Single mothers

[Tbowden1Participant 195]

Hello Gentleman,

It has been a while since I posted here but a recent surge in single mom posts on Facebook reminded me of a blog post I made a while back and thought it was time to share it here. Tis’ the season for mothers to claim that they are special because they are using their child support to buy their children parents! (note: this was written TO the single moms that I attack on my Facebook page lol)

“I get it.. this is a touchy subject.. Guys don’t want to hear the negatives about their baby momma.. and single mom’s don’t want to hear the facts about their situation..

With that said… I don’t care, here it is..

A single mom is not something that should be looked up to for their “strength” and their independence. A single mom brought a child into this world without a father. This is not a positive and this is far from a sign of strength or independence. She is a “Strong” independent woman who is living off of WIC, welfare, EBT, unemployment, Section-8, and State provided health care.. Am I missing the definition of “independent?”

“Oh come on, she cares about her kids though!” Right.. I noticed when I saw her at the bar the other night slamming tequila shots and hitting on the bar tender with a lip ring. Clearly her kids were the ONLY thing on her mind and her number 1 priority.. (hopefully you notice my sarcasm here, I did my best to make it apparent)

As of 2012, nearly 41% of children were born with unmarried mothers. Am I the only one who isn’t shocked at this statistic? We already know that over 50%  of marriages end in divorce (you’re welcome for my last blog post). Knowing that, why would we expect that children would be brought into this world in a stable family environment.. that would be asinine.

The fact is, children fare better in a dual parent household. I get that women think they can raise a child correctly and I am not the one to tell them different. With that said, women don’t teach young boys things like vehicle oil changes, emotional independence, carpentry, tools, I could go on for hours.. There are things that men are simply more skilled at, more experienced at, and better at.. Don’t get me wrong, women can teach children a vast amount of things, but men are necessary in a child’s life.

Women say “I don’t want to get married to a guy who is violent, has drug and/or alcohol addictions, run-ins with the law, or a criminal record.” Really…? Why are you having babies with these guys then? You have sex with a guy that has a tattoo on his neck, then complain that he’s irresponsible and won’t “man up” to take care of children? Ladies… you want to know how to avoid a dead beat Dad? Tom Leykis has the answer:

Stop having sex with dead beats!

If your judgment is off and you choose a guy who has a criminal record, a history of cheating, and deals drugs for a living.. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he is a DEAD BEAT.. These children will have an irresponsible father who is not around because the MOTHER chose him.. You are dooming your kids for failure. All of these men that “can’t take care of themselves” are a result of single mom’s. They have learned to express their feelings instead of taking care of themselves like a man should.

I am not old by any means, but in my day, school involved recess, tug-of-war, and tag. Those have been removed from most schools across the nation. We are completely removing the male culture from society. Boys don’t want to express their feelings in school.. we are biologically programmed to want to be stronger, faster, better than other men.. Call it Barbaric all you want ladies, you are ATTRACTED to those type of men.. yet you are doing everything you can to remove them from society.. Talk about irony…”

 

Just your friendly reminder to use condoms 100% of the time ! Happy Holidays!

 

[F4CCParticipant 20]

With that said… I don’t care, here it is..

 

Complete freedom and truth!

[flamesabersParticipant 55]

<cite>@tbowden1 said:</cite>
A single mom brought a child into this world without a father.

Oddly enough, my father told me this was precisely why pre-martial sex used to be very taboo. I suppose this sort of unwritten rule works better in a society where divorce isn’t rampant and couples are more inclined to resolve their differences for at least their children’s sake.

I very much agree about the benefits of raising children in dual parent home versus a single parent home. My mom spent more time on a day-to-day basis raising and caring for me, but my dad spent time with me when he could. My dad certainly had an active role in preparing me for adulthood. He helped me get my first checking account, credit card, cell phone, car, etc. The way I see it, my mom commonly expressed her love through hugs and affirmations, whether with my father he did it primarily by teaching me about the world and how to succeed in it. Both parenting styles I think are crucial for ensuring children grow up into healthy and successful adults. Children need to be loved and cared for, but they also need to know what the real world is like.

