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Anonymous6You probably scream mark (that’s what grifters call it) and she identified you correctly as a weak simp.
I you were not still a simp we wouldn’t be hearing this story from you.
Long story short, get a brain, get a spine and walk away, elete her number, change your number, delete facebook, snap snatch or whatever methods of communication you young kids use
Now, now, there you go telling this guy the truth. And that’s after he wrote all “gangsta” like on his original post.
Dude—if you want to f~~~ her and she doesn’t want to f~~~ you, but she “understands” that you want to, you’ve already described a situation where’s she’s happy not giving you what you want and you’re going along with it. There is no better formula for your unhappiness. The ‘friendzone’ is where the masculine ethos goes to die. You’re young. Break the habit now and you’ll thank me later.
Hahaha @travis3000 how am i NOT supposed to take all the gruff responses and learn not to ask for advice? Like dont get me wrong i aint mad or trippin. Theres been only like 2 post on here that actually helped. Romulus being the main one. Everyone else is simply just wishing the worst on me for simply asking for advice. Now it doesnt matter to me that im getting called a sucker, simp, etc. because growing up with a father like mine, you learn to toughen up real fast especially when people putting you down and talking s~~~. I understand tough love but theres a difference between that and just being a complete asshole. From what im reading Alot of guys on this thread want me to get emotionally f~~~ed over by this chick for their amusement and for the simple fact of being able to say “i told you so”. Some are saying come back after i get f~~~ed up and they’ll be glad to help. Alot of the guys on this thread would rather watch the car crash happen and THEN run to help instead of trying to prevent the crash altogether especially when the drivers askin for help. And its not like im going to ignore yall advice. If i was i wouldnt have either bothered asking for help. Like i said im human and i fall back into the old mindset every once in awhile and i look for help from brothers to help bring me back. But if im just gonna get called a simp ass n~~~~, a bitch, a pussy, then i wont bother asking for help cuz as i can see i p~~~ed some people off simply just for askin for it and for that i truly apologize. Have a great day my mgtow brothers
Peace of mind is more important than pussy in mind
You are friendzoned and do not yet know it. Albeit it in a very shrewd and clever way.
Remember on interviews when they ask “what makes you special”? and many expect the right answer of “i’m not special, i’m a grownup.”
She’s made you think you are special.
Would not want to go through a divorce with this one.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
What am i missing brothers??
Stop dreaming, stop fantasizing, stop wishing. Underneath it all, underneath the surface, underneath everything you’re besotted over, she is still a woman.
NAWALT is reality. Either accept reality or suffer the consequences.
It’s that simple.
Bill, you really meant AWALT is reality…..
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
Hahaha @travis3000 how am i NOT supposed to take all the gruff responses and learn not to ask for advice? Like dont get me wrong i aint mad or trippin. Theres been only like 2 post on here that actually helped. Romulus being the main one. Everyone else is simply just wishing the worst on me for simply asking for advice. Now it doesnt matter to me that im getting called a sucker, simp, etc. because growing up with a father like mine, you learn to toughen up real fast especially when people putting you down and talking s~~~. I understand tough love but theres a difference between that and just being a complete asshole. From what im reading Alot of guys on this thread want me to get emotionally f~~~ed over by this chick for their amusement and for the simple fact of being able to say “i told you so”. Some are saying come back after i get f~~~ed up and they’ll be glad to help. Alot of the guys on this thread would rather watch the car crash happen and THEN run to help instead of trying to prevent the crash altogether especially when the drivers askin for help. And its not like im going to ignore yall advice. If i was i wouldnt have either bothered asking for help. Like i said im human and i fall back into the old mindset every once in awhile and i look for help from brothers to help bring me back. But if im just gonna get called a simp ass n~~~~, a bitch, a pussy, then i wont bother asking for help cuz as i can see i p~~~ed some people off simply just for askin for it and for that i truly apologize. Have a great day my mgtow brothers
No Tazz, I certainly do not hope you get married and screw up your life. Being on here, you know what myself and others believe. But if you’re still willing to play with fire, I’m saying go ahead and get burned, I had to!
I don’t understand and I envy the guys on here that never got married. They dodged the bullet and never had to get burned. Not me. So if your like me, you just have to do it to get red pilled. But if you’re on of the other guys, good for you.
Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.
Red flags like how she said she’s “technically” a virgin, her saying she doesnt know if she wants a relationship so she just wants us to be kissing buddies although she says she knows i have a sex drive and am welcome to f~~~ other chicks if i want.
Take heed of the multiple red flags or prepare to hoist the white flag of surrender on your life.
