Silence is golden-part 2. (thanks Raj)

[foolsgoldParticipant 5639]

For 13 years I have never talked about my ex to anyone other than my attorney and my father who is no longer with us. As you can imagine the ex has been bad mouthing me from the start. She is now suffering the consequences from it big-time. All because I never said a word about her to anyone but my attorney and my father(deceased). Nobody believes a word she says anymore because of one thing. I WAS SILENT!!! A quick back round to this.

The ex and I have came in contact with many of the same people over a 13 year stretch after the divorce. The information she gave these people was ALL ABOUT HER HORRIBLE EX. When I met these people I never gave them anything but my first name. They just knew me as so and so from the gym. So and so from the ballpark. So and so from the hockey rink. You get the picture. I never told them who exactly I was. I didn’t say I was so and so’s ex. I didn’t say who my kids were although all these people knew my kids and knew my ex.

Then my son’s graduation party came last June. I showed up like the good father I am and many of those people who just knew me as so and so figured out I was the ex of the huge lying c~~~ and the father of a great son. The ex’s whole world came crashing down that day. None of those people have spoken to my ex c~~~ since because not a damn thing she said was true and they knew it. When she saw how many people knew me at the party she was just barely smart enough to know she was in trouble.
Burning someone through silence is better than any kind of revenge. These people now shun her because it was clear she was a massive liar. I never had to defend myself. All I did was say nothing. Give these dumb c~~~’s enough rope and they will hang themselves with it. She did just that. Rant over.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

This has worked well for me on many occasions, as well.

You have nothing to gain by trying to defend yourself against a woman’s (or a man’s) bulls~~~ claims about you.

People will eventually realize the loudmouth is the one who is full of s~~~ and she is almost always caught lying because she has so many versions of her lie and the subsequent cover stories when she slips up with her lies.

they always snowball into the giant bulls~~~ narrative she has been pedaling.

[JVBParticipant]

Well played sir.

Peace is > piece.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

This is an excellent story and has made my day. Well played and thanks for sharing!

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5639]

I always knew one day my silence would pay off and did it ever. At the grad party quite a number of people came up to me and asked what I was doing there. When they learned that I was the father of the young man they were there for they all looked stunned. Only one dude that I knew from the gym asked me why I never said anything. I told him that I didn’t feel it was important and that it never came up in any of are conversations anyway. He agreed and changed the subject immediately. By the time the party was about over the ex found a place to hide in the house. It was good for a laugh. Karma has a way of getting people. Sometimes it takes longer. Karma is undefeated.

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