Small towns vs Big towns

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Take it from me who lived in NYC for YEARS. Large cities are toxic. Most of you on here know this, and most of you have done what you needed to get out of said s~~~ environments. But for those of you still on the fence about leaving a big city. Do it. You will not regret it.

The air is cleaner, their’s always parking. You sleep better. I also feel like I get more sun out here. Taxes are less. The line at the DMV is non existent (DMV lines in big cities are dog s~~~, you wait for hours from 8am to till closing).

Also, so long as you’re living in a town that has fiber optic internet and delivers Amazon you never have to worry about not being able to get xyz product.

There are a few cons to living in small towns but I’m at that age where I now see them as Pros. Towards the end of stay in NYC I began to be repulsed by people. There’s so many people living on top of each. I’d go from work straight home. I stopped going out and loved every penny that I was saving by not eating out or going to bars where everyone there is a depressed alcoholic on some sort of medication.

I’m in my Thirties, so I could give zero f~~~s about socializing anymore. I had my fill from age 17 (when I moved out of my parents house) into my 30’s. And for the most this was all about going out and trying to get laid. Being Mgtow, pussy no longer matters. This town has zero eye candy, and almost every woman here looks like she’s 10 years older than she says (and they’re preggers with kids en tow). Shame on all the men who continue to stick their dicks in ugly c~~~s who look like men.

But as a Mgtow, this works out great. I don’t have to worry about dumb whores trying to distract me and even if they want to try some #metoo bulls~~~, no one will believe them without actual evidence.

Tons of outdoor activities to out here if you’re the outdoor type. You can also buy guns without issue. I haven’t gotten one because I’ll traveling between states that don’t allow them for the next few years and don’t want to deal with the headache of having to abide by each state’s different law.

And honestly, when people say certain towns are “boring” only an excuse. The town isn’t boring; you’re boring. Plain and simple. Things are so much slower here in this small ass town and I’ve yet to be able to pick up a book to read by how busy I keep myself. When I’m not working I’m trying to lounge it up, rest, do yoga, or hit the gym.

Another thing that is annoying but not the end of the world, is that this place only has one good barber shop, and they only do walk ins once a week. I usually just drive an hour and 20 minutes to the next larger town where they have tons of better options but it would be nice to be able to get a hair cut 3 minutes from my place. This barber shop has you making appointments two weeks out. These f~~~ing pricks have let this s~~~ get to their heads. I’ve never booked a haircut appointment for a f~~~ing barber, and I never will. Supply and demand. I’m literally about to open up another barber shop just to compete against these f~~~s.

Other than that people in this town are polite, don’t bother me, and mind their own business. Sure, there’s probably town gossip but I’ll never let myself get near useless drama. It was a lot harder to avoid bulls~~~ drama in NYC so this s~~~ here is a piece of cake.

Take it from me fellas, especially if you’re a real MGTOW who’s actually trying to avoid women and dumb idiots who act like women. Smalls towns are a billion times better than Big Cities. I’m sorry it took this long for me to wake up to that fact but after spending years living in big cities, I will not deny this fact.

[bladeParticipant]

Where i live there were wooden bridges and farmland . Today its a city .

The part i live in is funny . Its like lots of people i have known from a kid have all ended in the same area . Last of the true locals .

It hurts me to see the destruction of community alot of arseholes have brought here .

Even our corruption is f~~~ed up now . C~~~s cant even get there s~~~ together . Last year i rang a politician , a cop , and a few others . Give to your enemy when down . They all had there stories f~~~ed up .

Oh edit . I rang a radio station . They cut me off then had two people from goverment departments ring . Lmfao . I like having fun .

They hide alot here due to tourisim .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[SolidParticipant 7520]

I always lived in small cities, but I wish to move to somewhere with even less people !