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

I told one day to a friend of mine, single mother with 3 children (2 from her ex-husband and the last, a 1 year old baby boy  from a beta divorced guy (who has already 2 children from his first mariage) that I won’t NEVER EVER date a single mother because I don’t want to raise a child that is not mine.

I have already 2 daughters and it is a pain sometimes when I have to get up early in the morning to bring them at school, preparing dinner in the evening when i am very tired etc … because I’m a very busy man and I spend a lot of time at the office to bring a decent salary for my family.

 

She told me I was insane ans misogynist  …

The funny thing is that she left her boyfriend few weeks after we talked … 😀

I guess because his ex-wife was still around and the guy didn’t take care enough of HER children… Can you believe it ?

Now, she’s looking for a nice guy/wallet because as she told me some days ago on Facebook : “it is very hard to be a single mother, I need a man to help me for the children, the shopping, driving the car …” “If I had a man, he would help me a lot bla bla bla, I don’t want to be alone, I want to be loved, I need love etc etc …”

 

Then she f~~~s some guys around and she hopes one of them will take care of her.

 

Brothers, I’m sick of these sluts.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I would never ever date a single mom so every responsible man should avoid them at all cost, they showed a lack of judgment

You can bet your ass that you’ll pay for every little thing he ever did wrong, too. She will be suspicious that you’re going to do all same s~~~ that he did to her. I’m actually doing a single mom now (flirting with disaster, yeah!) and we just had “the talk” about her being all nervous about me because he did blah and then he did blah and I’m all “Who the hell are we talking about, here… me or some other loser you used to f~~~?”

Yeah, I’m kind of waiting to see how far she’ll go before I have to end it.

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

Docfenderson : don’t forget to use condoms ok 😉

My female friend (read my post above) “forgot” her pill and she became pregnant from the nice divorced guy she met after her divorce.

She wanted to trap him because she didn’t want to be alone to raise her children.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Fear not, I got a vasectomy sixteen years ago and she had her s~~~ scooped out after her second kid.

Her daughters are entitled brats, the youngest of the two is an aggressive SJW and her sister is a gold digging whore and she’s sick to the teeth of all of them. And since she works with a bunch of gay guys and broken old men, I’m probably the only source of Real Man ™ in her life and she needs me to turn her crank and keep her level way more than I need anything from her.

Believe me, she’s no NAWALT… but the sex is good and she shows up on time. I’ve told her, however, that I will ditch her like a toilet baby on prom night if at any point I decide that my life is not consistently better with her around than it would have been on my own… and that’s a pretty high bar for any woman to clear… so honestly this may not last long.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Alrighty Now….Here’s my Frucken Three Cents…

(1) Lodoss said: “Back to the first conclusion: NEVER EVER date a single mom, period.”

Actually, Don’t Date, Girlfriend/Wife-Up any woman!

If your goal is to get some Pussy, then do that WITHOUT DATING.  Pump and Dump and Get the Fruck Out.

You can Pump and Dump single moms….but the Rules of Engagement is somewhat different than Pumping and Dumping a woman with no kids.  How you ask??? Because single mothers are always thinking of ways to better care for her and her young and will use their Vagina to dangle more resources for her and her kid(s)(ss) (sss+).

True Not Hollywood Story:  Back during my Purple Pill Days, I hopped on a chat line and met a Girl named “Angela”.  “Angela was a single mother with one kid who worked 3rd shift, had the night off and wanted to “get some quick dick”.  After a quick convo, I agreed to meet her at her apartment. A 10 MINUTE CONVERSATION=PUMP AND DUMP.

That’s what I thought.

I drove across town to her apartment in my Purple BMW (Not Kidding!)   Back then, I did not have a 2nd ‘Generic Beat-Around’ car that I could use to Pump and Dump without baiting women looking for resources.

As soon as she saw my car and nicely dressed I was (Frucked Up Again}, she changed her tune immediately.  She knew intuitively that I was a KEEPER. As soon as I entered her apartment, I hopped in the bed Bucket Naked.  She turned around and said….she was interested in a relationship and did not want to have sex right away.

FRUCK!

