She stalked me after she Ghosted

[RIP_PatriceParticipant 59]

So I broke up with this 23 yr old goofy chick. Because I wouldn’t “talk to her everyday” and slowly started not giving a f~~~ so much after about a month because I was tired of putting the effort in for some hairy fish.

Anyway I initiated the break up after she flaked one day & gave a lame excuse saying she was on her period. She went to Korea to see her sis then out to Bali with a friend for 3 weeks in total. Hadn’t heard from her so I initiated the dumping by text.

“Its NOT like WE TALK EVERYDAY!! I didn’t think we were anything serious, because we didn’t talk everyday” – she says. I guess its because those two times I f~~~ed her and never bothered texting or calling the next day, all built up into her me me me s~~~. This being before red pill I was suckered into being made to feel bad for it. The tables turned, she got me, now she doesn’t wanna meet up.

Anyway fast forward we’re no contact and I noticed anything I post on snapchat she is the 1st to view it instantly. She likes pictures I post on instagram. I thought f~~~ this and quit social media altogether and deleted and block her on everything.

…………………….

Now here’s the weirdest part: My mutual friend which used to be her manager (This is how I met my ex – at my job) (Lets call her Sara) Sara starts telling me soon after I went AFK that my ex texted her “out of the blue”. She has now started talking to Sara all of a sudden being buddy buddy. When funny thing is she always mocked her and made snide comments about her when we were dating. She NEVER text Sara “out of the blue” when we dated.

She tells her things like where she is going on holiday next (probably to whore herself out with no guilt) and most recently Sara met up with me for my bday – Sara tells me “she didn’t tell me everything, but she told me enough” we both smirked & smiled, and I didn’t bother dig into asking Sara “what did she tell you?”

Sara is actually a nice person. Probably because she turned 30 now is single and has seem the worst in women and dated bad men. It seems my ex is still trying to get the last word in through a mutual friend and possibly spread rumors & reassure about how much she didnt give a s~~~, and or how much sex she is having.

My question is why? I moved on and met somebody else, she might have found out. But isn’t this what she wanted? She didn’t want to reconcile because of her ego, what was I supposed to do? I turned down her friend zone offer, so what does she expect me to do?

Why stalk my profiles? Why talk to my friend all of a sudden? To initiate a conversation about me or what im doing? To ruin my reputation at work? (Which I left to get another job after break up)

Why cant she just get on with her life? Why does she have to have this weird last final word? She won, she got rid of me. So why does she still persist?

Sorry a lot of W questions..

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

If I understood why I would be a millionaire with the book I wrote.

I have experienced similar things in the past, I believe it’s because YOU did the breaking up with.
You took her power, and now she wants you to see her name pop up on instagram, snapchat, FB, whatever whenever she views or likes your posts

She wants her name to ring in your ear, in hopes of gaining her power over you back
…Don’t let it happen

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22522]

RIP_Patrice wrote:

Why stalk my profiles? Why talk to my friend all of a sudden? To initiate a conversation about me or what im doing? To ruin my reputation at work?

It is clear her joy in life is to see you suffer.

I know of cases where men where stalked for years by psycho-ex-bitch-girlfriends.

Sometimes the man whom is targeted was not even the girlfriend. And the man was a relative or friend of the ex-boyfriend the ex-girlfriend dated. The ex-boyfriend either disappeared or dead, with the psycho woman taking out her sadism on someone the ex-boyfriend knew.

I know of cases where this went across state lines. And one case of going international. Where the psycho women used long distance means to wreck men’s jobs and relationships, while the psycho women also tried to get those men thrown in jail based on false accusations.

[RIP_PatriceParticipant 59]

thisistheguy123 wrote:

If I understood why I would be a millionaire with the book I wrote.

I have experienced similar things in the past, I believe it’s because YOU did the breaking up with.
You took her power, and now she wants you to see her name pop up on instagram, snapchat, FB, whatever whenever she views or likes your posts

She wants her name to ring in your ear, in hopes of gaining her power over you back
…Don’t let it happen

The thing is though, I proposed the idea of meeting up to reconcile to her at least 3 times after I started the break up. When she tried friend zoning me I said “no im not interested in that” – she seemed surprised on the phone when I said that.

