S~~~ Test, Pass or Fail?

[Anonymous 0]

I have a question about the s~~~ test. My wife made a little bulls~~~ threat yesterday and I gave it a “I don’t give a f~~~”. I didn’t submit to her bulls~~~. So, did I pass or fail the s~~~ test? I’ve learned so many new terms since I’ve been on this site. S~~~ test is just another one for me to learn.

[Anonymous 0]

Depends on the circumstances. Was it an ultimatum, like it’s now or never? What behaviour is she trying to force on you?
If an ultimatum, choose never and watch her reaction.
If it is something like “don’t touch me” then tell her you won’t -EVER. If it is something like “I want a separation” give it to her right then and there. Start packing. If it is your house start packing her stuff. She will be on her knees apologizing within the hour.
Keep in mind that whatever she says is designed to make you do what she wants and if her s~~~ test works, she will see you as weak and demand more. If it doesn’t work she will find another way but she will respect you. She will never be satisfied.

[Anonymous 0]

I just need to understand the terminology. When you “pass”, does that mean you did not fall for her bulls~~~ or what?

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

“I don’t give a f~~~”

I’m pretty sure this answer passes most s~~~ tests.

Anonymous wrote:

Depends on the circumstances. Was it an ultimatum, like it’s now or never? What behaviour is she trying to force on you?
If an ultimatum, choose never and watch her reaction.
If it is something like “don’t touch me” then tell her you won’t -EVER. If it is something like”I want a separation” give it to her right then and there. Start packing. If it is your house start packing her stuff. She’s looking be backtracking right away. Keep in mind that whatever she says is designed to make you do what she wants and if her s~~~ test works, she will see you as weak and demand more. She will never be satisfied.

Learn the above well. Emphasis mine.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

When you “pass”, does that mean you did not fall for her bulls~~~ or what?

Yeah. I struggled with this terminology for a while. Kind of like double negatives, or some f~~~ head attorney asking “Is it not true that . . .” Just speak plain English, dick-nuts.

“Passing” the test means something to your benefit, and will generally result in less frequent testing. “Failing” the test means she benefits, and will always lead to more testing. See below.

http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.com/2015/03/testing-testing-123-testing.html

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Who gives a s~~~ about her s~~~ test?

Surely for anyone MGTOW that is the point.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

It doesn’t really matter who won what as long as you keep walking away from HER s~~~, and FOCUS on YOURSELF and what YOU WANT.

Concerning yourself that she may have one this or that is still putting the emphasis on HER. You are still giving HER POWER. By keeping the focus on YOU it really doesn’t matter what she wants, says or does. YOU are to busy focusing on fulfilling your own WANTS to even consider hers.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Anonymous wrote:

Depends on the circumstances. Was it an ultimatum, like it’s now or never? What behaviour is she trying to force on you?
If an ultimatum, choose never and watch her reaction.
If it is something like “don’t touch me” then tell her you won’t -EVER. If it is something like “I want a separation” give it to her right then and there. Start packing. If it is your house start packing her stuff. She will be on her knees apologizing within the hour.
Keep in mind that whatever she says is designed to make you do what she wants and if her s~~~ test works, she will see you as weak and demand more. If it doesn’t work she will find another way but she will respect you. She will never be satisfied.

Thats terrific advice, well done Sir.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

I believe Awakened hit the nail on the head.

Like I said, who give s a s~~~ about her s~~~ test.
So you made a mistake and got married – minimise the damage by not giving a s~~~ about her bulls~~~ or bite the bullet and divorce her and the n rebuild your life.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 0]

Awakened wrote:

It doesn’t really matter who won what as long as you keep walking away from HER s~~~, and FOCUS on YOURSELF and what YOU WANT.

Concerning yourself that she may have one this or that is still putting the emphasis on HER. You are still giving HER POWER. By keeping the focus on YOU it really doesn’t matter what she wants, says or does. YOU are to busy focusing on fulfilling your own WANTS to even consider hers.

Thanks. I get it. I was just trying to get the terminology correct for future discussions on these forums.

[BubParticipant 1403]

“If you give a woman what she wants, you have failed the test.” -one of the MGTOW

I’ve saved little notes the brothers have said/posted over time.

You did not give her what she wanted, most likely “attention”, so you have passed this s~~~ test….

Just rolling down the road

[Anonymous 43]

S~~~ tests…suck. Someone who is working in your best interests would not be giving you s~~~ tests. Imagine a business partner giving you s~~~ tests, and the fate of the business hangs on your answer. You would dissolve that partners~~~ in an instant. You see your bosses doing this kind of stuff it’s time to bail and find other work.

lol I said partnets~~~.

If this kind of instability is unacceptable in a job or business, then why do men put up with this nonsense at home?

[TaxGuyParticipant]

You can’t “win” a s~~~ test. That’s why it’s called a s~~~ test. If you do as she wants, then she will just create a bigger s~~~ test next time. To see how far she can push you. If you don’t do as she wants, then she will be a bitch to you and will be p~~~ed off. Thus the term “s~~~ test”. It’s already a test with no right answer.

Here’s the most f’ed up thing about s~~~ tests. SHE starts a test with no right answer. SHE is the one who has created a no win scenario. To me, it means that she is already looking for a reason to reject you. She can’t just do it outright, so she creates a scenario for you that you can’t win so she has a reason to move on.

You can’t win a s~~~ test in her mind. The best you can do is win it for yourself. And when you think about it, that really should be your only concern. Calling her on her s~~~ may actually give her the ‘gina tingles. Which again is pretty screwed up when a woman needs to have a man tell her to f off in order to make her want to have sex with you.

So she’s either looking for a reason to reject you or it turns her on. Or maybe both?

Makes me really glad I don’t have a hamster spinning in my head….

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 0]

These responses are great. I didn’t even realize that women were doing these s~~~ tests until I began to read about it here. I’m 64. If the internet had existed when I was a teen, things might have turned out differently for me. Now, I’m stuck in my 2nd marriage. Probably have to ride this one out to the end, my end. But, reading and learning stuff here, in MGTOW, certainly helps me manage and cope. Thanks to everyone.

[billtaichiParticipant 141]

Hey Old Retired Guy I just turned 50 and I am in the process of divorcing my wife, looking for a place to live now. I am with you if the internet had existed when I was young things probably would have been much different. My wife wanted to bring in 2 kids to our house that are not ours and basically gave me an ultimatum, I used that opportunity to get the f~~~ out of the marriage, she now realizes that a problem with ultimatums is people will take you up on them sometimes.

The biggest thing with MGTOW is I can see that I am not crazy in thinking a lot of stuff “we are supposed to do” is absolute bulls~~~, society does not get to determine our lives and the advice we got as kids, for the most part, was crap, or at least in my case it was. I wish I had access to this information when I was 20, but better late than never, soon I will be in my own place with nothing but a sweet old dog as a house mate, I cannot f~~~ing wait. 🙂

[mgtowSAParticipant 670]

Best way to beat any s~~~ test?

1. Be prepared to walk away with immediate effect.

2. Use your response to her s~~~ test as your own s~~~ test for her. If she reacts negatively in any way, she’s failed. Dismally. In which case your next move should be simple. Just walk away.

Women have given themselves the authority to think that they have all the right to test us as men. This us why they no longer respect us or our authority. For me, a woman who shows no respect for me or my authority as a man will be a problem and there is no point getting further involved. These women should be dismissed without hesitation. Always remember that you are the prize not her. If anyone should be doing any testing it’s you. She must prove herself, not the other way around.

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