Signs she's being unfaithful

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

This one is for the lurkers who may still be unsure.

In Spleefer’s post on “How does she introduce you?” I was reminded by KM about girl’s nights out being a major red flag, which when I was a blue-pill muppet I completely ignored.

There were many signs, that in hindsight, that the bitch was being unfaithful. These are all bloody obvious when the blue-pill fog is lifted but at the time I thought nothing of it.

Firstly, let me get this out the way straight off: AWALT – they are all self-centred, entitled whores.

Here are some signs that were there if I thought to look:

• Girl’s Nights Out is a obvious one
• She regularly got “water infections” for no apparent reason
• It always seemed to be “the time of the month” when I expressed interest in sex
• She was “tired” a lot and never went to bed at the same time as me
• She often “worked late”
• She started getting many more text messages and left the room to answer them

I’m sure there were many more if I was paying attention, which I wasn’t.

Anyone got any other indications, that a blue-pill bloke should spot?

Popp did a video on this a while ago:

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 12]

The Ol’ Hot n’ Cold – When one day she loves you and you are needed more than the air she breathes. And the next day she couldn’t care less about you. Could also be a s~~~ test in some cases and just her usual psychotic ways. But can also be because she is happier with her lover at times and at other times she realizes she needs to keep you on the hook.

Comparisons – When she starts to suggest things that sound like she is comparing you to someone else. Or she sounds like she wants you to be someone else. “Why can’t you be taller!/Thinner!/Bigger!/More Ambitious!/More fun!” etc etc

[TaxGuyParticipant]

MoreSky wrote:

Anyone got any other indications, that a blue-pill bloke should spot?

She’s breathing.

Order the good wine

[foolsgoldParticipant 5645]

SHE GUARDS HER PHONE WITH HER F~~~IN LIFE.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Her making out with a guy on the couch when I walked into the apartment while the tv was on. That was our move to cover up the sex sounds. I felt so betrayed. Truly, even then, I didn’t give a s~~~.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

She is a woman, there for the odds most likely are she is unfaithful. The other 1%, don’t trust then either.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

You said it:
AWALT

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

MoreSky wrote:

This one is for the lurkers who may still be unsure.
In Spleefer’s post on “How does she introduce you?” I was reminded by KM about girl’s nights out being a major red flag, which when I was a blue-pill muppet I completely ignored.
There were many signs, that in hindsight, that the bitch was being unfaithful. These are all bloody obvious when the blue-pill fog is lifted but at the time I thought nothing of it.
Firstly, let me get this out the way straight off: AWALT – they are all self-centred, entitled whores.
Here are some signs that were there if I thought to look:

• Girl’s Nights Out is a obvious one
• She regularly got “water infections” for no apparent reason
• It always seemed to be “the time of the month” when I expressed interest in sex
• She was “tired” a lot and never went to bed at the same time as me
• She often “worked late”
• She started getting many more text messages and left the room to answer them

I’m sure there were many more if I was paying attention, which I wasn’t.
Anyone got any other indications, that a blue-pill bloke should spot?
Popp did a video on this a while ago:
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1. Shes breathing.

2. Her lips are moving.

3. Constant connection to smartphone and facebook, ….

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

How she treats men in general. Most women, especially in western cultures, treat men like s~~~. Huge red flag. If she treats you like crap she is getting boned by Chad on a regular basis.

[CUNTHATERParticipant 324]

Anonymous wrote:

“Why can’t you be taller!

Ha ha….like one can control how long his bones grow…..stupid superficial c~~~.

American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

[foolsgoldParticipant 5645]

I forgot about this one- If she accuses you of cheating YOU KNOW DAMN WELL SHE IS RIDING THE C~~~ CAROUSEL HARD WITH MULTIPLE CHADS.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

She starts losing weight/working out. Gets a makeover/hairstyling. Buys some attractive clothing. Expresses interest in something out of character – hobbies/opinions/beliefs etc. Starts casually talking about some guy she works with or knows. Is not reachable when she should be. Possibly expresses more interest in you for sex than normal (to deflect suspicion). Picks a fight so she can storm off for a few hours. Gets home late because she lost track of time/fell asleep/comforting a friend…

And the list goes on for days.

But basically, it is so likely your woman is cheating on you that the sign is what a few responses here have already said: she is breathing.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

When you are running around like a headless chicken trying to please all her wants because she is accusing you of anything and everything under the sun despite rebutting each and every accusation as a lie…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MoreSky wrote:

Anyone got any other indications, that a blue-pill bloke should spot?

There’s always a moment. You can just feel it.
When they girl you thought you knew . . . . is now . . . . “gone”.

I remember those moments very clearly, and I even knew it at the time.
The mistake was ignoring it.

In retrospect ( and if any of you know what I am talking about ) that’s the moment I would say “dump her”, or plan your exit starting now. Because if you don’t, the clock has just started ticking, and you are only prolonging the inevitable. You CAN NOT bring her back after she has switched off. In every case that I can speak of, she would just stare blankly without saying anything.

She has literally “switched off”. And it’s completely random – not based on anything specific you *did*. Like a dice roll.

For example, if she used to laugh at your dumb jokes and/or when you were funny / farted in bed / playful / fooling around, and now she looks at you like “who the f~~~ is this guy?”. I remain convinced it doesn’t matter “who” the guy is – or what you do. It’s as though she as completely “switched off”. That is what you need to look for. Cheating comes after that. Be ahead of the game here.