So if she didnt want to get back with me, why does she still want to butt-in my life?

Faust For Science wrote:

It is clear her joy in life is to see you suffer….Where the psycho women used long distance means to wreck men’s jobs and relationships, while the psycho women also tried to get those men thrown in jail based on false accusations.

Jesus! One thing I forgot to mention is the last thing she liked on my Facebook was a group picture of me and my colleagues, because it was my last day at that job and I had gotten a new one. It could be she knew how much I was making, but now since I blocked her she has no idea what im earning now, or where in the world Im working now. She knows nothing. Its like I revenge ghosted i guess.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Congratulations!

You are now officially The One That Got Away.

And that’s a good thing to be.

Stop giving any f~~~s about your ex. It will drive her insane with regret and envy. And that’s hilarious.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Start logging this s~~~. You may just be seeing the tip of the ice berg as to how crazy she could get.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

RIP_Patrice wrote:

thisistheguy123 wrote:

If I understood why I would be a millionaire with the book I wrote.

I have experienced similar things in the past, I believe it’s because YOU did the breaking up with.
You took her power, and now she wants you to see her name pop up on instagram, snapchat, FB, whatever whenever she views or likes your posts

She wants her name to ring in your ear, in hopes of gaining her power over you back
…Don’t let it happen

The thing is though, I proposed the idea of meeting up to reconcile to her at least 3 times after I started the break up. When she tried friend zoning me I said “no im not interested in that” – she seemed surprised on the phone when I said that.

So if she didnt want to get back with me, why does she still want to butt-in my life?

I would say because you took away her power

Her pussy no longer has power over you, and she’s not use to that… And she NEEDS to have power in order to feel secure because she has nothing else to offer society than sex.

[RIP_PatriceParticipant 59]

thisistheguy123 wrote:

I would say because you took away her power

Her pussy no longer has power over you, and she’s not use to that… And she NEEDS to have power in order to feel secure because she has nothing else to offer society than sex.

I guess I did take away some power. A huge part of me wishes I had just told her to f~~~ off once she flaked on me. Because in my opinion once these bitches start doing that its over for me.

But I really think she just wanted to be spiteful and tell Sara how much amazing sex shes having now and how “great” “supposedly” her life is. Hoping that Sara would tell me. She was a narcissist.

FrostByte wrote:

Start logging this s~~~. You may just be seeing the tip of the ice berg as to how crazy she could get.

Its coming up to a year since this happen so yeah I will be logging. One thing she did recently was delete her Facebook completely now. So Ive been told. Im too old for this s~~~, ill be turning 30 this year

[Anonymous 1]

The one question you need to ask yourself next, and this is very important, so listen carefully.

Why do you care?

As The Psych says.

Stop it!

[RIP_PatriceParticipant 59]

Anonymous wrote:

The one question you need to ask yourself next, and this is very important, so listen carefully.

Why do you care?

I guess I just want to prepare myself if ever there was to be a next time

[Anonymous 5]

My brothers last girlfriend did that immature s~~~.as soon as she got back to Arizona from being with us in georgia she sent a text to say I got this new boyfriend that f~~~s better than you.its like see I can do better Imliving the high life without you its just to make you get on your knees and come crawling back to her .

[Writing Desk RavenParticipant 460]

FrostByte wrote:

Start logging this s~~~. You may just be seeing the tip of the ice berg as to how crazy she could get.

This.

If you’re seeing a girl do crazy s~~~, it’s only because it outgrew her ability to keep it a secret.

Finding out a girl does something bizarre is akin to inexplicably seeing a vine growing through the floor of your house — yeah, it’s just a harmless little bit of green, if it wasn’t for Audrey II being on the other end of it.

Don’t go digging for the answer or you’re going to be her next meal.

"Almost the main work of life is to come out of our selves, out of the little dark prison we are all born in... The danger is that of coming to love the prison." ~ C.S. Lewis

[RIP_PatriceParticipant 59]

oh yeah forgot to add her last boyfriend dumped her and took her off all social media too.

Ok im done. F~~~ women

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