So Glad to Have Found and Joined MGTOW

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

Hello, brothers! I cannot believe how lucky I was to stumble upon MGTOW this weekend.

I’m 44 and have been severely depressed the last couple of weeks because life feels hopeless being alone. Last time I had sex with a woman was 2 years ago and I paid for it at one of these Asian “massage” places. Was good but on my way home – $180 lighter – I felt lousy, thinking I could have used that money on a great restaurant or nice clothes. I have been struggling with meeting women since as long as I can remember. I was never good at it. When I was in my teens and early 20s, I was adorable and have always been funny but women never paid attention to me. I have had girlfriends, of course, but only one was really serious – the others did not last long and I really had no connection with them.

Women have total control when it comes to dating and relationships. They are shallow and mean. Even average looking women are picky when it comes to a guy’s looks. They demand a man be a certain height, earn a certain amount of money, look a certain way. They have no sense of humor and do not understand irony. That old line that women think the most important quality in a man is sense of humor is total BS.

I do not know how anyone meets anyone these days. Every move a guy makes is now considered some form of sexual assault. Online dating is a waste of time and money, with websites gladly taking advantage of people’s loneliness. There are plenty of guys my age who just cannot subject themselves to wasting the time, energy, and money it takes to pursue any of it – and MGTOW confirms that. I feel so much better knowing there are so many other guys who think and feel the way I do. I know not every MGTOW is the same. I read how some have no interest in sex or do not like p***y but even as I experience the effects of middle age, I am still very horny and miss sex with women (although I despise the notion of having to talk to them afterwards).

I bitch about being lonely but I’ve been lonely for years. I have no family and maybe three friends, only one who I see regularly. I am so glad to join you guys on here, and read your fascinating posts. Thanks for making me feel I am not the only one.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Welcome EWO, Tower is currently slightly less unhinged than Carnage, but he is catching up. Sounds like you are at the right place. The antidote to depression is working out what you would like to do … and then doing it. No THOT to hold you back spending your money on what is valuable to you.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Anonymous 42]

Aposematic wrote:

Tower is currently slightly less unhinged

Who needs hinges when you throw away the doors?

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22542]

Women only want to get hit on by the top,10% of guys. . Anything less and its harassment.

And they all believe, all of them, that they deserve the top 10%. No matter how awful they look and act.

At a certain point they realize the men they turn down are not bothering to ask them anymore, and learn they had way too high standards/demands and start panicking and start going after guys they blew off before. They are desperate and trying to secure something, in the hopes they will find money,or be able to trade up at some future point.

If they start taking interest in you after years of blowing you off, you are dealing with a golddigger hitting the wall. Because you were not a top 10% guy and the only,time they care about such guys is when they are scrambling for resources. They can always divorce a lower chump and get half his stuff and sucker in another non top 10% guy again.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I am still very horny and miss sex with women

2 secs

They can smell it

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Eyes Wide Open wrote:

read how some have no interest in sex or do not like p***y

148secs . There dangerous

Welcome again bro hope you enjoy

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[StealthParticipant 5354]

It is good to see a Gene Wilder avatar. I read his autobiography just a couple of years ago, and recommend it for a view of life by a very unassuming person.

Also not sure if your name is a play on Kubrick’s Eyes Wide Shut, which is a tour through the blue pill sexual maze of a married man. Glad your eyes are open, that sounds like a good motto for all of us.

One thing I am also still forming the habit of is to not be too hard on myself for past mistakes. Lesson learned. It’s all part of your education. I look forward to hearing more from you. Welcome!

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Welcome EWO.
Take warning, once you get to the ZFG stage, there is pussy everywhere. Women who directly turned you down before start hitting on you. Bro’ we are about the same age, my looks, if I ever had, have faded (balding and overweight), but MGTOW brought me to a fully peace of mind. This mindset resonates within and seems to create an aura, women can’t resist. I don’t want to boast, but the last years brought women into my bed I would hardly have the courage to even talk to before. Especially us guys who were no “Ladies men” before, are then tempted to run back to the plantation. Do not fall for it!

Bro’ where in the world did you pay 180 bucks? That’s a rip-off! But shows, at the end of the day even a hooker is still a woman, genetically programmed to extract resources from men.
Take that as one lesson.

