Should a MGTOW man see a FEMALE therapist?

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Should a MGTOW guy see a therapist who is a woman?
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[TYEParticipant 291]

That is a recipe for disaster and I guarantee she will figure out a way to have you thrown into a crazy home, after you tell her you’re MGTOW. Women will never give men good advice they’re wired to destroy us, and their advice will alway’s swing in favor of women.

[Anonymous 42]

Should a MGTOW guy see a therapist who is a woman?

Hmmmm,,, should a Mercedes Benz turbo diesel be brought to a bicycle shop? Should rocket engine be calibrated by a stripper? Should a locomotive be operated my a 5 year old?

No way, don’t trust your mind to anybody! You could be taking advise from a mangina, symps, feminists, White Nights, f~~~ nobody is more bats~~~ nuts than a therapist! Be your own psychologist, follow that little voice of reason, listen for it! All the answers are in your own head, you just have to filter out ALL the S~~~! Starting with the notion that respected people are SCUMBAGS too. It’s all a f~~~ing game between plastic people, stay natural, f~~~ the synthetic poison of PLASTIC PEOPLE.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I would advise against therapy in general, if anything because the therapist profits by “treating” the alleged malady, not curing it.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Tell her your viewpoints on gender and MGTOW and see how she responds. Should be able to make up your mind from there.

 

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Cipher Highwind wrote:

I would advise against therapy in general, if anything because the therapist profits by “treating” the alleged malady, not curing it.

Most give you cookie cutter advice. Like most things there are very few therapists that are actually qualified to help people. A lot of them are just products of the University assembly line and offer little value to most people. Most just listen to people bitch and moan for a paycheck essentially.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Every female counselor/therapist/mediator that ever talked to my father always said it was his fault the way my mother verbally and emotionally abused him and myself.  The one psychiatrist I saw somewhat tried the same thing under the guise of “being neutral.”

[Anonymous 11]

I don’t buy into therapy myself, but that’s my decision solely for myself. I’ve gone through some seriously stressful situations and never needed one. My friend visited a professional for suicidal thoughts who put him on a drug that has suicidal thoughts as a side effect. He still took his own life so there are no guarantees. No matter what if you decide to visit a therapist, it is useless unless you do the real work yourself.

I definitely would not go to a female therapist if you have a need to discuss MGTOW.

Anonymous wrote:

You could be taking advise from a mangina, symps, feminists, White Nights, f~~~ nobody is more bats~~~ nuts than a therapist!

I think this field would be chock full of the above.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

In the first session, ask them about feminism, and leave.

 

Seriously, the chances you having a female NAWALT therapist, is slim, get the feminist question out soon as possible, it’s your money that’s on the line here. Don’t pay to have blue pills choked into your throat.

[DayrepSpectator 69]

While delusions, hallucinations, retardation and the like are serious brain problems one cannot deny that most mental illnesses are bulls~~~. The business not only cheats people of their money, but is also dangerous to a person’s well being. It demotivates people and makes them believe that something is wrong with them. Which is obviously going to make them feel bad and believe that they need medication or “help” to make things better. This stops them from growing, finding their own way and taking charge.

The failure rate of psychiatrists is about 70-80%. Out of the small percentage of patients who feel better, the cure is only temporary and they have to be on drugs for years and very often for life. Often these drugs f~~~ up people even more. What’s worse is that most psychiatrists have a mental disorder themselves (70% iirc) like “anxiety” or “depression”.

This business needs to go, for the most part.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I would absolutely never go to a female therapist if I were a man. In the United States. In 2015, 40 years after women declared war on men, the family and children.

Just as the STEM fields value logic and mathematics, the social sciences favor feminism today. Psychologists are going to be 90% feminist in my opinion.

Men left psychology in droves from 1986 and is still in free fall, from the American Psychological Association:

Psychology, once a man’s profession, now attracts mostly women. Data from the 1986 APA report, “The Changing Face of American Psychology,” and the National Science Foundation show that the percentage of psychology PhDs awarded to men has fallen from nearly 70 percent in 1975 to less than 30 percent in 2008. (The data do not include PsyD degrees.)
The shift is reflected in the work force as well. Data from APA’s Center for Workforce Studies show that women make up 76 percent of new psychology doctorates, 74 percent of early career psychologists and 53 percent of the psychology work force.
The phenomenon is not unique to psychology. Other fields such as law and education have seen an influx of women as well.

While psychologists applaud the gains women have made in the field over the past 30 years, some are concerned that the lack of men may have a downside. The most obvious problem, says psychologist Carol Williams-Nickelson, PsyD, executive director of the American Medical Student Association and Foundation, is that the field doesn’t represent the diversity of people it’s meant to serve. “Clients like to see people who look like them,” she says. John Farrell, PhD, a clinical psychologist in Homewood, Ill., agrees. “Guys are built differently. They have different brains and different ways of being emotional,” he says. “We understand male issues differently than females do.” Peter Sheras, PhD, director of clinical training at the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, is concerned that there won’t be enough male therapists to serve predominantly male populations — prisoners or soldiers, for example

http://www.apa.org/gradpsych/2011/01/cover-men.aspx

So in 2011, when this was written, even psychologists recommend going to see someone that looks like you. And no one disagreed with that advice.

So don’t see a female therapist. It’s worse than not going at all. She’ll mess with your head and think she’s doing a public service.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

The f~~~ you need a therapist for dumb ass!, That’s what we’re here for

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[KeymasterKeymaster]

No. Way.

