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There’s a little hottie that lives near me. We’ve talked a few times, but I’ve avoided any formal meeting. She saw me at the grocery store and actually asked if she could buy me lunch.
I was intrigued by the unicorn behaviour and decided to go along.
Indeed she was good on her word. Paid every cent, including the tip.
She was pleasant to talk with as well. Tom girl hobbies, shooting, fishing, camping. She owns her own house. Bought a repo and remodeled it…
We agreed to have dinner later in the week. I wasn’t sold, but not running for the hills either. I’m not even remotely interested in a LTR so I’m not really sure what I was expecting. I received far more than I anticipated!
We met early in the afternoon for a burger. She brought her young son. I was unaware she had one.
Guy’s I’m not a kid person… AT ALL.
The unicorn vanished. Then the kid said high and shook my hand. He couldn’t be more than seven years old. That kid was awesome. He had a camo hat on, talked about fishing and camping. Totally well behaved and instantly broke my spirit. We had burgers and I told him stories of my trips. We sat at the outside picnic table for over an hour. This kid was a mini me. I was having a blast. Then he asked his mom if I could take them camping.
That kid is starving for a male role model. I felt so bad for him. Then I snapped back to reality.
How do I know the father isn’t fighting with all he’s got to be in this kids life?
How bad would this kid be crushed if we became bros and then I disappeared.
The Mom was using her kid to rope me in. I didn’t even want to pump and dump her ass anymore. I was silently furious but outwardly nice. When I left the kid gave me a high five then hugged me and asked if I could go home with them.
I never understood the power a kid could have. To all you bros fighting to see or have time with yours. I can’t imagine what you’re going through.
The moms little trick of using her kid became the exact reason I walked away and can’t go back. I really feel bad for that little guy. I don’t want to date his mom. I won’t enter a LTR. I’m actually a little scared how quick we bonded. I don’t feel like I dodged a bullet. I feel like I saw one hit a kid.
Anonymous43its like the tv commercials, but wait there’s more
no only do you get a woman, you get her kids for free!!!
and yes, somewhere there is a frustrated father ready to car bomb yer ass if he thought he could get away with it. Ask any divorced dad here. Finding out some guy did something nice with their kid = raping that kid. I want to take my kids to the baseball game, I want to take my kids fishing. I want to take my kids to Disney World, not some guy my ex is dating. Do what ever you want to the woman, I don’t care about her.
no one tells you about this part of divorced life, some other man is taking your place in the kid’s lives. I try not to think about it, but it is there none the less.
Good for you dude for taking a little perspective here…the absent father, and the kid.
Maybe the father is no longer living.
Still this was a total blindside to you. On a “date”.
A very “hard sell” approach you were given.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
May 7.
When I read what you say about your situation I stand in awe. My ex has a name chad and I know they do things with my kids. I want to hurt the f~~~er for even thinking he can do that.
But I get to have mine as much as I like so at least I can limit the damage so other bastard can do.How you manage I simply do not know. And for that I salute you. Men like you make this site.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Finding out some guy did something nice with their kid = raping that kid. I want to take my kids to the baseball game, I want to take my kids fishing. I want to take my kids to Disney World, not some guy my ex is dating.
Exactly how I think I’d feel. And assume the dad does in this case.
Maybe the father is no longer living.
Still this was a total blindside to you. On a “date”.
A very “hard sell” approach you were given.
She mentioned his Dad once. He’s out there. I hope he never even hears about me. Especially from his kid
If you run into that kid again, forget about the mom, ask him all about his dad.
Anonymous43what gets me through is trusting that the guy that took up with my ex is not a raging alcoholic child molester. My children told me he was respectful and didn’t do much with them. They said he likes sitting on my couch and watching my big screen tv.
The other thing that got me through was as a teacher, I am a mandated reporter. I have to respond to signs of child abuse in my students or any children I observe anywhere. I make the call, someone investigates. That was made very clearly to the c~~~ and the Chad very early on. C~~~ can make one phone call. I can make one phone call.
I had my lawyer run a background check on him…a couple speeding tickets. fine. Lawyer strongly suggested that I not interfere in their household. no drama = no problems.
The first time I was introduced to him, I think he was expecting a fight given how he was posturing. Pretty sure the c~~~ told all kinds of lies about me. I paid little attention to the c~~~ or the Chad and stayed seated in the McDonalds booth coloring with my children. They stood there in the aisle at the end of the table uncomfortably, expecting me to do something, and I was paying attention to my kids. ZFG.