I fell asleep.  When I woke up, she took her son (who was sleeping in the other room) to school….HAD STOPPED BY WALMART TO BUY ME SOME NEW CLOTHES SO THAT I DID NOT HAVE TO WEAR MY SAME CLOTHES WHEN I LEFT FOR WORK.   Who does that Shiet????   As a matter of custom, I always kept a change of clothes in the trunk.

Angela also had made me breakfast and HAD PACKED ME AN AMAZING FRUCKING LUNCH for work. WTF???

I declined the Clothes and the food….And Bounced.  She called me several times.    So!

Ghost. Dog. A Hoe.

2) Doc said “You can bet your ass that you’ll pay for every little thing he ever did wrong, too.”

TRUE ‘dat.  But this applies to any woman who has been in a significant ‘deadend’-‘felt she got ganked by her Ex’ relationship.

Moral of the Story: Don’t Girlfriend/Wife-Up any Woman!  If your goal is to get some Pussy, then do that WITHOUT DATING. Repeat and Rinse.

(3) #Phil# said “Now, she’s looking for a nice guy/wallet because as she told me some days ago on Facebook : “it is very hard to be a single mother, I need a man to help me for the children, the shopping, driving the car …” “If I had a man, he would help me a lot bla bla bla, I don’t want to be alone, I want to be loved, I need love etc etc …”

TRUE Muthaf~~~in’ ‘dat.  But this applies to 90% of Women.  Most view ‘Dating’ as an Frucken Assessment” to size you your Resources Allocation Abilities” up….i.e. will you “Man Up” and handle your responsibilities to buy me stupid shiet and satisfy my ridiculous whims….IN EXCHANGE FOR UNGUARANTEE USE OF HER PUSSY.

Likewise, “relationship” for 90% of women is an arrangement where you commit your resources (AND FUTURE RESOURCES…Voluntary or Involuntary through State Action] to satisfy her hyper-materialistic and ever-changing emotional whims.  If her Ex comes back in the picture or a ‘perceived’ better resource allocator comes along…You’re Frucked.

That being said, Wifing-Up a Woman, Dating, Making her your Girlfriend, Sharing an Apartment, getting engaged, Buying real property together, signing a marriage contract….with a Single Mom or a Woman with no kids will FRUCK YOUR ASS UP FOR LIFE.

 

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

VideoGame Confucius says about dating Single Moms…

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Excellent point made Tbow!,

Single Mothers need to be avoided AT ALL COST. It sucks, because some Single Mom’s are hot as f~~~. I know a few who live in my neighborhood, and even the store down the street from where I live has at least 3 Single Mom’s working there (2 of which are SMOKING HOT). What keeps Me away from Single Mom’s is that their kids will never accept you, or respect you, and secondly their time and effort is more geared toward Her children, rather then a single girl who has more free time.

With that being said, Single Mom’s also suffer from delusions of  grandeur, when it comes to the next Man they develop feelings for.

 

Often times when Single Moms who were Married to Assholes, always END UP going back to ASSHOLES. Single Mothers will date the nice guys for awhile, and even consider marrying them for that reason. However, later on because of the mentality they have being with only “Bad Boys” they’ll either

•  Cheat on their next husband to go back to the Bad Boy
•  Get bored of the second Husband because there’s no challenge
• the second husband will end up leaving because He always feels measured to the first

 

Women say “I don’t want to get married to a guy who is violent, has drug and/or alcohol addictions, run-ins with the law, or a criminal record.” Really…? Why are you having babies with these guys then? You have sex with a guy that has a tattoo on his neck, then complain that he’s irresponsible and won’t “man up” to take care of children?

 

I’ve seen it many times, A Friend of mine ended up Marrying a Single Mother who had 2 small children, and years later she ended up cheating on Him for some guy who was sleeping on His Mothers couch, jobless and was a tweaker. My Friend was Married to Her for 5 years, wanted more kids with Her, she promised to give him 1 or 2 after they got married, she ended up not giving him any kids. Yeah, they Females will breed with s~~~, and like a goddamn dog, go back to it’s own vomit eventually.

