She's back after cheating

[BroncoParticipant 52]

Below is a link to my first post if you guys wanna catch up on the story. Anywho it’s been roughly a month since it happened and she’s been texting again. When I first caught her she stayed with the Beta afc. He text me wanting all the info so I told him and in light of that he STILL stayed. He was telling me she’s professing her love for him etc. In other words trying to save her cheating ass. She’s reached out the past two weeks wanting to talk catch up blah blah. First of all she was asking me not to text the old beta dude that we’d talked that she would tell him and that it had to come from her I call bs. This week she was wanting to hangout with a few drinks , I know wtf? But get this she’s saying I’m not getting not , it’s too risky lol. She knows I’m with someone else now and she kept asking about her too how’s it going with her etc. I asked her about the Beta and she says (now after a few weeks of her professing her love for him) that things are ‘OK’ but she still doesn’t know if she wants a relationship , I mean wtf? I think I already know the answer to my question and I’m not buying into her bs, but I’d like some insight into what you boys reckon her intentions are? Bored of the Beta? Just a pure tart? Look forward to the replies ?

Just swallowed my red pill

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

Dude run like hell that’d all I can say run like f~~~ing hell. Don’t be surprised if she’s knocked up. Run and enjoy life!

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

I repeat run like hell dude don’t be surprised if she is knocked up. Run like f~~~ing hell brother.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Bronco wrote:

I think I already know the answer to my question and I’m not buying into her bs, but I’d like some insight into what you boys reckon her intentions are?

She will continue to mind f~~~ you for as long as you let her (giving her power/control over you).
So stop. Don’t let her.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

she wants drama and she wants confirmation that she’s worth something. she wants you two to fight over her. don’t be an idiot, let her have the beta. Bullet dodged.
Tell her she’s not worth fighting for if you want to hurt her feelings.
Cut all the communication to save your sanity

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Step away from the smart phone!

If you continue to reply then you are on the line.

You can’t tell a woman that you no longer want a relationship. You have to show them. Only one way, ignore

Peace brothers

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Classic case of “monkey branching back”, dude.
For you it will be unhealthy, to sum up all the other’s best intended responses.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

By the way, this is why a divorce is so difficult when you have children.

Almost impossible to close the door behind you and look to the future.

You always look back at what you want. They know it.

Peace brothers

[BroncoParticipant 52]

Thanks boys I was tempted to bang her again but f~~~ that s~~~ , she ain’t worth it. No chance I’m going back there…

[TaxGuyParticipant]

There is a reason you will hear over and over on this site: One chance, per chick, per lifetime.

This is the classic example of why.

Order the good wine

[sonofthedestroyerParticipant 318]

I know how you feel. I know a girl i used to have feelings for. She shafted me and got engaged to some other guy and claimed she had no attraction for me. Now it seems he broke off the engagement with her (i wonder what happened) and she is single again. And now she is getting all friendly with me again. But i keep her at a safe distance and play hard to get. And she knows. She even said ‘you are taking revenge on me are you not’
Its funny how she could brush me off when i was a blue piller in love. Now i am a red pill MGTOW and she is attracted?

[Veritech AceParticipant 699]

If you stop answering the phone or responding to her texts, I found it takes about a 18 months for the crazy ones to finally stop trying to contact you.

[BroncoParticipant 52]

18 months fuuucccckkkk that s~~~e. Before that happens she’s gonna know she ain’t getting back near me , I’ll handle that one

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Bronco wrote:

18 months fuuucccckkkk that s~~~e. Before that happens she’s gonna know she ain’t getting back near me , I’ll handle that one

One of the most beautiful, sweet, and charming girls I ever had a relationship with was also a chronic cheater. I broke off all contact with her and it hurt like hell. I cried everyday for two weeks. However, it was the best thing I could do for myself. She continued to be that way for another 10 years before she finally got married. This was by her own admission many years later. DO NOT PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT!!

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

Change your phone number, dump them all, enjoy your new freedom and hire a hooker. Think about how better off your life would be without all these “stories”.

[Anonymous 18]

First of all you seem to be projecting the ‘beta’ on the other guy. She cheated on you and then texts you and you reply. Hmm…

The other guy might be on mgtow reddit writing how this bitch thinks she’s got him. And he’s just f~~~ing her while she tries to get back with her beta ex.

Between the two of you. She cheated on you with the other man? That makes him a beta?

No offense OP you replied to a cheating whore i.e. you are the beta.

[BroncoParticipant 52]

Nero wrote:

Bronco wrote:

18 months fuuucccckkkk that s~~~e. Before that happens she’s gonna know she ain’t getting back near me , I’ll handle that one

One of the most beautiful, sweet, and charming girls I ever had a relationship with was also a chronic cheater. I broke off all contact with her and it hurt like hell. I cried everyday for two weeks. However, it was the best thing I could do for myself. She continued to be that way for another 10 years before she finally got married. This was by her own admission many years later. DO NOT PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT!!

I know dude, I always seem to get the crazy ones , no more for me , no pussy or level of hotness is worth any of this p~~~. Done , done and oh yeah done. I know exactly what she’s doing , now all the cheating thing has blown over she’s getting bored of beta and chancing her arm again. Sure he’s got money but she is a prime example of alpha f~~~s beta bucks. If I don’t bang her soon some other dude will while the beta keeps paying for holidays , dinners gifts etc. Women are f~~~ed up… Hypergamy will find its own level

[BroncoParticipant 52]

Anonymous wrote:

First of all you seem to be projecting the ‘beta’ on the other guy. She cheated on you and then texts you and you reply. Hmm…

The other guy might be on mgtow reddit writing how this bitch thinks she’s got him. And he’s just f~~~ing her while she tries to get back with her beta ex.

Between the two of you. She cheated on you with the other man? That makes him a beta?

No offense OP you replied to a cheating whore i.e. you are the beta.

The other way round dude, I found out after we ended she started seeing him but without me knowing about him she came back and was seeing us both. When I caught her he was clueless, maybe you’re right we where both beta. But I’m trying to learn and grow, he on the other is still there even after he found out the truth. I text her back to actually test to see if she’d do it again and it turns out she would, making me want to learn more and get the f~~~ away from bitches like that.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Ghost her.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Stop talking to her.

^This.

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