I only talked to him once on the phone and he was respectful to me. My kids needed to be picked up from school after school activity was cancelled. , I was number 2 on the call list, and I lived 3 hours away. The c~~~ did not put Chad on the school call list. C~~~ was in Europe for work. I had to call the c~~~ at 9pm her time to tell her to go pick up the kids. I had no idea she was in Europe, and she should have made arrangements for the kids to be with me…right of first refusal. Chad was at the house 1/2 mile away not realizing that there was a problem at school. Chad called me to let me know he had my kids. F~~~. a man calls me to tell me he has my children. mmmm yummy s~~~ sandwich. mmmmm I thanked him and hung up. I deleted the phone number. He sounded like the c~~~ reamed him out from the other side of the ocean. shaky weak voice.
I never talked to him at the kid pick up, never even got out of my car. I didn’t need the confrontation. I did not want to tell him what an evil bitch he was shacked up with and I didn’t thank him for setting me free. I did not want to interfere or have any suspicion of harassment.
I saw him at a couple of my kid’s band events. He looked like he wanted to be anywhere but there, and tagged along behind the c~~~ and my kids. He looked crushed, the same way I felt when I was with her. This made me glad the entire 3 hour ride home.
Seriously, what kind of c~~~ tells her Chad to drive her children 100 miles in a work truck to drop off the kids with their father? For 2 years? I’m too busy to do my court ordered duty, you do it for me. Really? A couple times she got a family friend to drive the kids.
You couldn’t pay me enough money to get me to deliver some woman’s kids to an ex-husband.
Anonymous12She brought her young son.
…aaaaand game over.
She brought her young son.
…aaaaand game over.
Yup! I knew it that instant. I decided to have a burger and enjoy myself anyway. What caught me off guard was usually I can’t stand kids. I avoid them all I can.
If I was still a complete blue pill idiot… I’d be in serious trouble right now.
For all I know she could just be using me as a tool to p~~~ her ex off. No thanks
what gets me through is trusting that the guy that took up with my ex is not a raging alcoholic child molester. My children told me he was respectful and didn’t do much with them. They said he likes sitting on my couch and watching my big screen tv.
The other thing that got me through was as a teacher, I am a mandated reporter. I have to respond to signs of child abuse in my students or any children I observe anywhere. I make the call, someone investigates. That was made very clearly to the c~~~ and the Chad very early on. C~~~ can make one phone call. I can make one phone call.
I had my lawyer run a background check on him…a couple speeding tickets. fine. Lawyer strongly suggested that I not interfere in their household. no drama = no problems.
The first time I was introduced to him, I think he was expecting a fight given how he was posturing. Pretty sure the c~~~ told all kinds of lies about me. I paid little attention to the c~~~ or the Chad and stayed seated in the McDonalds booth coloring with my children. They stood there in the aisle at the end of the table uncomfortably, expecting me to do something, and I was paying attention to my kids. ZFG.
I only talked to him once on the phone and he was respectful to me. My kids needed to be picked up from school after school activity was cancelled. , I was number 2 on the call list, and I lived 3 hours away. The c~~~ did not put Chad on the school call list. C~~~ was in Europe for work. I had to call the c~~~ at 9pm her time to tell her to go pick up the kids. I had no idea she was in Europe, and she should have made arrangements for the kids to be with me…right of first refusal. Chad was at the house 1/2 mile away not realizing that there was a problem at school. Chad called me to let me know he had my kids. F~~~. a man calls me to tell me he has my children. mmmm yummy s~~~ sandwich. mmmmm I thanked him and hung up. I deleted the phone number. He sounded like the c~~~ reamed him out from the other side of the ocean. shaky weak voice.
I never talked to him at the kid pick up, never even got out of my car. I didn’t need the confrontation. I did not want to tell him what an evil bitch he was shacked up with and I didn’t thank him for setting me free. I did not want to interfere or have any suspicion of harassment.
I saw him at a couple of my kid’s band events. He looked like he wanted to be anywhere but there, and tagged along behind the c~~~ and my kids. He looked crushed, the same way I felt when I was with her. This made me glad the entire 3 hour ride home.
Seriously, what kind of c~~~ tells her Chad to drive her children 100 miles in a work truck to drop off the kids with their father? For 2 years? I’m too busy to do my court ordered duty, you do it for me. Really? A couple times she got a family friend to drive the kids.
You couldn’t pay me enough money to get me to deliver some woman’s kids to an ex-husband.
I can picture her new guy looking at you as the one he’d rather be. Doesn’t sound like he’s living the dream.
As for the struggle for time with your kids and an evil ex, it makes any problems I have in my life seem trivial. Loads of respect bro
Time with the kid sounds more fun that the mom honestly.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
This is a very powerful story. Thank you for posting it.