 

 

 

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Tbowden1Participant 195]

It’s a shame some of the hottest women I see are single moms… I suppose that isn’t by accident considering their attractiveness. The biggest thing to remember about single moms is that we ALREADY KNOW what their decision is when it comes to becoming pregnant. A normal (lol…), single woman who does not have kids can be persuaded into an abortion…… or to drink a bottle of vodka………. or to spend a few hours in a hot tub………. It would of COURSE be wrong to ever invite a pregnant woman over to drink in a hot tub, because that could inadvertently cause a miscarriage…. I DO NOT recommend this…………………. (please, someone get the Tom Leykis reference)

 

A single mom has already made her decision, if she gets pregnant, she WILL have your child. They’ve already made one mistake, don’t be the juice for their next one.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Thumbs up on the Leykis reference, there. Definitely do NOT recommend having champagne in a hot tub with a pregnant woman. Slam dancing with punks in a house full of stairs is probably a bad idea too.

You younger guys can avoid the single moms all you like… those of us with vasectomies and strong frames can let them think they’re applying for the “job” of wife to cash in on some free back rubs and blow jobs and then let them go when the trial period is up.

In fact, the more you guys avoid then the lower it pushes their market value and more of them there are for us. I’ll happily f~~~ a previously owned model if she’s a third of the cost of a new one.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

When I was in the Army I always looked for the single moms in the bar.  Here are the reasons;

1. I knew they were going to put out
2. Easy
3. I knew my c~~~ would fit without bottoming out
4. They’d believe anything you told them.  (Like, “I’m Lt. Corporal John Smith of the Canadian Mounted Marine Corp)
5. They’d swallow…., because they had to.
6. They’re already used to being left and unwanted.

The trick was, don’t be baby-daddy #2.  That’s why God created condoms and gave women buttholes and mouths.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

Keep up the good work of attacking those single moms. Every guy needs a dad in his life. My dad taught me most of what I know about being successful as a man. These single moms complain all the time about how men are irresponsible. They always take sleeping pills and sleep all day while their 14 year old daughters are raising their sons and f~~~ing guys who are under the legal age of consent. Where is the RESPONSIBILITY in that lifestyle?

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

[MagicStarBunnyParticipant 20]

I would warn  against fraternizing with them altogether. I worked with 2 single moms and a single girl. At first they fed me and treated me well but when they later found out that I was married an ice wall came flying down. Of the two, one of them frequently invited me back to her home (even after she found out I was married). The other told me this tale:

A long time ago when she was hot, she met a man whom she liked quite a bit. They started a relationship and he ended up leaving selfishly for Korea and cut all contact with her and his son.

Then later I got the rest:

She actually was screwing around on him with a previous boyfriend throughout the entire marriage. The son was possibly his and for reasons she didn’t want to get into he left for Korea and cut off all contact. She is still seeing the previous boyfriend but has acquired Herpes and its so BAD it makes her look like an extra on ‘The Walking Dead’. I have caught her numerous times lying about my salary information. When I found out, she no longer wanted to speak with me. This was a problem because I worked in the desk beside hers.  Later I found out that she was taking money off of my salary and possibly putting out for the boss (who is a complete white knight). The joke is on him, he believes her herpes are from ‘eating spicy food’. This girl came from an ultra rich family and was educated in the West, go figure.

 

In the end, I had to strong arm my salary, out of my boss , who was working with her to completely fvk me out of it.

[RoyDalParticipant]

MagicStarBunny wrote:

In the end, I had to strong arm my salary, out of my boss , who was working with her to completely fvk me out of it.

I hope you get a better job and soon! Is there any chance of getting them arrested for their embezzlement? (After you get a better job of course.)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[MagicStarBunnyParticipant 20]

No, there isn’t a ‘law’ for that here, sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands. Most of my friends said I’m crazy but I worked in security back home for a time and I have a bit of experience with ‘extraction’. Luckily, my friend and I put my wife into an HR agency. She sets us up with new jobs and new visas every semester. I also worked previously alongside my wife so when I get in to trouble, she helps make it ‘go away’. Women certainly have their uses. 😉

 

Sorry didn’t mean to derail the thread. Continuing on.