I came to the conclusion, it’s not even women’s fault. We, the former blue-pills, have experienced social indoctrination first hand. We woke up because the game is rigged to our disadvantage. How much harder it has to be when the game is rigged to your advantage? Now given the less analytical brain of a female, they do hardly have a chance to see the truth. I don’t want to defend female nature and the AWALT argument is true, but I needed for myself an explanation to why women are the way they are.

So Bro’ when dealing with women, execute extreme caution. Do not fall for what is expected, choose your path and follow it strictly.
It’s unavoidable to occasionally engage women, stay friendly (if that’s your commonly way of interaction with people) but do not start a relationship.

One of my favorite things to do lately, is to go out grab a nice drink and watch the cucks and PuAs as they hit on close to wall barflies. Just don’t start to laugh out loud. That’s better than any of the movies that came out lately.
It sharpens your observation abilities, too. Humans are a funny species.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[AttonParticipant]

Your connection to the darkside is growing stronger each day.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 7]

Hello and welcome home.

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I bitch about being lonely but I’ve been lonely for years.

Get a puppy and invest in a fleshlight.

For friendship/companionship, mans best friend is better than bitches.

For sex, a fleshlight is better. Don’t get caught up in the tuna meat-hole. It ain’t all that.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I cannot believe how lucky I was to stumble upon MGTOW this weekend.

Terrific intro and glad you received our message, EWO. Thank you for contacting first too. Your reaction upon arrival & discovery is great.

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I bitch about being lonely but I’ve been lonely for years. I have no family and maybe three friends,

Don’t tell any of those people with 8176538716476153 “friends” on Facebook… but….. if you’ve got 2 real friends in this world, you’re doing very well. That’s not bulls~~~ either.

Girls go shopping with they BFFs all day, and when the other isn’t looking, they stab each other in the back. If that’s “friendship”, they can keep it. A good friend stabs you in the front.

Smiles.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Atton wrote:

Your connection to the darkside is growing stronger each day.

MGTOW is light.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Hey EWO, welcome!

I found that a lot of problems extend from trying to find other people to make our lives better in some way, and therefore feeling lonely is a substitute for not having someone.

I learnt a long time ago to be self reliant. By that I don’t mean independent, I mean I became my own best friend, and eventually adapted to enjoying solitude and my own company more that social engagements or crowds.

Alot of these pressures are blue pill programming to be popular, a social animal and of course to procreate.

Focusing on self improvement requires time and effort, and being a social butterfly can be counterproductive to your own goals and aspirations.

Happiness comes from within. Lifestyle is key!

"Society is to blame" Denton

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings EWO,

Appreciate your Introduction and the great replies it has generated.

It is good that you found MGTOW.com and remain a free man.

The following link gives an example in nature of the consequences and process of what happens to men when we are involved with women:

/forums/topic/parasitic-jeweled-wasp/

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

….. and have been severely depressed the last couple of weeks because life feels hopeless being alone.

Blue Pill conditioning will do that.

Being on the MGTOW Road can help you.

The point of MGTOW is to DELETE the toxic influences, behavior, abomination, and consequences of women from our lives in all of their vile forms.

You have found a gold mine here at MGTOW.com, So keep digging.

Here is a link to help you avoid any problem you may have as a newcomer to this web site:

/forums/topic/list-of-unacceptable-blue-pill-baggage/

Here is some tough love from someone who has been where you are at and who also made a lot of mistakes:

With all due respect, your Introduction so far is kind of Pusillanimous (Timid). But, that can be fixed easily.

The only proof of being men is what words we type here on this web site.

There are actions that men do that set us apart from women, especially what we do in our “Free Time.”

Whenever I travel the USA, I will find likeminded men at the local Hardware, Auto Parts, and Firearms stores. Today, these masculine men proudly show pictures on their phones that describes the progress of their latest projects.

Here is an example of the kind of stuff that can be seen in my phone these days:

http://www.sleightconservation.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/Grandborough-033a.jpg

Here are some tips to help develop your “Introduction” which can be improved by adding more about yourself any time in the reply box below:

A good Introduction includes descriptions of Red Pills, lessons learned, and something about your actions as a man. The goal is for the newcomer to establish his Bonafides as a man on the MGTOW Road.