Everyone needs to read this.
Anonymous12There is so much wrong in this whole setup.
And for f~~~s sake… i bet she told her son that she had met a very nice man, and that he would maybe come home with them “if the boy only asked”.
with a wink wink hint hintit is hard to let go of this, i can almost see the sad puppy eyes on the Kid and his mother standing there all theatrical.
Yet it is all an evil farce.
Trapper almost got trapped.
and the Kid still got an evil c~~~ for a mother.This is scary.
almost beyond words.She so obviously was using him as an emotional honeypot con. And you know she primed him with talking points, “He likes to fish too …you should ask him about his trips!”. This is no different than the PUAs use by bringing their dog out to the park. She was practically pimping him.
Sovereignty above all else.
She so obviously was using him as an emotional honeypot con. And you know she primed him with talking points, “He likes to fish too …you should ask him about his trips!”. This is no different than the PUAs use by bringing their dog out to the park. She was practically pimping him.
It’s insane. If she’ll do that with her own kids emotions and life, what did she do to her ex? What WOULD she try to do to me?
Truth of the matter is I sniffed this out fairly quick and painlessly. But damn!
There’s a little hottie that lives near me. We’ve talked a few times, but I’ve avoided any formal meeting. She saw me at the grocery store and actually asked if she could buy me lunch.
Checked you out previously and concluded that you were a prospect.
She was pleasant to talk with as well. Tom girl hobbies, shooting, fishing, camping. She owns her own house. Bought a repo and remodeled it …
Just what he wants to hear. The siren song of the unicorn. The serpent hypnotises its prey.
We agreed to have dinner later in the week. […] She brought her young son. I was unaware she had one.
A mega s~~~ test like that on a second meeting? Even by AWALT standards, that’s a fast worker.
He had a camo hat on, talked about fishing and camping. Totally well behaved and instantly broke my spirit. We had burgers and I told him stories of my trips. We sat at the outside picnic table for over an hour. This kid was a mini me. I was having a blast. Then he asked his mom if I could take them camping. […] When I left the kid gave me a high five then hugged me and asked if I could go home with them.
A carefully planned and scripted setup.
Sickening.
The unicorn vanished. Then the kid said high and shook my hand. He couldn’t be more than seven years old. That kid was awesome. He had a camo hat on, talked about fishing and camping. Totally well behaved and instantly broke my spirit. We had burgers and I told him stories of my trips. We sat at the outside picnic table for over an hour. This kid was a mini me. I was having a blast. Then he asked his mom if I could take them camping.
No no no no no no no no just no as that can open the door for being accused of child molestation in the case the relationship did not work out in which either the courts will f~~~ you over or daddy will try f~~~ing killing you.
Either way you do not need to get involved in that especially as it is not your kid as the woman baited you into this situation (aka she pretended to be a unicorn and you at least played in whether or not you realized what as gonna happen).
You have to realize mommy has been training that kid into getting another husband so she can get more financial support whether it be by a husbank or a alimony check. That kid is at the very least playing an act taught by mommy.
Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.
The unicorn vanished. Then the kid said high and shook my hand. He couldn’t be more than seven years old. That kid was awesome. He had a camo hat on, talked about fishing and camping. Totally well behaved and instantly broke my spirit. We had burgers and I told him stories of my trips. We sat at the outside picnic table for over an hour. This kid was a mini me. I was having a blast. Then he asked his mom if I could take them camping.
No no no no no no no no just no as that can open the door for being accused of child molestation in the case the relationship did not work out in which either the courts will f~~~ you over or daddy will try f~~~ing killing you.
Either way you do not need to get involved in that especially as it is not your kid as the woman baited you into this situation (aka she pretended to be a unicorn and you at least played in whether or not you realized what as gonna happen).
You have to realize mommy has been training that kid into getting another husband so she can get more financial support whether it be by a husbank or a alimony check. That kid is at the very least playing an act taught by mommy.
Valid concerns.
As for possible child abuse or molestation accusations if the relationship didn’t work out?
There is no relationship. Never even been alone with her.
This was a public setting with other people no less than 10′ away and at least 2 cameras watching the businesses outside dining area.
I also knew this would be my last meeting. I enjoyed talking to a kid that gave me hope not all of them are totally f~~~ed up.
I realize many here never would’ve agreed to have a burger with them. Especially when the kid was a total surprise. To each his own.
“Oh Johnny, why don’t you wear your new camo hat? It’s so cute!”
Ugh… I can just hear the script that hole came up…
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