She said yes! I'm getting married!

[Anonymous 6]

I’m with Old Sage on this one. I’m a strait shooter and I always have been. But, at the same time I’ll say that I’ve seen some good men loose their best friends or get estranged to close family members over situations like yours, even when the red pills where absolutely needed and true. You have just got to let them crash and burn. Now that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be there for him or listen to him when he talks to you.

A good friend of mine referred me to this website. He had been married and then went through a divorce that almost killed him emotionally. I was there for him the whole time. I knew he was f~~~ing up, but I didn’t say a word. He would call me and tell me stuff wasn’t all rosy, why? Because I was the only one he had that he knew he could trust to listen to him and give him the strait poop. Now he’s as red pill as can be, in large part because of me. Do you see how that works?

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

After only 9 months? Way too quick.
Nobody’s safe though. I “dated” my XW for 5 years before taking the plunge, but the marriage lasted even less than 5

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

This is a hard one. What to do varies by the individual. Buck knows his brother the best. If he wont take the advice and then hates his brother and hates him more when it fails and doesnt learn anything its no good. If he might actually listen to his brother and he thinks it might have a chance to sink in, hes the kind of guy you try to awaken before disaster.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 54]

Bushido wrote:

BuckFitches wrote:

She’s quitting her job to take care of the house they don’t own yet.

As if it wasn’t bad enough to propose, the first Red Flag is already flying high. I can only wonder how the rest of this is going to go. . .

They quit working because it will set the presedent for receiveing alominy later. C~~~s already planning it.

[OldBillParticipant]

BuckFitches wrote:

I wonder how long it will be until I post about them getting divorced.

Let him fall. Let him make his own mistakes. Let him walk into the hell that awaits him.

You know what is gong to happen. We all here know what is going to happen. He’s going to learn would will happen.

Let him learn.

Just be there when he needs a hand afterwards.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

If it were my brother

MY flesh and blood – the temptation for me to say something to him like

“Look at how she treats you ” and “THINK ABOUT IT” would be almost overwhelming .

Love meaning emotional bonding ( in the brain anyway )

Is VERY similar to drug addiction .

But I would also say

“Dont EVER put me in the middle”

…

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

You’ll have to help him when he’ll fall, it’s your brother.

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[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

She’s really beautiful so I feel like he would think I’m jealous if I said anything. However I will ask the right questions to get him thinking.

also if you think two years is the right time to wait, you’re wrong. Your entire life is the right time to wait 😉 I ain’t gettin married!

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[OldBillParticipant]

BuckFitches wrote:

She’s really beautiful so I feel like he would think I’m jealous if I said anything. However I will ask the right questions to get him thinking.

Bite your tongue, paint a smile on your face, offer no opinions, and never ever ever let her drag you into the middle of things.

What for the disaster and then offer your help.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

BuckFitches wrote:

She’s quitting her job to take care of the house they don’t own yet. She’s already licking her lips thinking about digging into his wallet and exploiting his resources

Wow. Even my dumb ass old blue pill self would question this.

Get a vasectomy.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Oldschool wrote:

BuckFitches wrote:

She’s quitting her job to take care of the house they don’t own yet. She’s already licking her lips thinking about digging into his wallet and exploiting his resources

Wow. Even my dumb ass old blue pill self would question this.

He’s madly in love alright. My brother wants her to make sure the house is clean every time he comes home and he wants there to always be food ready to eat. That’s her job. I bet she does it for a while and then gives up

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Anonymous 11]

BuckFitches wrote:

just proposed to his girlfriend of nine months.

My mother, a very wise woman, said not to do that for at least two years.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

BuckFitches wrote:

That’s her job. I bet she does it for a while and then gives up

Yeah, she will do it for a while, years maybe, then get bored and leave him.

Get a vasectomy.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

You can help your brother by simply sharing your opinion that 9 months is not very much time to size up the most important decision he’s likely to ever make. Suggest a long engagement, one that does not include acquisition of real estate on his own and definitely not jointly. Suggest co-habitation without marriage as a middle ground, especially if he is renting. Yes, cohabitation carries its own bag of tricks but it’s still better than putting a ring on it and buying a big house. These measures may give him time to snap out of it through his own experience—the same way he fell in love. He needs to be protected from himself.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

BuckFitches wrote:

If he says he’s madly in love with her I will respect his words by staying out of it. My whole family likes her so I’m gonna jump on board and hope for the best. I’ll be there for him if it fails.

