so how many of you date or are in a relationship

[Muricanguy0Participant 9]

Curious about how much people here date.  As I said in my introductory post, I came to the realization that a woman, active dating life, or anything like that won’t make you happy or fulfilled…you have to do that on your own, since if you are not happy with yourself, you can’t get happy if you find a woman.  While I am skeptical about the institution of marriage (I will never marry absent a prenup, not sure if I generally want to get married again, but not writing it off), I still am interested in sex and dating, but I certainly do not tie it to the value of me, and I am not in a tizzy if I thought a date went well, but she didnt want a second date etc…

So, what kind of romantic relationships do you have?  I have dated some, and met some interesting people during a recent stint on match.com.  Nothing for a LTR, but met a few people who seemed pretty nice, but nothing I wanted for a LTR.  I suppose I am at the stage where I enjoy woman and sex, but it represents a fraction of who I am and my interests.

I do have to say that I am certainly not a “white knight”.   In some ways, the nicer I was to women I dated, the worse treatment I got from them, and when I had a little bit of an edge to me, I have to admit that sex was given to me earlier and more often.  For the record, I never got laid from any woman who I gave her flowers or some other kind of gift on the 1st date.  Perhaps in some ways a little bit of distance and projecting that her attention and admiration is not reflective on your self-esteem puts you in a better light to a woman.  Who knows.

 

[Silpheed1975Participant 355]

I’m in a quasi-relationship. My view is if you aren’t complete before dating, no woman will ‘complete’ you. I have a friend who fails to see this, and he gets used by women left and right. But, he refuses to listen. If the woman I’m seeing decides to leave her boyfriend, then good…if not….not sure I care. Bottom line is that she only gets the “Trial version” of me, as long as she’s dating the whiney, needy and insecure little ‘half-man’. If things don’t work out to my liking, i’ll happily go back to being single, as I was for about 12 years before seeing her. I am slowly seeing her less and less, and if she’s smart, she’ll get the hint. If not, I’m truly not sure I care. More money and free time for me. I have a baby nephew that deserves my attention and free time, that would be enough for me.

Silpheed's Mom Quote: "Having PMS is no excuse to be a bitch.."

[QcummerParticipant 652]

Muricanguy0 wrote:

While I am skeptical about the institution of marriage (I will never marry absent a prenup, not sure if I generally want to get married again, but not writing it off)

Wrong forums, wrong website. Go away.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I think I speak for most MGTOW here why you haven’t written off marriage yet. You may be in the wrong.  Marriage is a bad deal for men especially with a pre nup. The fact that you want to protect yourself from a women you claim you want to dedicate your life is asinine. You clearly don’t trust a women enough to leave without screwing you over so why shack up with one to begin with? Not only that she will resent you over the years for not fully sacrificing on her behslf. Doesn’t matter if she’s poor ir makes six figures that want you fully invested. Think about that before you start asking the gentleman here what their relationship status is.

To answer your question no I do not date and never will. It’s a waste of time. Good for the first few months then everything goes to hell after. Not worth spending my life on.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[UntamedParticipant]

Relations~~~s and marriage, nowadays, both engage you in lifestyles and situations where the engame is your destruction, if not physical then psychological and societal. Whether you kneel and kiss feet or not. They’re irrational and your well-being is far removed from their heart. Their intentions don’t match their words and their thought processes don’t compute logic.
I’m perfectly fine going for months without even wanting to be around a wemin. By then, all I want is some erotic exercises and I don’t need to sign my life away for that.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Been there, done that, got the tee shirt, cut it up for rags to clean with. Nowadays, the only girl in my life is my dog. The human bitches are just too dangerous, or I am just not smart enough to keep them from messing me over. Either way, I am done with them.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I used to love women …. oh god … very very very much … heart and soul …. plus wallet.

It seemed by doing so I became an easy mark. All the women I loved took and gave nothing.

I thank them for my education. I was a poor pupil and took a lot of extra classes …. but I got the results after lot of sloging.

What Ive now got imprinted on my heart and soul are:

1. Women are incapable of true unconditional love.

2. They will fk over a nice guy.

3. They will leave at the first sign of trouble.

4. They will leech off you while fking another.

5. They will use children as shields or extraction devices.

6. They have no mercy or compassion.

7. I will fk them but that is all.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Yes. With her…..

 

 

 

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 42]

ILiveAgain wrote:

1. Women are incapable of true unconditional love. 2. They will fk over a nice guy. 3. They will leave at the first sign of trouble. 4. They will leech off you while fking another. 5. They will use children as shields or extraction devices. 6. They have no mercy or compassion.