Women do not love men. Women only love what men can provide.
“Technically a virgin”? Some women think if they take it up the sphincter they’re still “technically” a virgin. Sounds like she’s looking to auction off her virginity to the biggest wallet. Alternatively you might be her passport to residency in a new country.
"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides
Like i said im human and i fall back into the old mindset every once in awhile and i look for help from brothers to help bring me back. But if im just gonna get called a simp ass n~~~~, a bitch, a pussy, then i wont bother asking for help cuz as i can see i p~~~ed some people off simply just for askin for it and for that i truly apologize. Have a great day my mgtow brothers
I dont wish you crash, i dont feel like you really need the help, all the information you need in order to make a decision is right here on this site in millions of words, you dont need us to convince you , we are not your safebelt in your driving analogy, we informed you that the safebelt exist, do not ask us to convinve you to use it.
Fuck E'm
I get kinda purple pilled myself from time to time. I have my brothers here help me out, but it ultimately comes down to me working through what would happen if I end up back with a woman. I have to rely on my past experiences to remain red pilled. I’m the kind of person that you can tell me the stove is hot, but I still need to touch it and burn my hand before I learn a lot of times. Especially when I was your age.
Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.
Anonymous12“technically a virgin”
“only in the Azz, Tazz”
LOL!! that was a good one.
What do you expect: you are in a place full of experience, yet have none of your own.
So go for it.
We´ll keep your seat warm and drink your beer in the meanwhile.“I think she’s actually a chill intelligent female. Knows how to hold a convo, kind and thoughtful (so far), understands my past when it comes to females, not judgemental about my drug use (weed only) or legal past, and she likes me. She’s what we call a trifecta where im from.”
Here we call her a chameleon.
Or perhaps a girl who has not yet ripened into a woman. Girls can be childishly innocent but as soon as they grow fangs, they use them.“her ghosting 2 n~~~~s and friend zoning another for me etc.”
Uhh…ok. She didn’t “ghost 2 n~~~~s” for you. She wanted to give you this impression. But she did this for herself.
“She said she’s “technically” a virgin.”
She has been around the block to some degree, but would rather call herself a virgin. I’m guessing anal, or some phallic experiences that she would rather they not count.
“her saying she doesnt know if she wants a relationship so she just wants us to be kissing buddies although she says she knows i have a sex drive and am welcome to f~~~ other chicks if i want.”
She is giving herself a pass too.
“What am i missing brothers??”
If women were pure, loyal, honest, and kind, this site would not exist, or it would at least have a different slant.
Good traits are good traits. No criticisms there.
But further down the road, after she thinks she has got you, she will make her move to destroy you to whatever degree she can, the spotlights will turn on and she will walk away from the scene of the crime, giggling, with your blood pouring down her chin.At 21 it is fun being around girls. Just don’t take any of them seriously. Not enough to get your life wrapped up with them.
"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.
Alot of guys on this thread want me to get emotionally f~~~ed over by this chick for their amusement and for the simple fact of being able to say “i told you so”. Some are saying come back after i get f~~~ed up and they’ll be glad to help.
No, I don’t think they are serious about you getting screwed literally. They are merely being sarcastic, which is another way to point to the truth. They DON’T want you to go through what they had to go through. Wise people at any age, learn from both the positive and negative mistakes and experiences of others. Several millennia ago, a purported Chinese sage Lao Tse said something like this: “If you seek the approval of another person, you will always be their slave.” MGTOW guys understand this with regard to female approval and the way the laws are stacked against men in this society.
Here is the simplest advice… If this relationship were 100% fulfilling you wouldn’t be on here asking for advice. You would just be enjoying the relationship. But… you have doubts, which is why you are asking. When you have doubts, when you gut is itching, its telling you something on a subconscious level, which you would do well to acknowledge.
Doesn’t even matter that its a girl. If I was just friends with guy and I started questioning if that was a good friendship it would likely mean it wasn’t a good friendship… and so on.
