S~~~ Tested by ExGF — Amusing Stuff

[cyclesomaticParticipant 137]

I had what I think is an amusing exchange with the lady that force fed me the red pill in the not too distant past.  She had finally (after a month) come to get a vehicle she had parked at my house and had a coat for me I left at her place the last time I was there.  I normally would have said forget the coat but it was new and I wanted it back so I had to see her in person.  Looking back at this exchange, I can see that last Saturday was a s~~~ test.  This s~~~ test was then followed up by a s~~~ test via text today.  Here is the exchange word for word…..

Her:  I thought you said no hard feelings

Me:  What do you mean?

Her:  Never mind

Me: You sent that message to me.  I don’t understand why you said it.  You said “Never mind.”  Please try to imagine how confusing that is.

Her:  You said “no hard feeling”  I have none  Obviously you do.

Me:  Why do you say that?

Her:  I just think that

Me:  I’m not sure why….

Her:  The way you acted on Saturday

Me:  Hmm.  No hard feelings really.  I was nervous to see you.  Didn’t see the need to beg and plead with you to accept me with all my flaws.

Her:  Ok  We all have flaws

Me:  Yes.  I have more than most apparently.  What behavior did you expect?

Her:  I guess that

Me:  Well, then you shouldn’t be surprised by how I acted.

Me:  Is that all you wanted today?  To tell me you though I was having hard feelings?

Her:  No but after your answer it is now.

 

To me the last line shows a clear intent to s~~~ test me even AFTER I’ve told her (in these exact words) to “go away and be busy” and to “leave me alone please.”  What a bitch!!!  Why s~~~ test me after we’ve been broken up for over a month?  My interpretation of this is she now wants what will never be hers.  Maybe I’m too self-important in my thinking but it sure looks that way to me.  Anybody else had this experience where someone you clearly told to f~~~ off after they’ve ripped your heart out won’t get the hint?  Bitches are just nuts…..

As they say in the UK, good riddance to bad rubbish.  At least I THINK they say that in the UK.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

S~~~ tests are like global thermonuclear war. The only way to win is to not play.

The last time a female tried to s~~~ test me… she’s at my house and things are getting hot and she pulls back and shuts down on me… then after a minute she starts telling me about some wild party she went to where she made it with some random chick and some other dudes are wanting to get with her and so on, you know the drill.

I can only assume she was trying to test if I was jealous or something so I said “Why would you be saying these things to me? You’re not making a confession and it doesn’t sound like you’re trying to turn me on… so I guess you’re just wanting to brag about how much of a tramp you are. Well I’m not down with that so I think it’s time for you to go.” And I saw her to the door. Never spoke to her again.

Thats how you beat a s~~~ test.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Stargazer wrote:

S~~~ tests are like global thermonuclear war. The only way to win is to not play.

You can’t win, no matter how hard you try to hammer some facts and logic into their brains, that never works.
Just go “f~~~ it” and do what you want.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Agreed, no win proposition. Don’t engage in the game.

My favorite s~~~-test from the ex wife, near the end, was mentioning supposed past boyfriends at random and unsolicited. We would be driving along and pass business “A”, and she would right out of the blue state something to the effect – “oh look over there – I dated a guy that worked there once – he did x,y,z to me – he was such an asshole”.

In hindsight, she was obviously trying to illicit some response. So glad I did not respond at all and ignored the comments – I sure that did maximum damage. The hamster in her brain must have fallen off the wheel.

They are all the same.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[TheGouliatParticipant 20]

you should notice that in the texting, she makes a 180 turn. First, she acusses you to have “hard feelings”, then she opens the mixer with confusing answers, shakes it, then expresses her sadness of you telling her she have “hard Feelings” ?

 

She started the Topic, introduces Guilt, shakes it and pours it on you. Shaming tactic.

[cyclesomaticParticipant 137]

I’ve not heard from her since that last exchange.  I think maybe she got the message but you know women….  They’ll pop back in whenever they think they have something that gives them the upper hand (like the guy who’s ex emailed him 6 years later).  She will want or need something and turn to me for whatever it may be and will get nothing.  Again.

Such a retarded ballet being performed by post-wall dancers.  It’s tedious.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

She Trolled you man.  Classic female trolling.  “I thought you weren’t mad?” or “why are you mad?”.  Sometimes the question is baiting, because you have a good reason to be mad and they know it – they want to keep playing a game though.  Sometimes the question is seeking validation, if you are quiet and non-confrontational they perceive it as being annoyed – and then they won’t be happy until you validate them with your own personal internal “gossip”.  This goes into my theory that women crave drama, you are dodging a bullet by moving on.

Sovereignty above all else.

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