( — PUA ENTERS HERE AND GETS ALL UP IN YOUR STUFF ABOUT HOW IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT AND YOU SHOULD HAVE “GAMED” HER MORE. IT ISN’T. STEP ASIDE. —- )

Going on….

If she has already cheated, you’re already late to the party, and it’s because you ignored the moment when she switched off.

I have never been the jealous type. Ever. She/they could flirt with and talk to anybody she wanted. I was never a control freak. I think maybe this puts women off because they WANT you to be the jealous type ( on the surface ). If I were in any of those situations again, I would not work harder to try and change it. I would try to bring her back. I would not wait for the cheating or “ladies night” to start. I would not fight another guy over her. I would not buy her flowers or make more effort to spend time with her.

I would just think and say “OK, it’s over, and time for you to go.”
Ignore it if she denies it and says “OMG WHAT?”. Even if she cries. DO NOT pay attention to those tears.

“Everything is temporary”, but women are a temporary pleasure at best.
I couldn’t be more emphatic about it.

More importantly, even after she has switched off, she will continue to live with you, act, play along, sleep with you, even have sex with you. I find this so bizarre. She’s already gone in spirit, but she will act as if everything is normal.

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I once was laying in bed with one, and she was facing in the opposite direction ( away from me ). I told her I thought it best that she take this remote job offer and get her own place. She cried and denied it and acted like I was being cruel. I was not being cruel….I was being direct. I fell for the tears – felt sorry for her – and never spoke about it again. I ignored what I already knew in my gut.

2 1/2 years later(!!!!) it ended in a break up ( the inevitable ).
And now she said “You never let me be my own person”.

It made me SO ANGRY I could have punched a hole in the wall. I have always encouraged independence in her, and even reminded her of the night she was crying in bed. But she flipped 180 degrees all of a sudden and accused me of the opposite. I was so p~~~ed. I wanted her take her things and throw her into the street. “GO!! BE YOUR OWN PERSON!! PLEASE!!! IM F~~~ING BEGGING YOU!! But don’t accuse me of that s~~~ again“.

If I could have rewinded back to that day we were laying in bed – 2 1/2 years prior – I would have said “nope. it’s time for you to go.” and I would not give a damn if tears were streaming down her face.

Telling you boys, ignore “the moment” to your own detriment.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

foolsgold wrote:

If she accuses you of cheating

On “cheating” – if it has already gone that far – I agree that games like that will start. But the serious girlfriends already knew I wasn’t the type to cheat. We even talked about it. If the topic came up and she tried that stuff, I would say “honey, If I ever have the opportunity to cheat and choose to act on it, I would call you up and break up with you first – and I expect the same from you.”

That’s how I handled those bulls~~~-tests.
I wouldn’t even let her call me a “cheater”.

If I wanted to sleep around, I wouldn’t even have a girlfriend!
Who would? It’s as simple as that.

^^ Women don’t get this ^^ and it f~~~s their s~~~ up. It disarms them.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 12]

– she breathes.

[JVBParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

She’s breathing.

Head hammer nail.

Peace is > piece.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

There’s always a moment. You can just feel it.
When they girl you thought you knew . . . . is now . . . . “gone”.

I remember those moments very clearly, and I even knew it at the time.
The mistake was ignoring it.

This was spot on. My ex wife would do the motions but you can see in her eyes that she is just not there. The girl you knew is just gone..She told me she loved me the day before and then she was just gone. What cold calculating minds they have when you outlive your usefulness to them…No amount of pleading or reminiscing would change her mind. And just like that, the relationship you sacrificed and cultivated for a long time is discarded…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[TwistParticipant]

When she still f~~~s you but doesn’t kiss you. Like a paid whore.

Don’t think that we need to know much beyond the smartphone crap, but this was a great read for me back in the day. I wouldn’t pay $ for this, but I know its available free on the web somewhere. A woman explaining women. No wonder they hate each other.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

NerdTunneler wrote:

This was spot on. My ex wife would do the motions but you can see in her eyes that she is just not there. The girl you knew is just gone..She told me she loved me the day before and then she was just gone.

Nodding loudly.

Twist wrote:

, but this was a great read for me back in the day

TITLE: “What Women Really Mean When They Say “I’m Not Happy” .

“I’m not haaaaaaaaaaaaapy” is a registered trademark of women. Just can’t go there when a woman attempts to translate “what women mean” into Manglish. Here’s another one. “For Guys: A guide to girl talk.”. F~~~ing learn to communicate directly, ladies. You’re clearly complete s~~~ at it.

What she means™ is . . . she couldn’t keep Chad around and will now carry on in an endless list of diatribes about her husband’s shortcomings. She’s “not haaaaaaaappy” either. Well, she pretends she is, but she explains to the f~~~wit readers of Oprah that she doesn’t really mean™ it.

Jesus Christ.

This was rich ( baked into the description ) . . .

Given that women initiate 70 to 75% of all divorces, is this secret the catalyst that prompts them to pursue separations and divorces, many under the guise of “searching for self?”

Let’s deconstruct what that “searching for herself” means™.

Women are always going about “finding” s~~~. “Finding” love. “Finding” themselves. “Finding” a man/husband/wallet. Because they morph, elbow and bend themselves around external factors. She needs to “find” him…. and then after she finds him , she flips a coin one morning and decides she needs to “find” herself across the breakfast table.

Men CREATE themselves.
Big difference.

So she’ll forgive me if I don’t give a rat f~~~ that she needs to “find herself”.
I already know what that means. Too lazy and incapable of creating herself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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