"She was the one". I was the biggest Mangina.

[TDOTMGTOWParticipant 40]

Hello MGTOW.

I’d like to start this topic off by saying thank you to all of you men out there who are sharing your experiences. I questioned myself and who I was in the relationship after the fog has lifted (Breakup). I read through these forums and I’m really happy to see I’m not the only who who went through what I’ve gone through. This is my first post in MGTOW and thank you for this awesome website.

She was the one, I told myself. 6 months of a relationship I thought was going fantastic. She screwed me over. But in reality I did. I fell for the NAWALT BS. I realized why. She said she wasn’t a feminist, she was independent, she had her own job, she was the “strong individual woman that don’t need no man”. But… soon enough she got over me quick.

It is either I lost respect for myself in the relationship always trying to please her, she got bored. Or the fact that maybe I was honestly trying to be the best man? If I can’t act like a generous giving individual in a relationship, which I thought was the good thing to do… Why bother? A woman won’t love a man like how a man loves a woman. It stings, but we all had to swallow it at some point.

She was sick one day, she refused to attend her university classes all because I sent her a text that says “I know this month will be hard for us due to exam prep, but I believe! We’ll get through this”. I was a cuck… a blue pill… She knew, she could walk all over me:
“What you’ve sent really p~~~ed me off. I cancelled my lessons and I’m really sick”.
Instead of taking the bus to the campus. I took a cab to her dorm. I took a cab because I thought she really needed me there. I took a cab because I was a white knight, with a naive little heart. I came in and there she was sick and crying.

She cried for an hour and told me “we never had the relationship talk”. But we did… We had that talk months ago as she instilled her trust in me as she said “Take YOUR own time, we don’t have to rush things”. We did talk about the relationship many times. Like the time you said “I love you”, and on our next date where I brought you to the places you wanted to go, have the dinner you always wanted, was as confident as a Bear only for you to be p~~~ed after and confess “Why didn’t you say I love you back the other time? Do you love me? Where are we in this relationship?”. I wanted it to work, I wanted to talk.

I left her that day to go to my class.

The next day. I subject myself to humiliation. I stayed on campus till 11:00pm as she wanted to have dinner with me. I bought my dinner before we met. I tripped and spilled pasta all over me. Instead of going home, I still waited. I waited because I “loved” her so much. She came, we talked, went to her place and she broke up with me.

I’m done with mind games. I’d rather invest and save my money, be insanely rich, give my bros a vacation, help other men be the best versions of themselves, help a charity rather than settling down. I’m done being emotionally abused by women. I’m done being taken advantage of. Men get the s~~~ end of the stick because apparently we’re so disposable. I’m done feeling like whatever I did was for nothing.

TLDR: 6 Month relations~~~. Thought being a “nice guy” would work. Spilled pasta all over me as I waited for my ex in the campus. Stayed because I really wanted to see her. Got broken up with and took the bus home with smelling like goat cheese. Finished with emotional abuse, Now a MGTOW.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

TDOTMGTOW wrote:

She was sick one day, she refused to attend her university classes all because I sent her a text that says “I know this month will be hard for us due to exam prep, but I believe! We’ll get through this”. I was a cuck… a blue pill… She knew, she could walk all over me:
“What you’ve sent really p~~~ed me off. I cancelled my lessons and I’m really sick”.

She sounds completely delusional. What did you say in the text that could possibly p~~~ her off? You merely sent her an uplifting text.

That alone should confirm this is a GIFT – you are young, I assume? Be grateful you got out NOW. You’ll read over and over on here how men weren’t as lucky as you and stayed with the woman for DECADES and endured MISERY. You are very lucky to be MGTOW this young.

Welcome!!

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

We have all suffered through cases of “oneitis”, and many of us have suffered through several bouts of “oneitis” prior to Assimilation of the Red Pill.

