Should I marry her if she lets me have threesomes?

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

I fully expect to be “published.”

He can have the rights to my posts in this thread but must include all pictures and leave the text unaltered.

Solid wrote:

And there is more love in this picture than in all of his wedding photos together !

This is one of the best memes I ever came across.

C~~~s never love you like a dog will. And the dog will stay with you even through hard times.

Women won’t.

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[GargamelSpectator 29101]

I read the thread title and knew it would make it to page 10.

Should I marry…???

WTF?

Wait:

Who needs this s~~~?

You only live once!

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[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Gargamel wrote:

I read the thread title and knew it would make it to page 10.

Should I marry…???

WTF?

Wait:

Who needs this s~~~?

You only live once!

An image says a thousand words.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

When I mentioned putting this threesome clause in a prenuptial agreement she agreed to that.

In some states, like New York, for example, such a provision could easily render the Pre-Nup null and void in court !That is because in such states it meets the legal definition of adultery, as defined by that state as an illegal act.

No contract can support an illegal act and be valid.

You need to talk to a lawyer who is an expert on these matters in your state. This looks like a trap !

Marriage is such a terrible contract with pitfalls for a man. I am unconvinced that it can be made more balanced even with the very best legal advice and Pre-Nup contracts.

Skip the wedding. Don’t be a sucker. Who knows how many other traps like this a real lawyer could spot !

Frank V.

PS: I did not read the rest of the thread yet. When I saw this glaring legal mistake, I felt I had to point it out ASAP. Props to other brothers who spotted it first.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

MikeFun86 wrote:

I’ve been speaking to a great lawyer who is very confident that this clause (as well as her remaining thin and other things) can be put in a contract form.

You better get a second opinion on that. I already smell something “too-good-to-be-true” here.

Frank V.

[MikeFun86Participant 8]

Even though some replies were a bit rude, still appreciate all the insight provided! It’s a big decision. I guess I still believe that legally I can be protected with a very good prenup agreement. Probably the main thing I got from this is that I have to consult a very good lawyer or two before making any decisions.

Morpheus wrote:

Hey Mike, did you ask this question anywhere else?

Just friends/family members. Currently looking for other venues to get various viewpoints before coming to a conclusion…

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

MikeFun86 wrote:

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Prenups are regularly thrown out in every western culture. Your contract with a woman means exactly dick. However, you will be held to your end of it.

I really don’t see how that can be true. A legal contract is a legal contract.

Yes, but if that contract has a provision for an act that your state has decided is a crime (adultery), then it is an illegal contract and a judge can throw the whole thing out.

This is sounding more rotten by the minute.

Frank V.

[MikeFun86Participant 8]

I guess what makes me think that she is not a typical girl is that she plans to keep working (she makes close to 100k annually, I make 250k annually) and also she doesn’t care about a big wedding. My main issue with marriage that I would have to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of my life, which I wouldn’t be able to do clearly. By giving me threesomes twice a month, she is doing a great job eliminating that fear…

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

MikeFun86 wrote:

I guess what makes me think that she is not a typical girl is that she plans to keep working (she makes close to 100k annually, I make 250k annually) and also she doesn’t care about a big wedding. My main issue with marriage that I would have to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of my life, which I wouldn’t be able to do clearly. By giving me threesomes twice a month, she is doing a great job eliminating that fear…

What a crock of s~~~. Go back to your PUA website.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

MikeFun86 wrote:

My main issue with marriage that I would have to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of my life, which I wouldn’t be able to do clearly.

Then you are not “marriage material” by nature.

Then why get married in the first place?

Women pressure you to get married because they have a reason in the back of their minds.

We here call it “agenda”.

And even 6-figure earning women will often stop working (A planned and innocent “Oh I lost my job because I was rude to the boss”) once they have a ring on them.

And that’s why they ALWAYS marry up…

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[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Black Mask wrote:

Don’t get married.

“A threesome is two girls and a guy. Two guys and a girl is called a train.” – Patrice O’Neal

Take his advice: See the bright flashing lights and hear the loud bell.

STOP- before you get run over by a train !

Frank V.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

MikeFun86 wrote:

I make 250k annually)

One chance to grab that big wallet that will never come again…

SO she lets you have all freedoms…

10 years later, she will get more alimony than she ever earned.

Her chance of a lifetime to get a free ride to financial heaven.

She knows she can’t keep that 250 k wallet… (You can have any woman…)

MikeFun86 wrote:

My main issue with marriage that I would have to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of my life, which I wouldn’t be able to do clearly.

…and so she “makes compromises” and pretends to be fine with it all.

MikeFun86 wrote:

By giving me threesomes twice a month, she is doing a great job eliminating that fear…

But legally you will be hooked.

If you really make 250 k, then getting married is insanity.

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[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

MikeFun86 wrote:

Even though some replies were a bit rude, still appreciate all the insight provided! It’s a big decision. I guess I still believe that legally I can be protected with a very good prenup agreement.

Then you are quite possibly an idiot. Listen to your brethren. If you think you have legally protected yourself from a woman, you are WRONG.