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

How small is the town I live in? First it is the county seat. I used to think 4 cars is a traffic jam, now i think it is 3. I HATE having to wait at a stop sign.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Definitely. The cost of a house near top schools etc is only justified with Kids- thanks ex for alienating the kids, I do fine in a 2 bedroom shack. Easy to renovate as everything is small… Walk to work 600 m. Quiet neighbourhood- don’t bother locking the joint either. Cat flap installed- minor victory- he head butted his way in for the first time just before. NFG is the key- stress trying to keep pumpkin happy with ever larger expenditure is just bull s~~~.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

When I was active duty I lived in several major cities. San Diego, Jacksonville Fl, San Antonio, and Orlando. Some people thrive on the constant activity. I much prefer a few hours where the,…old school saying,…”the town rolls up the streets at night”. Nothing is going on everyone is at home. Not even the gas station is open.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Blood AxeParticipant 1179]

I live in a small town. It’s great, everybody drives their four wheeler around, NFG. My neighbors don’t give a s~~~ what I do. My house was cheap. It’s a solid house, small and efficient. We got a small grocery store, mechanic, gas station, hardware store, lumber yard, bar, and about 5 churches lol.

Back off Barbie!

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Small town guy here too. The thought crosses my mind every so often to move to a big city. That’s where all the good paying jobs seem to be (and a high cost of living). Maybe I’m not missing out so much after all.

[Branched offParticipant 11020]

Big cities are crap in my opinion. They are all about people living in side the machine. In the country you can express yourself.

However the one feeling I always get when I go to London and talk to friends who know people who are actually getting stuff done in politics or go to an art gallery and see some truly great art is “its all happening here”. I can’t shoot a deer in bushy park or fell a tree or light a fire. I can’t even change my car oil but the important stuff is all around me. There is a feeling of disenfranchisement that comes from living in a village and knowing that millions of people in Londonistan all have the same vote as I do and don’t understand my way of life or care about it. Politics is about whether or not we should have a speed camera on the road and who will fix the village hall roof. Art is an exhibition of some sea shells and drift wood in an art centre in the nearby town.

Thanks to the internet small town life is these days a whole lot more enfranchised. One can go out into the woods (as I will do next) and then then come back and then get the news, comment on world politics and learn something about history or culture. The playing field is a lot more level now and more rustic views do get heard.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[WPLParticipant 2393]

Sounds about the same as where I live, except that I’m in an unincorporated area in between two towns. Only complaints I have are that the local hardware stores and lumberyard could have better hours and too many people speed (like >25 MPH over limit) by in front of my place with illegal straight-pipe exhausts on their trucks late at night or very early in the morning. Other than that, it’s about perfect.

Blood Axe wrote:

I live in a small town. It’s great, everybody drives their four wheeler around, NFG. My neighbors don’t give a s~~~ what I do. My house was cheap. It’s a solid house, small and efficient. We got a small grocery store, mechanic, gas station, hardware store, lumber yard, bar, and about 5 churches lol.

[HermitParticipant]

GoodKid44 wrote:

And honestly, when people say certain towns are “boring” only an excuse. The town isn’t boring; you’re boring. Plain and simple.

I’ve heard that “boring” bulls~~~ a lot and mostly from women.

I grew up on a 40 acre farm out in the middle of nowhere and when I was a kid, sure it was fun to go into town. I didn’t know how good I had it, because I’d give almost anything to have that 40 acres again.

Since I left that farm, I’ve been living in towns and I f~~~ing hate it. I hate people. When I was younger, we went into this mall in a big city and there were people shoulder to shoulder. I felt as though I couldn’t breath. I couldn’t take it and had to turn around and get the f~~~ outta’ there.

There’s no way I could live in a city. I can’t even stand to drive in a large town. I drive mostly on back county roads with almost no traffic. The town I live in now has a population of 500 people and it’s still too damn many. Fortunately, I live right on the edge of town and my closest neighbor is several blocks away. My small house is nestled in amongst many trees and if you didn’t know there was a town at the bottom of the hill, you’d think you were living in the woods.

