Situation at my casino job.

[KeepQuietParticipant 114]

Heres it goes, when i was younger women have always treated me like i was dirt or at least the ones i showed interest towards. Fast forward through my youth and i am now 32 years old and i catch women staring at me all the time. Where now they will give me the time of day they will show a bit of minuscule respect which throws me off. I unfortunately have involved myself with a female at my work place. I work in a casino industry where most of the upper management uses there position to score favor with the opposite sex.

Ive been mgtow for all my life but it was self realized when i found this site 4 years ago. This has been a great help, however me being naive i seem to have gotten myself into a situation im not sure how i could get out of.
I like being alone and ive expected the majority of women i interact with wouldnt see me as a desirable mate and what not.. doesnt matter to me one bit. However i have encountered a girl who has takin a liking to me that i also share quite a few things in common.

I just dont want to deal with this i have not had sex with this female but i feel that if it does happen ill be opening up pandoras box or atleast opening a door to a place i will never want to pass through. I cant say ive ever had a real g/f but with how this world works im glad i never have, but its a different story now as ive aged so have the amount of women that show interest.

Long story short.. i have no interest in interacting with them anymore -_- but i dont know how to go about this.

[Anonymous 12]

Despite all the Girl Power Femi Fascist bulls~~~ women still haven’t managed to ask men out. So you are safe as long as you don’t do anything.

I have noticed women look at me as, well, smile and give me that hopeful look, then the look of disappointment when I don’t do anything. Women would rather lose the chance altogether than actually do anything about it.

Even though you talk to each other she is still unlikely to make any real moves. If you don’t want to get involved with her just keep her at arms length and keep in mind how happy you are without her. Not to mention all the bulls~~~ that could and probably would happen if you started to date her. Especially as you work in the same place.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

Don’t dip your pen in company ink.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[KeepQuietParticipant 114]

I go to the girls house after work and hang out talk and chill but i havnt slept with her, also shes the one who proposed the idea.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

The old hit it and quit it does not apply to any female you work with. If she did not know where you work, live, your last name, she would be perfect for you.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Anonymous 54]

Wank before you go to work.
Act distant.
Its easier to get rid of them slowly.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Run!!!!

Seriously, though, RUN!!!!

You need to defuse this situation quickly and calmly. It feels good to have a woman come on to us, but that is the trap.

You need to find a way to become unattractive as a mate to this girl. Perhaps you could complain about being broke. I have often feigned monetary problems to detract a female. It works.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Don’t s~~~ where you eat.

Make yourself busy. If you must just say as little as possible, “huh” “ah” “no” “Don’t know” so she cannot keep the conversion going.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Despite all the Girl Power Femi Fascist bulls~~~ women still haven’t managed to ask men out. So you are safe as long as you don’t do anything.

Mabey its just cause Im a brokeass worthless chad, but Ive had em hit on me all my life.

Shes hittin on keep Quiet. Hes going to have a HARD time saying no….hahah

[KeepQuietParticipant 114]

Lets see how things go .. i think im just gonna say we cant see eachother anymore and leave it at that.. Life was already too complicated without women now putting myself in this situation you are all free to call me a dumb ass or anything like it. Thanks for the support guys.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Just stay friends at work nothing more. Seriously, she’ll have to physically rip yiur pants off to get to your dick.

She works with you, so it’s not even an question of “if”.

Your dick is telling you otherwise, but it’s a trap. The worst ones are when it’s a girl you meet at work who doesn’t work with you, but is a customer. Don’t dk that either. Learn from my blunder.

Keep it professional and don’t date anything at all unless they agree to become video recorded that they consent to everything and anything.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

You could try to move her over to the “friend” zone.

Ask her advise on how to approach this girl, one you just met, like where would she suggest, since she’s girl, that you should take your new ‘love’ on a first date if you wanted to really impress her.

If you act innocent and all puppy-dog-in-lovish about it she’ll see you have fallen under another girls spell.

Girls are real good about realizing that friend-zone trap, and she’ll probably grow distant.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 12]

KeepQuiet wrote:

I go to the girls house after work and hang out talk and chill but i havnt slept with her, also shes the one who proposed the idea.