You know the devil, he’s been in every woman since their creation! Now that their free, the devil is freed!

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I wont marry and i don’t date.I don’t really want the “ultimate gift” of their genitals either.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

The only women I have in my life are my motorcycles.   They are my babies.   They won’t criticize me or nag me.   They won’t lie to me.   They will tell me if something is wrong and will be honest through communication (i.e. clutch slippage, dead battery).  I will gladly spend money on them because they will not run away from me.   I take care of them and, in return, they take care of me.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Ok, so you are a fence sitter. Welcome to MGTOW. Whether or not you remain MGTOW, well that is going to be your choice. At least you are here. So you are AWARE. Now it is up to you to take the advice you receive here and do with it what you want.

To answer your question, I gave up on dating 100% at the age of 27. I am now 41. Why did I give up? Because I came to the realization that all the energy I put into “finding a girl” was simply not worth it. Not. Worth. It.

My only interest in women since then and to this day and will always be……….for sex. Nothing else. Absolutely nothing else.

 

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

I would NEVER under any circumstances get into a relationship with a woman.  Eventually, every man learns that a woman is only good for her pussy.  It’s sad, I know.  I wish that weren’t the case.  But women have no value or purpose otherwise.  They’re not a source of good conversation.  They don’t contribute to the relationship.  They cost a s~~~load of money.  And they’re NEVER happy.  I don’t hate women.  I just see no value in them.  Absolutely zero because I don’t want their pussy and I don’t want them.  Men would be a LOT happier if they had this mentality and maybe women would learn to become good people that are actually worth being around and spending time with.

[Terminus EstParticipant 145]

I have a few women in my orbit who at various times are friends with benefits or simply friends without much expectation of anything, which makes the relationship pleasant and less complicated.

Unfortunately women are hardwired to find a male as a resource, secure this resource and spend the rest of their lives engineering it for maximum output, so some of them inevitably try for this end goal and have to gently be removed from orbit.

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

After my 1st divorce my x told me she was a succubus – demon from hell come to steal the souls of men, and she was serious. Silly me still thought I must have pussy and married again. I tell you with great happiness that I am now and will forever remain single. (ghost level 4 at least)

[Anonymous 2]

I maintain D/s relationships only. I refuse to be monogamous.

[AttonParticipant]

The last time I dated was early in high school when I was around 14, After that I sat down for hours and debated the what value women had to bring to lives of men. Then I did the math and decided the costs where almost never worth the risks. So after that I committed to learning more about technology and the world.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[MadScientistParticipant 131]

Yeah.. Im like Terminus Est. I have women in my orbit, and they are gently removed if they get too close. All except one, who is a very good friend (with no benefits, thank god. I will tell you, she is from en entirely different breed, was raised in an entirely different way than most American Women, and is very very smart. We were having some dinner conversation, and at some point I laughed (I forget why) and I said “Come on, lets face it.. Women’s chief priorities are wealth, health and looks.. and Men’s are looks and brains. I mean.. come on” She c~~~ed her eyebrow, smiled that knowing smile women usually reserve for women, and said “Yeah.. thats about right. you have a point!” and we both laughed, knowing we both understood The Game. She is a pretty good egg, but she admits to her female nature. I have learned a lot from talking with her.. its almost like I got a sneak peek behind the door before I ever came to MGTOW. But no WAY would I ever marry her, or any other woman.

Anyhoo, absent one of these types of women who are, no s~~~, literally one in a million (and even with her, you are still dealing with female nature).. you will be much, screwed 20 years down the road when she is 40 or 50, and you have three college age kids Just let that settle in for a second and tell me you still want to get married, knowing that hot 27 year old is going to wither with age in a scant 20 years.. and when the last kid is off to college, you are left with a person who resents you for “stealing her life from her”, wont give you sex, and even if she did, she will probably be overweight and annoying, and very very much not attractive at all. Sure, you may get lucky, and get the sexy MILF, but notice those women are never f~~~ing their husbands in those videos?

So do you want to trade in your LIFE for a few years of sex? Seriously? I mean Jesus H Christ, you can hire professionals every month for the amount of money you will save, and still have a bunch left over for golf trips. 😉

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