Hahaha @travis3000 how am i NOT supposed to take all the gruff responses and learn not to ask for advice? Like dont get me wrong i aint mad or trippin. Theres been only like 2 post on here that actually helped. Romulus being the main one. Everyone else is simply just wishing the worst on me for simply asking for advice. Now it doesnt matter to me that im getting called a sucker, simp, etc. because growing up with a father like mine, you learn to toughen up real fast especially when people putting you down and talking s~~~. I understand tough love but theres a difference between that and just being a complete asshole. From what im reading Alot of guys on this thread want me to get emotionally f~~~ed over by this chick for their amusement and for the simple fact of being able to say “i told you so”. Some are saying come back after i get f~~~ed up and they’ll be glad to help. Alot of the guys on this thread would rather watch the car crash happen and THEN run to help instead of trying to prevent the crash altogether especially when the drivers askin for help. And its not like im going to ignore yall advice. If i was i wouldnt have either bothered asking for help. Like i said im human and i fall back into the old mindset every once in awhile and i look for help from brothers to help bring me back. But if im just gonna get called a simp ass n~~~~, a bitch, a pussy, then i wont bother asking for help cuz as i can see i p~~~ed some people off simply just for askin for it and for that i truly apologize. Have a great day my mgtow brothers
I can’t speak for the others, but in my post, I was only trying to do what you asked and “snap you back to reality”. To me, that could mean, “slap me in the face to wake me up”, which I think may be what many of the other posters were trying to do. It seems like you know what you should do, but you don’t want to do it so you’re looking to others to make you do it. To me, that means you need to get smacked around to get you back to reality and she is definitely gonna’ smack you around much worse than we will.
A year or so ago, even though I “knew better”, I was friends with the absolute most hottest, coolest young gal I’ve ever hung out with. I could talk to her about anything. I TOLD MYSELF TO BE COOL AND NOT LET MYSELF GET UNDER HER SPELL.
Nothing “too bad” happened, but I allowed myself to be hypnotized and the outcome could’ve been a lot worse. Probably the best thing I should’ve done is just walked away from this hot young gal in the beginning and forgot about her. However, I’m glad it happened because I did learn a lesson. I knew how I should’ve handled it, but still let myself get too attached.
It worked out in the end because after I got “snapped back to reality” by getting a little burned, I played the game right. There were no more stupid emotions involved, she used me, I used her and the exchange was pretty fair.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Anonymous18Everyone else is simply just wishing the worst on me for simply asking for advice.
Yeah bro, its reverse psychology. It appeals to the chimp – the same part of your hindbrain that is indulging in blue pillery despite your own wisdom gained overtime through the red pill lens.
Alot of the guys on this thread would rather watch the car crash happen and THEN run to help instead of trying to prevent the crash altogether especially when the drivers askin for help.
Dude if this is not a wake up call for you then you deserve getting crashed. No one can prevent the car crash but yourself.
One way to help you would be to provide insight in female nature. But you already know that. And you develop feels for a woman. All understandable.
At that point it is too late for me or anyone here to appeal to the rational logical part of your brain. It won’t listen.
So what’s left is pointing out how nice the car crash and skid marks be. Like who doesn’t rubber neck on a pile up.
Me telling you that you are going to get f~~~ed up is actually a lot more help than you want to admit at this point.
Evolution is deep brother. It is making you see our advice as mocking you and run in the arms of the sweet cupcake. It will feel all that much better to seek refuge in blue pill romanticism.
As I said in my earlier post it is too late. You got attached. Now get burned.
As I said in my earlier post it is too late. You got attached. Now get burned.
…….and sometimes, a burning is good for us. We get cleansed by the fire and it burns away the stupid. It burns away the silly emotions and the belief that maybe we can have a good relationship with a female.
The only way you can have a “good” relationship with a female, is to know that she’s evil and she’s out to use you. You may be able to have fun with her, but always be on guard. Never think you can “love” her. Always be on the lookout for when she will turn on you and f~~~ your s~~~ all up. Always be on the defensive. When s~~~ looks bad, bail and bail out fast.
Never have feelings for the female. If you must spend time with them, let them use you just enough for you to use them and get what you can from them, as much as you can from them, because that’s what they’re doing to you.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
So I’ve become friends with this female. My original intention was to just f~~~ her and she knew this
What am i missing brothers??
^ A lot.
You haven’t become friends with a female. She sees you as an investment. She knows you just wanted to fk her (you said it yourself). However… what she wants is not what you want.
This is like patting a tiger at a zoo. Eventually you are going to have your head bitten clean off.
I wouldn’t even f~~~ this bitch with a 10ft pole in fear of false rape claims.
GET A SEX DOLL! #MGTOWmonkforlife
Oh god lol. You give us all the red flags (that you yourself are actually aware of, since you wrote them down), and wonder why people are calling you stupid. There have to be so many more you didn’t put down.
You don’t really want help. The only person that can make the decision you already know you have to make is you, and you’re not going to get answers like “Just keep her around to bang, bro”, which it seems you’re really looking for. You don’t really seem to want to cut her off completely.
I could be wrong though. You speak of how you were toughened up due to your living environment, but then say if it keeps up you are going to leave. Hmmmmmmmm.
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