MikeFun86 wrote:

I guess what makes me think that she is not a typical girl is that she plans to keep working (she makes close to 100k annually, I make 250k annually) and also she doesn’t care about a big wedding. My main issue with marriage that I would have to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of my life, which I wouldn’t be able to do clearly. By giving me threesomes twice a month, she is doing a great job eliminating that fear…

AWALT. If she holds on for 3-5 years, she will destroy you with the alimony. If your job depends on market pressures, and those market pressures bottom out your income, you are still bound to the alimony judgment. If you can’t make payments, you’ll go to jail for contempt of court until you can pay it.

Listen to the warnings. Don’t be a complete idiot.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

MikeFun86 wrote:

Even though some replies were a bit rude, still appreciate all the insight provided! It’s a big decision. I guess I still believe that legally I can be protected with a very good prenup agreement. Probably the main thing I got from this is that I have to consult a very good lawyer or two before making any decisions.

Think more like three or more. Pre-Nups get thrown out of court pretty regularly. None of the lawyers can be people who worked for her or her family, since there can be no acceptable conflicts of interest allowed. This is about your best interests, not anyone else’s.

But others here have made other valid points. The only real way to avoid getting screwed in a Marriage Contract (and do not dare be mistaken, it is a real contract) that is designed to favor her interests over yours, is to never sign it in the first place.

“We’ll still have sex after the baby is born !”

How many men here can attest from personal experience that was a big lie ? How many men have I known personally who got burned this way ?

Can’t count that high.

“I will keep working after the baby.”

Read the forums, a lot of men got burned this way too.

Having the ability to say “no” and enforce it by dumping her can only work best if you never get married or have kids.

Otherwise, you are stuck. The costs, to you, to enforce your ability to object gets much, much higher.

But if you want to give up your sovereignty over the promise of threesomes, I cannot and would not stop you.

And since you are already getting threesomes now, you are not getting married for threesomes, you are getting married for the promise (very highly likely to be unenforceable in court) of threesomes.

I would never suggest any man in his right mind sign an almost unenforceable contract for the promise to get what he is already getting.

If she leaves, I assure you, with your income level, having no kids and no ex-wife, you will have zero problems replacing her.

Frank V.

[MikeFun86Participant 8]

Gargamel wrote:

MikeFun86 wrote:

My main issue with marriage that I would have to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of my life, which I wouldn’t be able to do clearly.

Then you are not “marriage material” by nature.

Then why get married in the first place?

Women pressure you to get married because they have a reason in the back of their minds.

We here call it “agenda”.

And even 6-figure earning women will often stop working (A planned and innocent “Oh I lost my job because I was rude to the boss”) once they have a ring on them.

And that’s why they ALWAYS marry up…

All valid points. I do see her point as well that she wants to have healthy children before she gets older and the risk of complications increases. She says that she has invested 7 “of her best years” into the relationship and has done everything to please me (that is true) and now it’s time to start a family. I’m not totally against kids, just I planned on having them later in life (in my 40’s not 30s). I’m just trying to decide if both of our needs can be met here.

As far as the whole sex thing, I’m quite surprised that this forum seems to have an almost “anti-sex” bias. I did expect the anti-marriage bias, but the anti-sex thing is a bit surprising. Sex is by far the most enjoyable thing in this world for me, especially sex with two beautiful women. I love it so much, it is truly the epitome of pleasure and manhood for me. The thing I enjoy the most is a threesome vacation though when we go to Bora Bora or the Maldives, take a beautiful girl with us, and just spend all days having mind-blowing sex, swimming in the ocean, snorkeling/scuba diving, eating amazing food, them smoking weed / doing a little molly and then having even more mind-blowing sex in a high state. After experiencing such bliss, I would truly rather die than be without it…

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

All valid points. I do see her point as well that she wants to have healthy children before she gets older and the risk of complications increases. She says that she has invested 7 “of her best years” into the relationship and has done everything to please me (that is true) and now it’s time to start a family.

“MIL/GT-18b : Standard Issue Guilt Trip , Model 18 Rev. b”

Frank V.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I think divorce should be like Unemployment Insurance. The person doing the quitting gets nothing, no benefits.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

As far as the whole sex thing, I’m quite surprised that this forum seems to have an almost “anti-sex” bias. I did expect the anti-marriage bias, but the anti-sex thing is a bit surprising. Sex is by far the most enjoyable thing in this world for me, especially sex with two beautiful women.

I have no problem at all with someone liking threesomes. I am critical of being careless about getting them.

If you make the kind of income you claim, then you can have tons of threesomes with far lower risks to your assets without getting married.

If you live in Nevada, I am sure that one of the businesses out there would be happy to not only accommodate you, but make suggestions for “additional services” to have an even better time. (Don’t tell me legal prostitution does not feature up-selling, that is Business 101 for any business like that !)

Want women of two different races ? Twins ? Want them to do each other as you take a break ? Go crazy, that is what that business is there for !

All that, and virtually zero substantial risks to your assets and future income.

You still want to get married ?

Frank V.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

MikeFun86 wrote:

She says that she has invested 7 “of her best years” into the relationship

Red flag. Abort.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

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