The only I way I could ever be truly happy and completely content is if I lived way out in a rural area with the closest neighbor being miles away. My small house would be at least 200 yards from the road and you’d not be able to see it because of all the trees. I’d have a locking gate at the end of the driveway to keep the scum away. Oh if only I could afford such a paradise.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

GoodKid44 wrote:

And honestly, when people say certain towns are “boring” only an excuse. The town isn’t boring; you’re boring. Plain and simple. Things are so much slower here in this small ass town and I’ve yet to be able to pick up a book to read by how busy I keep myself. When I’m not working I’m trying to lounge it up, rest, do yoga, or hit the gym.

I live 60 minutes from work on a 1.5ac spread sandwiched between corn and beans. The nearest town is 15 minutes and the nearest city is 35 minutes. I am never bored.

I have to plan shopping trips. Boo hoo. So you understand how much easier that makes meal prep and sticking to a decent diet? I’m not fat because I don’t live behind a burger joint.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
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[LosPukeParticipant 514]

There’s a lot of good stuff here that I agree with. I like to tell people that I graduated in the top 10 in my class at high school. What I don’t tell them is that there were only nine of us. Kindergarten through 12th grade the school had 87 people total. I graduated in 1987.

Since then, I’ve lived the past 31 years in a large metropolitan area. Thirty of them have been in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. One of them was in Los Angeles. I don’t think “hate” is a strong enough word when I think of life in the big city.

However, there is light at the end of my tunnel. Within the next year or two, I will return back to my home town that I grew up. There still isn’t a traffic signal in the whole town. During my high school years, I couldn’t wait to graduate and live in the big city. Now, I can’t wait to return to where I grew up. Bonus…it’s in Western Colorado and there is plenty of s~~~ to do if you like the outdoors. It’s also a pothead’s paradise with 4 dispensaries in town and 10 more within 15 minutes of driving.

My retirement will consist of skiing in the winter while blazed and back country hiking while blazed in the summer. Like GoodKid mentioned, I can get anything I want from Amazon without even leaving the house. Nor do I need to seek entertainment. I have an entire library of DVD’s to keep me entertained and thousands of digital books on my hard drives to transfer to my Kindle. I’m a proficient cook and see restaurants as a complete waste of money.

Honestly, I can’t think of a single reason for me to ever live in a city again. My pension starts in 16 months and I will live within my means with it. Every day will be an adventure for the rest of my life. As JustAnotherGuy mentioned, I will have to plan my grocery trips, but I have a meal planner/recipe app just for that purpose.

Live well gentlemen. If you have to live in a city, escape to the country when you can. It rejuvenates the soul.

[HermitParticipant]

LosPuke wrote:

Live well gentlemen. If you have to live in a city, escape to the country when you can. It rejuvenates the soul.

That’s what was so wonderful where I grew up. I already lived where some would have to escape to. It was so wonderful growing up far away from any town. The only heating we had was a wood stove. The only air conditioning was a window unit in the living room.

We had a pond for fishing and swimming. Also a small river for the same. So wonderful was it to take a small flat bottom boat up and down that river, stopping on sand bars here and there to fish and swim. You could build a little fire right there and cook the fresh fish that you just caught and cleaned and we did that quite often.

The fresh air was wonderful. The peace and quiet was heavenly. The only people around were always real good folk living the same good life, always willing to lend a helping hand if you needed one.

We drank fresh clean water from a well. Went out and cut down our own Christmas tree ever year. Bailed hay in the summer for the cows to eat in the winter. Life was so simple and beautiful back then.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 42]

Small towns get away with murder! But in big towns you’re way more likely to get murdered!

Go figure???

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Small towns get away with murder! But in big towns you’re way more likely to get murdered!

Go figure???

LMAO! “Keybastard” Do you miss him, Tower?

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Acreage in the distant, semi-rural suburbs for the win.

All the advantages of the big city are there for you when you want them, and you can drive away home when you don’t.

[Anonymous 38]

Cities are lonely places, that’s for sure.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Anonymous wrote:

Cities are lonely places, that’s for sure.

Really? That’s where all the people are. I have heard people state that the loneliest they felt was in the middle of a crowd.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Reminds me of an old clip of Brent Butt doing a stand up routine at Just For Laughs about living in a small town. Here, check it out:

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

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