Without giving away specifics where others can identify you, kindly provide some Bonafides like what you are doing with YOUR life such as:

Work/ Living situation?

Education/ Training?

Places you have Lived (continent/ countries)?

Hobbies?

What kind of fun things do YOU do?

Any future projects?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Atton wrote:

Your connection to the darkside is growing stronger each day.

Keymaster wrote:

MGTOW is light.

The dark side of the force is Woman’s Nature.

A man who surrenders to the “dark side” will exhibit Pusillanimous behavior.

The Hive and their crazed Blue Pill slaves often misdirect by labeling true masculinity as the “Dark Side.”

Masculinity is free, brave, strong, and thrives in the light of Truth.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[bladeParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Atton wrote:

Your connection to the darkside is growing stronger each day.

MGTOW is light.

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Its just they like to look at us as dark .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

Stealth: thanks. Yes about both Wilder and Kubrick (an even better book on Wilder is his unauthorized Funny and Sad bio). Glad to see so many encouraging responses. Thanks brothers.

[SoaringTigerParticipant 32]

Welcome EWO. Looks like we arrived on the MGTOW around same time, so that makes us both camp buddies 😉 I feel,your pain and hope to add some cents as time goes.

I ran a men’s health clinic for a few years and am very skilled in hormones and male sexual dysfunction. I can whole heartedly say I never had more grateful and pleasant patients and it opened my eyes a lot. When a man has not had erection in 15 years after prostatectomy and you give him a boner that would make a teenager envious, it makes the big, strong and tough man completely break down in tears. This is an extremely emotional moment and the bonding you get is so intense that I think it is only possible to happen between two brothers. Millionaires, sports celebrities, politicians and of course all regular Joes are at their most vulnerable and the trust and confidence I instilled was immense.

Personally, I think we have only hit the start of the sex robot phenomena and there is no way this will go anywhere besides improvement. How they will be working even 5 years from now is impossible for me to imagine, but I think the sky is the limit. I already see emerging regulatory lobbying coming up, but think it will be as futile to stop as prostitution or the war on drugs. I don’t have a realistic doll myself (yet), but think it will become as common for a man in future as being a biker, hunter or other man things. What I tell other men about this is don’t jump into anything, but research it, question and figure out philosophically where you come here. I think it will replace most prostitution as time comes as well.

You indicated you had some issues with game as a youngster, but these things are very subjective indeed. In medical schoo, there was no time for game, except banging class mates, which was fraught with problems at many dimensions. Otherwise, it was very hard to date outside of that as most medical students are really s~~~ty at this, unless they wanted to flunk out. THEN, when you get to clinical, there are so many women who want to jump on you, especially nurses that you go insane and ape shot over the intense contrast. I cannot even start imagining what kind of booby (no pun intended) traps today’s young medical students could detonate even from totally innocent remarks. Later on, as a resident, if you were not married, and even if you were, you would be bombarded with chicks and it mattered little at all if they were married with kids and had the “nicest” guy in the world. I have NEVER gone behind another man and neve could.

Anyways, just wanted to say that sexuality is a very important issue that we as men need solutions for. As time evolves, new things will show up. Have faith, do not despair and praise yourself for not being fu_—— over in your earlier years. I know that can be a mixed bag to imagine, but I think, based on what I have read by others here, you will also get there.

Bless you brother.

Man small, why fall. Earth’s call, that’s all.

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

Thanks SoaringTiger but, if I was not clear, I WAS f—-d over in my early years. Still have the scars.

[SoaringTigerParticipant 32]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

Thanks SoaringTiger but, if I was not clear, I WAS f—-d over in my early years. Still have the scars.

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

Thanks SoaringTiger but, if I was not clear, I WAS f—-d over in my early years. Still have the scars.

Yes I understand. The good thing with being f—-d over by a woman is that it is only figuratively, although at times I would have prefer the literal version 😉

Man small, why fall. Earth’s call, that’s all.

[DocParticipant]

Welcome to the site EWO.
Catch you around these parts at some point.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

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