S~~~bird Loses Her Job

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

So there’s this female I know… let’s call her Susan. Susan is 27 years old and worked in the customer service call center for a large hotel chain. It wasn’t a glamorous job but it paid the bills and she had an apartment, a car and enough money to live comfortably on her own, keep a pet and enjoy a social life. Sounds good.

But S~~~bird Susan couldn’t be happy with that. She needed attention… male attention… and lots of it. So she’d go out to dance clubs almost every night, get drunk off her ass, kiss other girls, take whatever drugs were offered to her and f~~~ musicians, DJs and anyone else who didn’t have a car and lived with their momma.

She did this so often that it began to interfere with her job… to the point where she was fired for coming in to work late. Congratulations, S~~~bird… here’s hoping you’ve got a sugar daddy to pay those bills of yours. Oh, wait… you only date dirtbags. Well good luck getting them to take care of you.

Now I knew S~~~bird Susan didn’t want to keep her job and, like a good friend and intelligent man, I recommended she start looking for a new career while she was still employed so that she could determine her own exit strategy at the time of her choosing. Of course she didn’t do that. Then when she was fired, I recommended she save her money and start applying for every job she could in order to get some kind of gainful employment. Instead, she bought tickets to go to Indonesia for a yoga retreat.

Now, a month later, she’s spent up all her credit and still doesn’t have a job. Oh, she tried her hand at being a pool hostess at a topless pool but I’m sure she was too much of a c~~~ to the patrons to survive at that. And she’s talked about having a few interviews but she hasn’t gone to any of them. She smashed her car into a curb while texting and dented her rim and asked her uncle (not me!) to buy her a new set of tires and she applied for a gig at a local bar even though she’s never mixed a c~~~tail (and won’t buy a bottle and practice at home like I suggested) so that’s not going to happen.

On the good side, she joined AA and started going to meetings… which she’s since quit. She kept on f~~~ing the DJ even though she was trying to get clean and I’m sure he wasn’t on board with the whole “Susan is f~~~ing annoying when she’s f~~~ing while sober” thing.

I suspect she’ll run out of funds soon and have to move in with someone… but she’s got too much ego to date for security, at least that’s what she seems to thing about herself. So either she finds a guy and mooches off him or she’s gonna die soon.

Good luck, Susan! You made your bed, now sleep in it.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

She will find a guy to pay for s~~~. Hoping that these women will have any remorse for their actions is wishful thinking. I have yet to see a woman kill herself over their “bed they have to lie in”. A woman can spit out 10 kids and the government will pay for it, and enslave the 10 fathers for her. They don’t care, bro. Go your own way.

[chirParticipant]

Heard over the blue pill speakers:  “Beta blue-pill trash pickup on aisle 3…”

 

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[RoyDalParticipant]

S~~~bird Susan is an example of the triumph of radical feminism, if I ever heard of one.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Great-OzParticipant 226]

This is a classic example of the modern young adult female here in the United States. They all believe they that there are absolutely no consequences to their actions. Their immediate gratification is all that matters to them and all they are capable of concerning themselves with.

"Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I have a little experience with alcoholics and drug addicts.  It’s been a long time since I was close to one who was still using, but reading your description of her gave me a feeling of deja vu.  By your description of her, she could be a poster child.

Recovered alcoholics will tell her that there are only 3 possible long term destinations for alcoholism and other chemical addictions.  Those are prison, insane asylum or cemetery.  They will also tell you that the reason you don’t see many old alcoholics and drug addicts is that they quit, or they die.  For alcohol, the progression is usually slower than for other chemicals, but nonetheless merciless and unwavering, and the destinations are the same.  Whatever else her problems with money/unemployment/immaturity and irresponsibility are, it’s the chemical addiction that should take priority for her.  That’s the issue that will kill her.

While she continues to drink, she will continue to have problems with money, employment, relationships, the law and her health.  Most recovered addicts will acknowledge that they used whatever chemical they used in order to escape some emotional pain they were having.  When it can be identified, the source of the emotional pain is usually some very legitimately painful event (orphaned or abused as children, combat veterans etc).  She will not stop drinking until alcohol brings her more pain that it takes away.  She will be in such deep denial that by the time she realizes that she’s an alcoholic, her boss will know, her lawyer will know, her doctor will know, her insurance company will know, her family will know, the judge will know, the police will know, and all her friends will know.  There will be enormous collateral damage all around her on her way to that point.

Being female and entitled, she’ll have an attitude that set her up for addiction (the expectation that she should never feel uncomfortable about anything) and it’ll work against her ability to get clean and sober.  The more strongly that attitude has been installed in her, the harder and more painful it will be to give up.  The more attractive she is, the longer she will be able to manipulate some white knight types into providing her access to booze, and protecting her from the unpleasant consequences of drinking.

As a bystander, your best move is to back slowly away with your hand over your wallet.  The only thing you can/should ever contribute to this situation is a ride to/from an AA meeting if they ever need one.  The LAST thing you should ever do is loan them money, bail them out of jail, buy them drinks, let them move in or otherwise do anything that will give them easier access to alcohol, or anything that will decrease the pain and discomfort it brings to their lives.  It is the unpleasant, uncomfortable consequences of drinking that will ultimately cause her enough pain to make drinking no longer worth it.  As a bystander, your job is to allow those consequences to be sufficiently painful to them for this to occur.  The closer you are to them emotionally, the harder this is to watch and the harder it is to do.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

I hear more and more of these stories.

It’s both pathetic and sad, and at the same time i can’t help laughing.

These women are pathetic because for all the bulls~~~ they put on display, they eventually are the victims and end up alone and sad.

Yet i can’t judge because this s~~~ happens everyday to someone we know. But there is definitely a women-only reaction to this bulls~~~ that is complete denial and stubborn entitlement. Usually you make mistakes, you go through s~~~, but eventually you learn.

I felt sad for her until the part about the yoga in south-east asia. That just go me angry, i can’t even THINK of a worse way to spend your money.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

SMH…This is how most of them seem to be these days. They’re rewarded for this behaviour, no consequence. Lets not forget there’s always some desperate mangina to rescue her in the hopes he’ll get in there like swimwear, also Feminism has raised generations of these sissified men. I personally have had enough..mghow.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Absolutely spot on and good advice, brainpilot. I’m not emotionally involved with this female… we meet for coffee occasionally and she tells me her stories and I get to look at her pretty face and nice body for an hour then we go our separate ways.

I’ll enjoy that pretty face (and the jealous stares it gets me from other females) until such time as the stories get too messy to hear any more and then I’ll stop meeting her and that will be that. I don’t really need that in my life anyhow, but it’s interesting to be able to come here and relate the story to you guys.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Soldano wrote:

I felt sad for her until the part about the yoga in south-east asia. That just go me angry, i can’t even THINK of a worse way to spend your money.

Right?! I mean for real. I’m not planning any overseas travel and I literally make 12 times her salary. What the f~~~ did she think she was going to achieve by spending $4000 on a trip to Bali? I told her “Whatever it is you’re looking for in your life, you’re not going to find it in Bali, you’re going to find it inside of yourself.”

Not my problem but yeah, who the f~~~ gets fired, goes without work for a month and then spends their last dollar of credit on an expensive yoga retreat trip?

– alex

[EnlightenedMGTOWParticipant 291]

What a schadenboner-inducing story.

 

Marriage is the disease, divorce is the cure. MGTOW is the vaccine.

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