Not always Gambit. Sometimes it’s about being involved. Sometimes it’s about values. Social skills is an aspect of that, but you don’t have to be that great socially. I would say more interpersonal relationship skills, learning how to have boundaries and being congruent/authentic. Learning how to identify and weed out crappy people. Learning how to say no to keep enough slots open for more compatible people. I know me, I can only have a certain amount of people in my life. Can’t say yes to everyone.
More of being “involved”. Birds of a feather flock together. I think if someone goes MGTOW and is committed to these types of ideals, business for example. They’ll naturally meet like minded people, if they are “involved”. Not even social, like being a social butterfly, but involved.
And when I say involved, I mean extra curricular activities that the individual is actually interested in. That could be anything. Flying remote control planes, volunteer work, social events of their interest, the gym, shooting ranges, etc, even church. Self development courses, mediation events, seminars.
Whatever your interest are, where people congregate and actually get to know each other. I wouldn’t think bars and nightclubs would be a great avenue for that, nor coffee shops, maybe for being “social”, maybe for meeting women when I was into that, but not meeting like minded people.
I mean events where you can meet like minded people that share a common interest. I think that’s the best way to begin developing relationships, and I don’t think you have to be all that social to accomplish that. Just sharing the common interest will create a common bond.
Then birds of a feather naturally flock together. So people who have like minded goals within the like minded interest, naturally begin to gravitate towards each other. I don’t know why, it just happens.
I remember a friend of mine, he had a friend who was a drug addict. They’d show up to a nightclub and every time, out of 1000 people, he’d find another addict. Maybe nightclubs and bars are possible, and yeah it is now thinking of it, I’ve certainly made friendships with like minded people in those environments.
However, I think seminars and events of a common interest are far more fruitful. Hobbies, flying remote planes, mountain biking, car restoration, gun range, seminars, whatever, “interest”, things that interest you outside of money is the best place to meet people. And if it is money, seminars on making money. At the same time, you to those and birds of a feather flock together. People find themselves in subgroups based on other like minded interest.
Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.