The Important Part is that, Like You, We have ALL Survived, Learned, and Moved on !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

TDOTMGTOW wrote:

She said she wasn’t a feminist

Then why did she bring it up?
RED FLAG!!!!

Whenever a woman says “I’m not blah blah blah…”, she is LYING to you.

[Anonymous 54]

Being a nice guy to women will only earn you disrespect.

That is THEIR charater flaw ,not yours.

Give your heart and careing to a Dog.

It will be returned!!

F~~~ them human bitches!

They are WORTHLESS.

[TDOTMGTOWParticipant 40]

Hello everyone!

Thank you for your replies and the welcomes! Moving on feels great and reading up here on the forums, watching MGTOW videos and supporting fellow men helps me cope each day!

surfdude12 wrote:

TDOTMGTOW wrote:

She was sick one day, she refused to attend her university classes all because I sent her a text that says “I know this month will be hard for us due to exam prep, but I believe! We’ll get through this”. I was a cuck… a blue pill… She knew, she could walk all over me:
“What you’ve sent really p~~~ed me off. I cancelled my lessons and I’m really sick”.

She sounds completely delusional. What did you say in the text that could possibly p~~~ her off? You merely sent her an uplifting text.

That alone should confirm this is a GIFT – you are young, I assume? Be grateful you got out NOW. You’ll read over and over on here how men weren’t as lucky as you and stayed with the woman for DECADES and endured MISERY. You are very lucky to be MGTOW this young.

Welcome!!

Hello surfdude12, yes I am young, in my early twenties. I appreciate your reply. Apparently my good hearted text p~~~ed her off because according to her “You were the last person that I thought would be so negative when all I need is support right now”. So apparently taking a cab to her place, asking her if I could get anything from the drugstore wasn’t enough. MGTOW!

Anonymous wrote:

Being a nice guy to women will only earn you disrespect.

That is THEIR charater flaw ,not yours.

Give your heart and careing to a Dog.

It will be returned!!

F~~~ them human bitches!

They are WORTHLESS.

I may not have the same perspective as you do towards women but I appreciate and understand where you are coming from. I now know what they are capable of. I will never get into a relationship with one and just focus on myself, friends and family till the day I die. I actually thought of getting a dog myself. As disposing of their s~~~ is much better than dealing with emotional abuse. I will keep on walking to the tune of my own horn!

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

TDOTMGTOW wrote:

Hello surfdude12, yes I am young, in my early twenties. I appreciate your reply. Apparently my good hearted text p~~~ed her off because according to her “You were the last person that I thought would be so negative when all I need is support right now”. So apparently taking a cab to her place, asking her if I could get anything from the drugstore wasn’t enough. MGTOW!

EVEN WORSE!! Taking cab to her place and offering to go to drugstore was “NEGATIVE”….I mean how delusional can you get?

The main thing here is YOU ARE LUCKY – you got out before the REAL DAMAGE would occur (if you were married and had kids , she’d be saying you’re “negative” because you ONLY took kids to school, fed them and worked all day!!!!! Then would divorce you and take half you own and the kids!! Sound fun?)

This is cause for you to CELEBRATE – you should do something for yourself. Go buy yourself something or take a fun trip

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome.

You’re lucky you’ve woken up whilst still young.

Waking up in middle age and married, is not nice.

[TDOTMGTOWParticipant 40]

Thanks surfdude12! I was very delusional. I realize now that if I get into another relationship I will also become delusional myself again. “Love” is a powerful drug.

I am indeed lucky! I’ve been reading so many posts here regarding divorces and it really scares the crap out of me! A Bachelor’s life all the way.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

I know exactly what happened here. This is a textbook case of looking for little things to be upset about in order to make herself feel better about what she is about to do to you (f~~~ you over). Listen, my friend, any time a women starts attacking little absurd s~~~, something very bad is about to happen. It could be she wants to end you, but MOST of the time it is due to an orbitor with greater resources or she got tingled by a Chad. If you’re really LUCKY, she merely wants to create strife and make you upset because she’s a miserable c~~~.