And trust me, it will.

His penis is in love with her vagina, that’s all there is to it. Everything else is smoke and mirrors.

To quote Rick, from Rick and Morty: “Listen Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people calls “love” is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. “

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Ranger One wrote:

To quote Rick, from Rick and Morty: “Listen Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people calls “love” is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. “

I have GOT to watch that show!

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[goodkid43Spectator 550]

foghornleghorn wrote:

I would advise you to seriously talk to your brother. Seriously do it man. I have an older brother whose entire life was f~~~ed up by his marriage. I wish I could have talked to him and it breaks my heart when we hang out. He is literally living for the day his youngest daughter graduates and after that he just talks about checking out.

THIS.

You are a coward for not saying something to your brother. I thought MGTOW promoted courage in face of the lies and of the potential for 18 YEARS of suffering BECAUSE you admit that she is a bitch.
I would assert that saying something now will give you authority when he experiences the suffering in the future. If you are wrong, no big deal.

Think about what foghornleghorn said again:

“I wish I could have talked to him and it breaks my heart when we hang out. He is literally living for the day his youngest daughter graduates and after that he just talks about checking out.”

MGTOW DOES NOT PROMOTE COWARDICE!!! If this were so, then Keymaster would never have started this blog because the suffering of others is of no concern of his.

God bless, Michael

[joetechParticipant]

He’s an adult and he has to make his own decisions in life. My brother was adamantly opposed to me going into the Navy and he let me know it. It drove a rift in our relationship for thirty years. He was a career officer, but I shouldn’t join the Navy for six years and get all I could out of it? In the end, I survived the Navy and it was the best thing for me, but I never forgave him for his hypocrisy. Joining the military and getting married are quite similar, I think. Be supportive, not judgemental, but if he asks for your opinion give him an honest one. Don’t be like my brother was and still is. He can’t handle the truth about life and it cost him a healthy relationship with the only brother he had. Your brother is on a journey…his journey, not yours. Just don’t get caught up in any family drama this marriage may cause. Family is the worst.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[bstoffParticipant 4867]

Say something to him.
Don’t lay anything on him about MGTOW.
Just let him know that he should give it more time and find out who she really is.

A future divorce rape and possibly losing his future children could one day drive him to suicide.
You don’t want that on your conscience.

If your brother puts off the wedding for even a short time, the bride may show some signs of her true nature to him.

There are lots of ways to rescue him, under the radar, just by creating situations that she is put on the spot to reveal character flaws and controlling behavior.

You can drop subtle red pills and make it clear to him that you are here for him if he wants to talk about the relationship and whether he is unsure of his decision at any point.

Best of luck to both of you.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

BuckFitches wrote:

My brother just proposed to his girlfriend of nine months. He told me with excitement, “She said yes! I’m getting married!” And I got sick in my stomach. THANK GOD you guys told me not to mention MGTOW to too many people because I wanted to mention it to him so badly. And it’s only by chance that I haven’t yet because we usually tell each other everything.

My brother’s bride-to-be is a bitch. She’s really nice to everyone except for him. My brother is a gentle guy who makes a lot of money and his girl friend is totally using him for that. She’s quitting her job to take care of the house they don’t own yet. She’s already licking her lips thinking about digging into his wallet and exploiting his resources. And don’t tell me to warn my brother of the monstrosity to come because he’s “madly in love with her.” Mad? Sure. But in love? No f~~~ing way!

I wonder how long it will be until I post about them getting divorced.

Buck, although its unlikely…. I hope your brother ends up happy.

I am going thru similar with my brother. In a few days he will be a Dad. She is an absolute c*nt, I hate her guts and what she has done to my brother, but I hope for the best possible life with the baby that’s coming. I however, will not be responsible for any of that.

When/if the whole thing turns to chit with your brother, be there for him and disperse the red pills at that time. He simply CANNOT see any common sense right now.

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