Well that is about it, just wanted to bring this out and I also want to give a big shout out to all the aspergers over here.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I am an Aspie. It is not disability unless you can make it work for you. ADA is your friend.

The more I master it, the more I believe that it is a super power. OWN it.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[NerdtasticParticipant 194]

Doesn’t matter if same or different we are all brothers here in MGTOW.

[HitmanParticipant]

that’s all good news !
gaining control over yourself is awesome !
i can’t “diet ” ..psychologically it’s intimidating..
so i have an ” eating plan “..
saves money and keeps your health at optimum level.
……………..ya know,
we get told to share and not be selfish as children.
then you grow up and it doesn’t work so well..
a long time ago i figured it was o.k. to be more selfish ..
NOW i’m like a F~~~ING OVERLORD ruling my domain.
feels incredible !
keep on doing for YOU !
i love hearing good story’s like yours ,
keep up the great work brother-man !

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Hitman wrote:

we get told to share and not be selfish as children.

That reminds me when I I was about 12 years old. I was eating taco bell and these 2 girls came up to me hugging me asking for some of chicken quasedilla. I just gave them a very SMALL piece and ate all the rest for myself.

If there’s one thing a man loves more than women, it’s food. And bitches should never mess with my food. I hate that they think they can eat from my plate. That s~~~ annoys the hell out of me.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[AttonParticipant]

Build your skills let it become something you enjoy.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

Don’t worry Enjoy the Decline I’ve got Asperger’s aswell. Among other things I get panic attacks and acute anxiety.

I can assure you that it doesn’t make you that different. It’s more common than people would like to admit. I’ve got a friend who has Autism Spectrum Disorder. It’s an unpleasant label, because people tend to jump to conclusions when they hear it, but there are many different syndromes out there and not all of them affect the intellect.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

With this guy confessing s~~~ i might as well confess s~~~ too. I have ocd and hide it under a curtain so i don’t completely screw up socially. On the outside i am a dominant asshole who does not give a f~~~ on the inside i have irrational thoughts that cannot stop even if i want them to stop. The thoughts go about everything from chicks (anything you can think of really it really plagues me that i might develop emotions for some bitch or something about wanting to preform beta behaviors) or just any fear and i can’t get it out of my head at times.

By chicks i mean that i get repeated thoughts that i can’t control about opening up my feelings and s~~~ even thou i know that would make me a deadman. I as some you know am still young and i have not completely thrown them out this is part of the reason i have no definite stance on whether or not i will marry but the odds go against marriage.

The only way people in real life will found out about it is if i decide to write it down before my death and i gift someone a document or a diary (excuse me for the term) that states it. And no i do not want to die but sometimes thoughts like that can stick in my head and i can’t let them go easily.

If i go and completely cut off people like a monk would i would just end up depressed over it i am a natural extrovert in life.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Nothing bad about it, just own it and go on!

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 1]

anonymousyam wrote:

With this guy confessing s~~~ i might as well confess s~~~ too. I have ocd and hide it under a curtain so i don’t completely screw up socially. On the outside i am a dominant asshole who does not give a f~~~ on the inside i have irrational thoughts that cannot stop even if i want them to stop. The thoughts go about everything from chicks (anything you can think of really it really plagues me that i might develop emotions for some bitch or something about wanting to preform beta behaviors) or just any fear and i can’t get it out of my head at times.

By chicks i mean that i get repeated thoughts that i can’t control about opening up my feelings and s~~~ even thou i know that would make me a deadman. I as some you know am still young and i have not completely thrown them out this is part of the reason i have no definite stance on whether or not i will marry but the odds go against marriage.

The only way people in real life will found out about it is if i decide to write it down before my death and i gift someone a document or a diary (excuse me for the term) that states it. And no i do not want to die but sometimes thoughts like that can stick in my head and i can’t let them go easily.

If i go and completely cut off people like a monk would i would just end up depressed over it i am a natural extrovert in life.

Sounds like pure O’s. Same diagnosis myself.

Rumination is at times, my worst enemy.

[Anonymous 3]

Being born with less social skills forces aspergers to study and learn human behaviour and society. To their credit most end up behaving like anyone else.
But there is always the possibility to see beyond the conventional social accepted norm. Then aspergers have the possibility to call things as they are: bulls~~~, dual standards, hypocrisy and irrationality.

Anyway, forget the labels. The fact is to be normal is to have an average something. The average height of a male in US is 5’95. If you do not have the exact same height, you are not normal? Nonsense, there are people taller and shorter, and its their contribution to the mathematical average that gets that number. There must be just a few guys with the exact height of 5’95.

Reality is that we are all different.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Hitman wrote:

that’s all good news !
i can’t “diet ” ..psychologically it’s intimidating..

For me, it was never really a diet, it is just a way of life. I basically eat a certain way 5 days a week in the weekdays with the foods I like. By the time the last two days of the week comes, I would eat anything I want in moderation, as long as there is not too much sugar in it and I will probably not even binge eat because it is not like if I would be eating food I do not like in the weekdays before to the point that I would want to crave good tasting food later on. So in the end, I have not ever drink coke in like 2 years now which helped a lot in me being healthy and I would not even have it in my cheat days in the weekends still. I even eat 70% dark chocolate in the week days since I would not even eat a lot of it due to the bitter and sweat taste and there is also not as much sugar in it compared to regular milk chocolate. Even dr oz and andrew weil preached about how good dark chocolate is.

About my situation with probably being an aspie. Thing was that thank god I had a passion on reading, because that is what developed my english communication skills to the point that at least I am about average I think. As for french, it is a big burden that I am not bilingual by now but I did use a certain french language program called fluenz along with some french classes I took in the past to develop my french to at least basic french now. When I was young, I was told to just focus on learning english and then I would focus on learning french later on in life once you have a good english writing foundation which I am doing now finally. Thing is that I have to kick my a** in learning the french language, but as soon as I start doing a session in fluenz, I almost always do the session till the end because this program is making my life easier in learning the french language. Maybe after I am comfortable reading french, I will develop french skills with more passion through reading french books, because reading is how I developed better english communication skills in the past.

Also, with the prep cooking job, aspergers take longer to master stuff with manual dexterity but the idea is that I would practice learning to prep cook so much(I am already a much better prep cook than the average person) throughout the year, that by the time I get a job in cook’s helper or prep cook, I would hit the ground running. Just like I would have above average typing skills(I type like 40-60 words per minute) that took me years to develop, I am planning on having above average prepping skills.

Just wanted to point some of this stuff out.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 11]

@op: Great job on furthering yourself! There is no better investment than one we make in ourselves.

We’re all different. The way I look at it is that I leverage my strengths and shore up my weaknesses.

[alchemistParticipant 484]

I can relate completely to your whole initial post because I’m on the autistic spectrum aswell. (except for the dieting part, I’m actually almost too thin) I don’t even think about it, I couldn’t care less, but yeah I really relate to the part about empathy, so here’s an important saying for you which has helped me in life;

The high road leads off a cliff.

You know how people talk about taking the high road and being a better person and don’t take the low road; f~~~ it all, the high road is exploitation in most cases and the low road is being an arsehole or a pussy, take NO road! Go Your Own Way!

Keep up the good work 🙂

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