[TDOTMGTOWParticipant 40]

Nero wrote:

I know exactly what happened here. This is a textbook case of looking for little for things to be upset about in order to make herself feel better about what she is about to do to you (f~~~ you over). Listen, my friend, any time a women starts attacking little absurd s~~~, something very bad is about to happen. It could be she wants to end you, but MOST of the time it is due to an orbitor with greater resources or she got tingled by a Chad. If you’re really LUCKY, she merely wants to create strife and make you upset because she’s a miserable c~~~.

This is exactly it!!! 1 week after the breakup she’s already dating someone else! I realized she was very miserable from the start of the relationship. But I refused to see that because of love bombing. She showered me with “I love you’s” till she got bored with me and did everything that you said!

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

TDOTMGTOW wrote:

Thanks surfdude12! I was very delusional. I realize now that if I get into another relationship I will also become delusional myself again. “Love” is a powerful drug.

I am indeed lucky! I’ve been reading so many posts here regarding divorces and it really scares the crap out of me! A Bachelor’s life all the way.

No no, I said SHE was being delusional. She said you were “negative” for offering to go to drug store and taking cab to see her?? That is HER being delusional, NOT you.

You are very smart and competent. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be here.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Well, my friend, I know these things due to great experience. I played A Game of Ho’s for a great many years. In time, you will become a wise and powerful Jedi as I have. Women just are. I have no emotions for them. I will f~~~ them, though. Do not invest in them emotionally. Period.

[Anonymous 7]

Mine was “the one” too.

No, scratch that.

Two times I’ve had “the one”.

There are over 20,000 members on this site, and each has had “the one” at least one time.

We have many lurkers here as well, and in a large unknown number. Most likely they are here because of their “the one”.

There are Men around the whole world trying to understand why “the one” they are with is a crazy she devil. They don’t even know about us… yet.

“The one” can go talk to “that one”, “the one” over there, and “this one” all they like now. They can compare notes. They can shame us. They can try to seduce us. They may even get violent towards us.

MGTOW shows that “the one” is real. There is only one way a female behaves, and AWALT.

The she devil’s nature, well, it just is. They are “the one” causing tremendous stress on Men and society.

You should feel lucky for figuring all this out during a six month relationship instead of over two decades with two or more of “the ones”.

AWALT and MGTOW is now the only way for this one to go.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Welcome to the forums brother. You crawled through a river of s~~~ and pasta sauce, and came out clean on the other side.

Things will improve in your life once you realize you do not NEED a woman for anything that you do.

I’ve had more than enough relations~~~s with ones I thought were NAWALT, only to see them banging another guy within a week of our breakup.

Good to see another man learn the truth about women.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Anonymous wrote:

Mine was “the one” too.
No, scratch that.
Two times I’ve had “the one”.
There are over 20,000 members on this site, and each has had “the one” at least one time.

Men go though life looking for “The One”.

Women go though life looking for “The NEXT One”.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Anonymous wrote:

MGTOW shows that “the one” is real. There is only one way a female behaves, and AWALT.

EPIC GOLD RIGHT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[joetechParticipant]

I’m guessing that when she breaks up with that other guy, or he dumps her, she’s going to get back in touch with you. She’ll say things like, “I was so wrong”, and “I just needed my space, but now…” and the lies will spew. Beware, I don’t think you’ve heard the last of this snowflake. I’d block her if I were you.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

There are over 20,000 members on this site, and each has had “the one” at least one time.

Not me, brother. I like too many women to pick one! But it’s a deadly and prevalent disease, and I understand it well enough. It’s a nasty trick of our biology. Your hormones make you think she’s the “one”…just long enough for her to trap you into providing for her and her brats for the rest of your life.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Men go though life looking for “The One”.

Women go though life looking for “The NEXT One”.

Nailed it XSDBS!!!

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

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