I hate to add this but most of the guys I’ve known were from single mothers including my own father. Pretty well everyone I have ever known that hailed from a single parent household, had some sort of latent anger issues. I have a good friend that tends to fly off the handle once in awhile, also they seem to have a serious lack of motivation.

I use to teach a single mom here (its extremely shameful in China) and she would always bring her f~~~ing brat to a large adult class (30+ people). Since she was a client, I tried my hardest to make nice with this little sh1t bag but one day when I leaned down to ask him how he was, he smacked me hard right across my face and said “Leave me alone, I’m playing my game”. I grabbed his psp and whipped it across the room, smashing it against a wall. The mother came over and apologized profusely but the kid just hid his head in his mothers boob and cried. That was the last time I saw him. Apparently the father hasn’t spoken to her since she was 18 but then again single mothers lie all the time. She would always bring this little sh1t and he had fairly decent English skills. During my classes he would yell out “BORING” or “Go to hell!” or “Change the subject this sucks!”. Everyone hated him and the mother would always just smile at me and sort of go “tee hee, isn’t he cute?”. So here’s my biggest gripe about single mom’s, they don’t EVER discipline their children, making life horrible for the rest of us. I told her, if I were you, I’d smack that little s~~~’s smile off his face every single time. Eventually children will become adults and they will carry with them their education or lack thereof from their parents. So please, if you have kids out there, discipline them they start talking back, they need it and they’ll respect you for it.  You don’t have to beat them with your fists, you can stick them in a corner and force them to hold books over their head for a couple minutes, usually this is enough for spoiled children to make them cry. Either that or pitch their videogame systems or Iphones out the window. I’ve done this a few times and trust me, it works wonders.

Back to this kid, one of the things that he did quite often to his mum, would be to grab her boobs and bite them or shove his hand up her skirt or smack her ass. She always laughed it off but he would continue doing this in front of people. He was verbally abusive and at times physically. He would call her a slut and a bitch.  The kid was about 11 years old.

I never quite understood what would possess him to do stuff like this or where he learned it from.

[flailerParticipant 31]

Never trust a Single Mom.   Many, if not most, will say & do anything.    ANYTHING.

And Don’t think that “doing anything” applies only to what they are willing to do in bed.

If Single _ Mom’s have a middle name is it Duplicity !!!!  (duplicity, look it up)

Their desperation, their need, their longing, their lack of respect, their lack of funds, their lack of cultural status!?   All those, combined with their (already proven) lack of morals, means they will likely do ANYTHING.

Anything: Including making you pay.  Some will make you pay, one way or the other, even if they don’t benefit from it.

So, protect yourself.  You know how: collect all her messages, emails, texting, sextexting.  Ideally they will contain very-very-very explicit details.   Specifically these message MUST contain that she is making requests, of you.  That she wants sex.  That she wants a particular sex act.

Don’t f~~~ her if she isnt willing to message you !!!!

Forward those messages to your email account for long term record keeping!!    And for goodness sake make sure you are forwarding the ones AFTER your sexual encounters….  You don’t want her building up regret days later,, & her leveraging her legal advantages.

Remember:: Single moms are the ones that are the most likely to be psycho, vengeful, spiteful, filled with hidden rancor, or even a blazing rage.   NEVER forget: she is single for a reason!!    FACT:  She is single for a VERY REAL reason.

 

All that said, I did have a fairly good relationship, once, with a Single mom, who was into validating what GREAT talent she had in bed.  She also gave back massages, as well as pedicures. (yeah, no s~~~!)

But, like I said, single moms are the ones most likely to be psycho… and she proved me right in that regard.   Sheeze!

Why am I bothering to write all this, you ask??  Because a VERY HOT single mom just moved in across the way…. Tall.  Blonde.  Cute.  Freckles.  Shapely.  Young.  Not fat…. and I’m not sure what I am going to do about it.  Heck, I don’t even know if I want to find out if she is interested in booty calls or not.    p.s. her daughter appears to be VERY quiet & well mannered.

p.p.s. flailer (he says talking to himself) a woman that hot is single for a VERY VERY REAL REASON !!!

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