The only female therapy a man needs is some good head. I went for a massage the other day, and this woman stood on my back and totally destroyed me. I felt fantastic after. I may have even proposed marriage between grunts – and for that, I plead insanity. But she’s not getting to manipulate anything in my head, thanks. Letting a woman do that is a recipe for disaster. Even in casual conversation, when did a woman ever know what the f~~~ she was talking about …. or offer advice that’s GOOD for you?

NEVER.

Every time a woman thought she knows better or what’s best, she was wrong. Ignoring female advice and direction is the best thing you can possibly do for yourself.

Women can’t even take advice or direction properly, so who would ever think she can GIVE it?

Tell a woman to stop talking for 5 minutes because it will keep you sane.
She will refuse to do it. Based on that alone, under no circumstances see a female therapist for anything other than a good BJ

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

The post-secondary institution I used to teach at had an employee assistance program.  Shortly after I started, I took advantage of it because of some personal issues.

 

The “counsellor” was a woman who clearly had an agenda.  After several sessions with her, she managed to turn the reason I used that service into being my fault and a case of “you need to get out more often”.  She didn’t understand anything about me or my situation.  She was simply interested in pushing her warm-and-cuddly Oprah-like doctrine on me, expecting me to comply.

 

Our last session ended badly.  She threw a tantrum and called me all sorts of names.  Why?  Probably because I didn’t parrot back to her the bilge she was telling me.  Of course I didn’t because it didn’t make any sense.  The result was that all those meetings I had with her turned out to be a complete waste of my time.

 

[John DoeParticipant 743]

The social sciences are about reengineering people not helping them.   Do not expect anything from them.  Most issues people had today, were solved by family and friends long ago, or were just sucked up.

Psychology is just a non sexual form of prostitution for a society in which social relationships are dead.

You pay somebody to pretend to give a s~~~ about you for an hour and that is it.  They in turn try to rewire you so you are miserable like everyone else you see on the street.

In regards to a therapist that is a “woman”:  do not ever take advice from a woman for anything.  After taking the redpill, I would ask women for advice (not because I need help) but because I wanted to test how full of s~~~ they really are.  A woman is fundamentally weak in nature.

In regards to life difficulties: “role over an play dead”.

In regards to relationships: “make the woman happy”.

In regards to moral questions: “Whatever feels good”.

In regards to conflict: “Don’t stand up for anything which will cause others to despise you”.

The hypocrisy is crazy also.  They will be upset when somebody metaphorically infringes on their territory.  However, they will unhesistantly infringe on the territory of others while always justifying it.  (And by territory I mean physical/mental/emotional etc.  Basically anyone else’s space).  They have no respect for others and have a deep drive to dominate everything and everyone.

Which brings me to my next point.  The woman therapist will do everything she can to dominate you.  Woman therapist’s have know interest in helping one though their issues.  Their simple goal is to dominate the individual.  Which is why you see people repeatedly go back to a therapist.  Often times the therapist will create a relationship in which the patient cannot fix their own problems but rather needs the therapist herself.  Instead of solving issues, she will make you dependent on her.

My friend visited a professional for suicidal thoughts who put him on a drug that has suicidal thoughts as a side effect.

Psychiatry is a form of robbery.

[AussieBlokeParticipant 144]

Couple of things:

Women cannot offer any advice that is not tainted by their own self interest – NO EXCEPTIONS.

I went to see a MALE therapist recently, due to a number of ongoing issues with my ex, Therapists have no interest in helping you, they simply want to ensure they have their next cheque coming in and will spend inordinate amounts of time and energy trying to convince you to come back and set up a “Program” for you.

The one I went to see stated I was “catastraphising” yes it’s a word, and said there was a pattern of this behavior, the guy never knew a thing about me or my past and developed this “theory” about me. I never went back and worked my s~~~ out myself.

John Doe wrote:

The social sciences are about reengineering people not helping them.   Do not expect anything from them.  Most issues people had today, were solved by family and friends long ago, or were just sucked up.

John Doe is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT

The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

[HimeoParticipant 471]

Two years of therapy for depression and suicide. Two bits of advice to overcome both.

1) Depression is mourning something you lost.
2) Depression is the result of a chemical imbalance which can be resolved through diet, exercise, and (sometimes) prescription drugs.

I cured my depression when I moved on with my life and found something new to focus on.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I cured my depression when I moved on with my life and found something new to focus on.

Hundreds of years ago, if someone lost a loved one (family, friend, spouse) there was a period of mourning.  It might last several weeks to several months.  However it was expected to be practiced by an individual after a loss.  Once that period of time was over, that individual was expected to move on with life.

Everything is a rush.  You can lose someone one day, and expected to be at work once the funeral is over.

Depression can also be viewed as repressed anger.

[experiencedParticipant]

No.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[constraints_theoryParticipant 43]

The way i see it. if a psychologist helps you at all they only help you enough to make you have to come back for more. as numerously stated above they are really only in it for the money. you walk in that door and dollar signs appear, i mean all they really have to do is listen to you drone on for an hour or so about how you what your problems are and how they make you feel. which for the most part they are more than likely to be anything less than genuine in there interest to really help you, they say a few remarks and “homework” for you to practice at home NOW GIVE ME MY MONEY!

i never really did understand why someone would pay anyone to listen to their problems or their feelings on the one hand i can see how it could be lucrative for the one listening to it. but to pay for that service when you can get it for free from a close friend or a family member. if you really want to tell a stranger your problems your better off speaking to a hobo since who is going to wanna listen to them drone on about your problems then again common ground? anything would be better in my personal opinion than seeing a psychologist/psychiatrist

psychology is all a bunch of pseudo science bulls~~~ with perhaps a few valid theories that that tries to pass it’s self off as a legitimate science but in reality it’s the red headed step child that get beat by the real sciences.

I've killed worse than you on my way to real problems.

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