Sadly none of that matters. If she decides to say you raped her or sexually assaulted her than your DNA is in her house. I don’t mean sperm but she can prove that you were in her house.

Female accusations are gospel as you should know.

[Anonymous 54]

Tell her about the wart on the end of your dick.

[Anonymous 54]

KeepQuiet wrote:

Lets see how things go .. i think im just gonna say we cant see eachother anymore and leave it at that.. Life was already too complicated without women now putting myself in this situation you are all free to call me a dumb ass or anything like it. Thanks for the support guys.

KeepQuiet wrote:

Lets see how things go .. i think im just gonna say we cant see eachother anymore and leave it at that.. Life was already too complicated without women now putting myself in this situation you are all free to call me a dumb ass or anything like it. Thanks for the support guys.

Your not a dumbass.
Just a normal guy like any of the rest of us.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

KeepQuiet wrote:

Lets see how things go .. i think im just gonna say we cant see eachother anymore and leave it at that..

She’s going to ask “why?”, so be prepared for that. I’m having difficulty coming up with an answer that won’t sound insulting. It’s better to have her lose interest in you than to make her feel rejected. You don’t want to be working a woman you’ve rejected.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Keep It Simple

Tell her that You HAVE ALWAYS HAD A HARD AND FAST RULE TO NOT DATE/GET INVOLVED WITH WOMEN THAT YOU WORK WITH.

Being an inquisitive lil Cupcake, she’ll probably ask why you didn’t mention that before. Tell her that you were thinking of maybe making an exception, but after you thought about it you decided that it was best for both of you to keep it the way it is.

You can make up some bulls~~~ excuse as well that after your last break up a couple years ago that you promised yourself to remain celibate for at least 5 years.

Then DISTANCE YOURSELF from her, and if you do end up going out with her only do with other friends in a group.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TuneoutParticipant]

Three simple words “I am Gay” seriously though brother,you’ve come this far in life with out stepping in it and seen the truly evil nature of women at a early age,so I’d back out slowly because it is a colleague and if your Casino has a very strict sexual harassment policy this will make it all the more delicate.

You are going to have to make it clear that you don’t get involved with co-workers.

I too enjoy the companionship of a lady now and then but it is always ‘by the hour’ if you know what I mean.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 3]

KeepQuiet wrote:

I go to the girls house after work and hang out talk and chill but i havnt slept with her, also shes the one who proposed the idea.

Don’t go to girls house. Hanging out with them will just confuse you and give them chance to get control over your emotions and instincts to f~~~. Really, the more far away you are from women, the less power they have chance to have.

And beware, some girls are desperate enough to ask men out….

Mixing work and sex is the worst thing ever. My work contracts were always longer than my relations~~~s. And you don’t wanna see an ex everyday. Most breakups are ugly and painful, and it is better to have no contact afterwards at all, forget that the other one exists.

And beware, Valentines day is coming… That means s~~~ty mainstream sugar-filled love music and lot of drunk people doing stupid s~~~. (probably you already see it this weekend and will see that on the next weekend too)

Yes, and only stupid idiots do gambling, one always loses on the long run. As a casino worker, I guess you remember some mathematics lessons on probabilities, don’t you? Would you put half of your assets and many years of your life on the roulette – wheel? Not? Look up the divorce statistics and the stories on this site for example!

Stay strong, get rid of all drama, and celebrate Independence day on Wednesday!

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Omg, this guy is literally asking to get f~~~ed over. All the red flags are there.

You need to jerk off more bro. You’re not thinking clearly. Why are you even going to her place? Seriously, she’s got you under a spell.

There’s a reason why mgtow exists. And its because of dumb situations like the one you’re in.
Walk away from her. Only keep it cordial and polite in public. You don’t need female friends.

Unless she’s helping you make over 10,000 a day in some business venture then avoid the dumb c~~~.
(women suck at business so she’ll never help you make money… Only help you waste it).

Some people like to learn the hard way though so keep us posted with how it goes

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